curious - one time vs. ongoing hiring

[Guest Jockseeker]

I have had some great regulars.... one was for 7 years (on and off as he moved a bit).... we are still good friends. A few others were regulars for 2 or 3 years.

It does seem much more difficult now to find the guys with the personality and honesty to carry a long term arrangement.

I saw one guy about 10 times about 10 years ago..... he was very popular and commented upon often on these boards. I ran into him at Starbucks a few

months ago looking great.. (now with a professional career and 2 kids).... but we hooked up one afternoon and it was just as good as ever!

Currently in the market for a good regular!!

[+ DickyF]

I’d like to have a regular when at home but all the multiple encounters I’ve had end up retiring shortly. One I’m still friends with but he has quit escorting, one moved out of town and quit the biz, one quit bc he was afraid of being found out, another quit bc he got a BF who wanted him to quit.

There is a new guy that I hope will become a regular but I haven’t even seen him yet!

[TruthBTold]

I had the great good luck to find a regular fairly close to the time that I started to hire . That was close to 10+ years ago. It took a couple of sessions to get into a rhythm and then it developed into a relationship that had OK, good, and really, really good sessions. Unfortunately, he recently moved and I've decided to try to find a new regular.

[Gar1eth]

Around 40% of the people I see, I see more than once. I've been fortunate to have 100% privacy with all seen (although maybe that's no coincidence if everyone I see is indifferent to see me again on their end).

 

I’m sorry. I didn’t understand the ‘100% privacy’ remark. Would you mind explaining?

 

Gman

[Racketjock]

I consider myself fortunate to have had two amazing regulars for a duration that was all to brief. Michael (St. Louis/ Ft. Myers) was my first regular for over 3 years and my first escort hire. AndrewD was my second regular and that joy lasted almost 4 years, if my aging memory serves me correctly. Both of the talented and handsome men were amazing, giving me some of the best moments of my life. I miss them.

[TruHart1]

Going back to the very first escort I ever hired nearly 6 years ago, @AresEscortNYC, I have continued a pattern of developing friendships with my regular hires, all escorts with whom I've found uniquely satisfying chemistry! I also view certain cities in terms of must-see regulars. NYC: Ares, Apollo Phoenix, and Bryan Knight; Chicago: Raul G. Manzo, Uriel, and Andrew Justice (before he retired this summer); Vegas: @peterhung85; Dallas: Logan Brock and Luca (before he retired); and Atlanta: JD Daniels.

 

Additionally, there are a number of regulars who travel to my city on a regular basis: Dario from DC, @Mikegaite, StefanoXXL and Armann (HotDude28) from Mexico City visit two or three times each year and I always hire them when they're here! Once in a while, I will find an ad for a new escort which intrigues me, so, if I am able to vet them to my satisfaction, I will hire them for a "test run." I'd say my pattern is about 90% regulars and 10% new guys. Of course, there are men on my wish list such as (just to name a couple) @VictorPowers and @Cyd_StVincent, I would definitely hire if we were ever in the same location at the same time.

 

TruHart1

[Cyd_StVincent]

Going back to the very first escort I ever hired nearly 6 years ago, @AresEscortNYC, I have continued a pattern of developing friendships with my regular hires, all escorts with whom I've found uniquely satisfying chemistry! I also view certain cities in terms of must-see regulars. NYC: Ares, Apollo Phoenix, and Bryan Knight; Chicago: Raul G. Manzo, Uriel, and Andrew Justice (before he retired this summer); Vegas: @peterhung85; Dallas: Logan Brock and Luca (before he retired); and Atlanta: JD Daniels.

 

Additionally, there are a number of regulars who travel to my city on a regular basis: Dario from DC, @Mikegaite, StefanoXXL and Armann (HotDude28) from Mexico City visit two or three times each year and I always hire them when they're here! Once in a while, I will find an ad for a new escort which intrigues me, so, if I am able to vet them to my satisfaction, I will hire them for a "test run." I'd say my pattern is about 90% regulars and 10% new guys. Of course, there are men on my wish list such as (just to name a couple) @VictorPowers and @Cyd_StVincent, I would definitely hire if we were ever in the same location at the same time.

 

TruHart1

 

Well, I feel very honored (and anticipatory) to make the list

[TruHart1]

Well, I feel very honored (and anticipatory) to make the list

I have it on the best authority (one of my favorite regular hires!) that you are excellent at furnishing a wonderful BFE! I am also quite impressed by your most sensuous sexual organ; your intelligence, which is always apparent in your postings here on the forum! Add to that my curiosity about meating a hot man who has a "bonus" hole, and I'm happy to publicly acknowledge that I have been intrigued by the thought that someday, I would be able to experience a few hours getting to know you, @Cyd_StVincent!!!

 

TruHart1

[+ goosh69]

I like new guys. Means I’m disappointed often. But there have been a couple guys I’ve seen more than once.

[+ peterhung85]

Going back to the very first escort I ever hired nearly 6 years ago, @AresEscortNYC, I have continued a pattern of developing friendships with my regular hires, all escorts with whom I've found uniquely satisfying chemistry! I also view certain cities in terms of must-see regulars. NYC: Ares, Apollo Phoenix, and Bryan Knight; Chicago: Raul G. Manzo, Uriel, and Andrew Justice (before he retired this summer); Vegas: @peterhung85; Dallas: Logan Brock and Luca (before he retired); and Atlanta: JD Daniels.

 

Additionally, there are a number of regulars who travel to my city on a regular basis: Dario from DC, @Mikegaite, StefanoXXL and Armann (HotDude28) from Mexico City visit two or three times each year and I always hire them when they're here! Once in a while, I will find an ad for a new escort which intrigues me, so, if I am able to vet them to my satisfaction, I will hire them for a "test run." I'd say my pattern is about 90% regulars and 10% new guys. Of course, there are men on my wish list such as (just to name a couple) @VictorPowers and @Cyd_StVincent, I would definitely hire if we were ever in the same location at the same time.

 

TruHart1

I think it is time to change your username "TruHart1" to "TrueSWEETHart1"

[MikeyGMin]

Means I’m disappointed often.

I like how you acknowledge that as just a fact when you're always chasing "the new." Sort of like a cost of doing business. No histrionics about those bad bad escorts who misrepresent themselves. Pretty cool.

[Guest davebk]

I've never repeated.

Part of me wonders if the allure of the "next hire" being hotter than the last pulls me to keep trying new guys instead of repeats.

 

I also really like the anonymity of hiring, and that seems to lessen if there is an on-going connection.

[Cyd_StVincent]

I have it on the best authority (one of my favorite regular hires!) that you are excellent at furnishing a wonderful BFE! I am also quite impressed by your most sensuous sexual organ; your intelligence, which is always apparent in your postings here on the forum! Add to that my curiosity about meating a hot man who has a "bonus" hole, and I'm happy to publicly acknowledge that I have been intrigued by the thought that someday, I would be able to experience a few hours getting to know you, @Cyd_StVincent!!!

 

TruHart1

 

"Don't dream it, be it" as, I believe, Rocky Horror said

[MartyB]

I have found for the most part meeting my regular escort works best. When a great relationship is created it actually becomes better over time. The sex gets better because it's chemistry and an understanding that bas developed. Several of my regulars relocated but my instincts research and an understanding of what I know about myself and what works for me has managed to find some great men...

[Reluctant Daddy]

I like the idea of a regular hire, but is it possible that they may become complacent in the arrangement?

[BiMark]

Have to drop my 2 cents on this as I’ve been hiring on and off for the last 10 years. It’s hard to find someone that you want to be a regular. But once you do it’s amazing when you able to connect with them and communic with them like they’re a close friend. Intimate times are more meaningful and sensual. I’ve had a couple of regulars (1 currently) over the last 10+ years and that my preference. But there always is that risk that they move away, quit the business or settle down with someone permanently. So always have to keep my eyes open for that next potential regular and try new providers. There just aren’t many good honest ones out there that meet the criteria.

[MikeyGMin]

I like the idea of a regular hire, but is it possible that they may become complacent in the arrangement?

In my experience, they have not. There are certain things that I enjoy and I’m not all about trying new things. My two regulars know that about me so the sessions are very similar each time, but that’s my choice — not complacency on their part. I used to worry that they would get bored until my current regular reminded me that the sessions are still about me. He gets his needs met elsewhere.

[Finbar]

always on the lookout for new experiences; however, most hires are with regulars as long as they are available. As we all know, regulars often find a daddy or for some other reason leave the business.

[TruthBTold]

I got lucky and after a couple of not bad but nothing earth shattering encounters met someone I have seen for over a decade. I think that like any long lasting relationships things can become intermittently complacent but has previously noted you just have to remind your partner that you like this or that and would like it done. The nice thing is that the familiarity lets you try different things and thus make it more exciting. There is nothing better than having one of the pair leap up directly after a session and say, "Now that was good sex."

[tenderloin]

I am lucky in having the wide menu that is NYC; I have a few regulars who know how to push my buttons just so... I have one or two particular kinks and it is nice to find guys who happily accommodate. That being said, I always review RM and this site to look at the new models. Very often, though, the those new models are either insanely-priced or start presenting the "I don't do" lists. I wish them well and move on.

[BluDay]

I like the idea of a regular hire, but is it possible that they may become complacent in the arrangement?

 

Naturally, that is a possibility, it's just human nature. But escorts are good at reading people, so if you start looking like you aren't enjoying your time, they will do something to keep your business. My impression is that a regular is good for the escort. It's income, and steady income at that. Much less worry about a cancellation and all the other work with a new client. Plus he doesn't have to try to find out what you like - he already knows. So it's actually a bit easier on them and they show up with less "work" already done, and more able to put your fantasy to reality.

[+ BlueSky]

For me regular hires are the best. When I find quality, I want it again and again. And only escorts who can give it again and again become regulars.

 

I avoid hiring visiting escorts. If we click, I want an escort who is local and available for a repeat.