Recommendations for "first time"?

[+ José Soplanucas]

It would be nice if we all are respectful of the OP's request instead of pushing him to like what we like. Apparently I am asking for too much.

[Lee_jeff]

Boy! Are you missing out on a deluxe A+ experience. I don't know many men who are fit and handsome as Dane at his age AND as sexually desirable and capable.

He would make a great "teacher" for this OP! Maybe even for you, @LookingAround.

 

You should give more respect to others' selection instead of forcing others like what you like....

[+ g56whiz]

50 is the new 30!

 

Talk to me when 70 is the new 40!!!

[LivingnLA]

So, I am 27 and I've only had sex once in my life at age 25 (got a BJ at 23 but don't know if that counts). Long story...anyway, I, like most other men, have needs and have been considering hiring an escort to have those needs met and to gain some experience in the bedroom.

 

I'd like some recommendations on who I should look into hiring. Preferably someone in or who travels to the NYC area. I'm into white guys who are cut and preferably in their 20s or 30s. Someone who will make me feel comfortable.

 

I like guys who have a certain look and I can't explain it. I guess a nice face OR a really nice body/cock. No one too hairy though. To give you an idea, some gay porn stars that I am into are Parker London, Paddy O'Brian, Brandon from SeanCody, Landon Mycles/Marcus Mojo, Kevin Crows, Trystan Bull (I know he isn't cut, but I'd make an exception for him), Cody Cummings, Zeb Atlas, Mark Dalton, Devin Draz, Brad Star, Tyler Torro, etc. Straight porn stars I like are Chris Johnson, Chris Strokes, Bill Bailey, Danny Mountain and Ramon Nomar (again, not cut but I'd make an exception), Charles Dera, Johnny Castle, Julian, Seth Gamble, and Chad White.

 

Any recommendations are appreciated!

 

[uSER=17025]@liguy11[/uSER], welcome to the forum! There's a wealth of knowledge here. I would do as others have suggested and look on rent.men in the NYC area for guys you like and then do a 411 post in "The Deli" section of the forum asking for feedback about say, your top-10 choices. That way, people can refer you to reviews on Daddy's for your choices and share their thoughts and experiences. Beyond that, I would say the following...

 

1. Have you gotten all of your vaccinations? Hepatitis? Meningitis? HPV? I know this sounds scary or excessive, but the MSM (Men who have Sex with Men) population is high risk. Couple that with professional sex workers (another high risk population) and it's logical to prepare yourself, especially since you're a 27yro "virgin" who's only had 1 oral sex interaction so far in your life.

 

2. Educate yourself on safer sex practices and think about what risks you're prepared to take. For example, oral sex without a condom? Cum in your mouth? Even a hand job can be risky for transmission of some things, like warts and a few others.

 

3. Have you thought what you want to do with the escort? I imagine yes, so factor that into your planning. As others mention, an escort with a very large penis introduces a variety of issues for you performing oral sex on them and bottoming for them. All of it can be taken into to account, so it's better to plan ahead for the best experience than it is to jump in without thought and potentially be disappointed after spending hours and hundreds/thousands of dollars.

 

Lastly, and most importantly--and probably challenging after all of this--but RELAX AND HAVE FUN! Human contact, conversation, and intimacy are all potentially powerful, intense, and enjoyable experiences. Don't be surprised if you learn something about yourself that you don't expect. Enjoy!

[LADoug1]

Did you look at the original post? The poster is looking for a guy in his 20s or 30s..... Dane Scott is in his 50s......

 

I realized this. My bad. I guess Dane is so great I think he is ageless.

[+ Funguy]

Talk to me when 70 is the new 40!!!

 

I'm spitting distance!

[Guest liguy11]

PS not sure if you mentioned if you are Top Btm Vers or figuring it out?

 

I’m a top by default I guess. I can’t bottom due to intestinal surgeries I had as a teen. :-/

 

And thank you everyone for the recommendations!

[+ Charlie]

You don't have to be top or bottom--anal sex is not required to qualify as "having sex." Just do what turns you on, with someone who is flexible.