Tricky situation

[dtopoc]

How can one approach an escort for his services if one knows him socially as a friend ? Any input would be great .

[+ GregM]

I'm not sure this would be a good idea.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[+ nycman]

How can one approach an escort for his services if one knows him socially as a friend ? Any input would be great .

Can you? Yes.

 

Is it a good idea? No.

[Bearofdistinction]

Can you? Yes.

 

Is it a good idea? No.

 

I guess it depends on how you know this person --- Casual meeting at Aunt Marthas BBQ Bday -- or at the Bathhouse in the dungeon.

 

Either way I would approach gently -- 4

 

Hi we met at >>>>> I think you are >>>>>>

I understand that you may be/ are available for professional engagements and would be interested if you are comfortable . . . .

[kaboom35]

You have to read him. I met an escort in “real life” at a party. I knew it was him instantly from his rentmen ad. There was a group of us just hanging out and he was funny, sarcastic, and seemed really chill. He went to the food table and I followed. He was making small talk with me and i blurted out that I saw his ad on rentmen. He winked at me and told me to call him later at midnight. So I did. I went over and had a hot time and he didn’t even charge me. He told me since we met organically at a party he didn’t feel right charging me. Cool guy. That was a positive incident. A couple months later, I saw an escort at the grocery store and I passed him I said hello by his escort name. He wasn’t pleased I approached him even though I was being nice. I admit that was a bad error in judgment. The first guy I had a chance to meet and chat before I told him I knew he was an escort. The 2nd dude I didn’t. You can see how different the two incidents are .

[escortrod]

This has only happened to me once. I didn't work out well.