Escorts who change the game

[muscmtl]

This happens so often that I'm not hiring anymore. I never hire unless the terms are agreed:for me, the escort has to kiss suck swallow and btm bb. Escorts are 100% allowed to say no and most do, but some will agree to all. Then, change the game once money has been exchanged, barely kissing and telling me that they are fukn tops, so no sucking and no fucking his ass. I know they are tops, but they advertised top/vers... Problem is that the guys I go for are muscle beef, and I end up paying for the exact opposite for what was agreed because I don't want to risk pissing off a guy that could hurt me, and as this is escorting, I can't take these guys to court for breach of contract.

I've hired 5 guys and all 5 played the same game, thinking that they are so muscle and hot that just showing up is enough. And sick thing is that for 99% of their clients, it is: so many out there happy to pay to get fucked and nothing else.

Any client had the guts to refuse to pay because none of the sex acts that were agreed occurred? and if yes, what happened. Of course, getting an escort point of view would be great.

Thanks

Steve

[+ OliverSaks]

I’m sorry about your bad experiences.

 

Hire well-reviewed escorts from the review site or this board - I’m going to presume that you did not do this, if you did, my apologies

 

I am NOT shocked to hear story after story (here and privately) about guys having bad experiences with the guys they hire. DO NOT put up with some hot guy’s bullshit - yes his body is amazing, yes he starred in some porn, but NO he cannot stand you up multiple times / fail to deliver the promised services / disrespect you.

 

/rant

[+ Tarte Gogo]

Please write reviews on Daddy so that we know who they are.

We can weed out by not hiring them, but we can only not-hire them if we know how they behave behind closed doors.

[+ nycman]

Welcome to the Sandbox.

 

1) Do your homework and only hire well reviewed escorts.

 

2) Never pay upfront.

 

That will solve 95% of your problems.....now for the rest....

 

End a session immediately if the provider is not keeping his end of the deal.

Once you realize you are being scammed....it NEVER gets better. Trust me. End it.

 

They know full well they are trying to scam you and they are counting on you

backing down and "paying them to leave". They also know when the fish has jumped

off the hook. If they're a scammer...this isn't the first time it's happened to them.

 

Your safety comes first....but I've never had an escort get violent when I've called

them out on their deceptions. I generally do pay a small "showing up /taxi fee" if

we get beyond "meet and greet" phase before it becomes clear I'm being scammed.

We're talking less than $50. Most take the token payment and run for the hills.

 

Be firm. Be direct. Be polite. Don't blink.

 

It helps if you're a New Yorker....if you're not....now is the time to FAKE IT!

 

Remember, escorts scammers don't want security/police called any more than you do.

[+ JEC]

Steve I had a few experiences like this, as a result have started to more research before engaging. Much info can be gathered here esp by PM'ing other members. Agree with @nycman recommendations above. Don't quit, refine your game.

[MichBoyBlake]

Yeah, definitely don't pay up front. I'd actually be a little confused and maybe a little bit worried if a client were to pay me up front like that.

[+ VictorPowers]

I'm sorry you've been cowriemced that! Those individuals really ruin it for both clients and escorts.

[marylander1940]

This happens so often that I'm not hiring anymore. I never hire unless the terms are agreed:for me, the escort has to kiss suck swallow and btm bb. Escorts are 100% allowed to say no and most do, but some will agree to all. Then, change the game once money has been exchanged, barely kissing and telling me that they are fukn tops, so no sucking and no fucking his ass. I know they are tops, but they advertised top/vers... Problem is that the guys I go for are muscle beef, and I end up paying for the exact opposite for what was agreed because I don't want to risk pissing off a guy that could hurt me, and as this is escorting, I can't take these guys to court for breach of contract.

I've hired 5 guys and all 5 played the same game, thinking that they are so muscle and hot that just showing up is enough. And sick thing is that for 99% of their clients, it is: so many out there happy to pay to get fucked and nothing else.

Any client had the guts to refuse to pay because none of the sex acts that were agreed occurred? and if yes, what happened. Of course, getting an escort point of view would be great.

Thanks

Steve

 

You've been really very unlucky...

 

Your requests sound pretty main stream, even an escort BB with a client now that we are in the era of PrEP . Btw do you want the guy to swallow your cum after he cums? Most men usually can't be horny after cumming and are unwilling to swallow from a partner, let alone a client.

Edited April 9, 2018 by marylander1940

[muscmtl]

first thanks for all the great answers you guys are the best.

I don't think I was scamme. I blame everything on this new obsession with big dicks, that no one's having sex anymore, most guys just want to have a big dick up their ass and that's it, and they're willing to pay good money for it. my bad escorts probably never had to do anything more than get a hard-on and fuck. they did try to suck and kiss but it was pathetic. each thought that once I saw them naked with their big dicks, I would have been pleased, because all their clients are... problem is I so don't care about dick size or whether the guy can get a hard-on or not.

 

I know what you guys mean about reviews, but unless you live in a huge city where there are tons of escorts, your local escorts rarely have reviews

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i understand standing my ground but again this is an illegal act and the risk of the guy having a fit is just too high for me, I need to travel for my work and if you have a criminal record you lose your passport.

 

So what's left, just go on travel to New York since it seems that all the guys I want are there.

[muscmtl]

 

i mean cum in his ass, wait 10 minutes while we cuddle, then get a hardon andcome in his mouth

[DavidMore]

 

i mean cum in his ass, wait 10 minutes while we cuddle, then get a hardon andcome in his mouth

Hot fantasy! Jackoffable !!

[LaffingBear]

Ive never had a session then refused to pay for unsatisfactory services. I can remember complaining once... to no tangible benefit .

 

But Ive arrived and found guys entirely unmatched to advertisements and departed without paying. And had a couple of appointments take a disgusting turn very early into the session, and left... once no payment, once minimal.

 

Ive paid a little to end sessions quickly on my turf... once in my home, once in my car.

 

I can't state I havent been nervous or afraid... but I have some internal control that refuses to actively participate in being scammed or victimized. So, there have been a few occasions when Ive insisted a bad egg leave my hotel room. Always at the beginning based on false ads. Took a breath, held my ground. Picked up phone and asked for security once - guy bolted. I'm admittedly bolder in a hotel room.

 

I tried remembering all of my experiences shortly after joining the forum. Just a personal curiosity version of "what's your number? " As best I can recall, my rentguy number is under 40. 6-8 total fall somewhere in the unsatisfactory category. I think I paid full amount twice.