No kissing? (Or unenthusiastic about doing it)?

[njr47]

For me, an escort who likes to kiss---and is good at it---is an absolute necessity. So, when one of our forum members indicates an escort won't kiss, I cross him off my wish list. For future reference, though, which of the escorts you have met refuses to kiss, or is very unenthusiastic about doing it.

[LaffingBear]

Sorry to be a wet blanket...

 

I've hired guys with a reputation as great kissers - they wouldn't kiss.

I've hired guys reputed to never ever kiss - they were extraordinarily passionate kissers.

 

I believe most rentguys would tell you it's an individual-specific response.

 

So, while I'm certain you'll get plenty of opinions, I don't believe that the responses will prove practical or reliable.

[big-n-tall]

Most of the guys I see regularly are good to amazing kissers, save one. He isn't the best kisser. He mainly is just a kiss on the lips type of guy. However, We have such an amazing rapport (sexually and non-sexually) I forgive him in his non-kissing abilities. LOL! He's retired though, but I see him once a year at least.

 

The few guys I've hired who promised to “passionately” kiss, but refused when I got there or just gave me pecks on the lips... only got my business once. Don't promise something you can't or won't deliver.

[amused1]

I had a recent experience with an escort who, after a few minutes of kissing pulled back and said "You're a great kisser.". I was kind of surprised and asked him about kissing and clients. He said they often don't seem to know how to read/respond to kissing. Some get too aggressive too quickly others are too flabby and sloppy. Maybe past experience guides some escorts and their kissing policy?

[MikeBiDude]

I will say that the various styles of kissing run a larger gamut than I ever thought. And, some of the guys who thought they were great kissers, eh not so much

[MikeyGMin]

I will say that the various styles of kissing run a larger gamut than I ever thought. And, some of the guys who thought they were great kissers, eh not so much

Amen! I'm currently seeing someone (who I can't get enough of) who has a different style of kissing than I'm used to. I think he's a great kisser, but some would describe it as "dry" because it is not sloppy and there's not a lot of tongue. It is extremely tender and sensuous and there is no hesitation on his part. It's just a different style that builds as he gets worked up -- but never into a tongue jamming, mouth gobbling situation. I'm glad that I'm able to appreciate it for what it is because the sessions are great.

 

Another favorite is all about the tongue. We can play tongue hockey for the entire hour and I never get tired of it!

[+ Avalon]

Just explain to the escort the kind of kissing you want.

[caliguy]

Sex can be done mechanically but deep kissing is something all together different. I think it's where the pedal hits the medal and goes beyond what some acting and viagra can achieve on it's own. It show's they like you to some degree. Personally I'd just prefer to leave it off the table and if it happens it's a big plus. Demanding it would lose any specialness to it.

[njr47]

Following up on my original post, if anyone wants to send me a PM about an escort who won't kiss, or doesn't seem to really like it (or want to do it), please send it.