Chicago - "Outed" as client by Provider?

[topinla]

Most of the responses to this thread have been safe/diplomatic/restrained so far.

 

So I guess that leaves it up to me to be the “Mean Girl” because instead of leaving the train I would have gone up to him and say “Hey I remember you. You sucked me off really well last time. Are you free right now? Because I have a fifty for you if you are.”

 

Of course we’d never do that. Would we?!

[Guest fm0322]

Me; Totally humiliated and get off train before my stop.

This is such an interesting thread to me and I identify a little with the experience. You wrote that this person was "used in the past" so it suggests you are not currently a client. If you felt humiliation, it sounds like you have some guilt about being with him originally. Truthfully, I would have probably reacted like you. I assume that you were riding alone and not with your boy/girlfriend. I would have considered moving to another car at the next stop.

 

I expect discretion when I hire a masseur and get an erotic massage (I've not hired an escort yet). Living in NYC, I seldom have random encounters with masseurs I've hired. I am a close friend of a masseur I hired years ago who is no longer in the business. Our friendship transcends anything that occurred during a massage.

[+ Oaktown]

OK Kov, feel lucky. This provider could have had you in his blog already!

[+ haring222]

Get over it...in particular since you don't know anything more. He is an escort, you hired him, nothing to be embarrassed about. The one thing that neither of you should do is acknowledge each other and open up that awkward ride.

[+ Avalon]

I remember once reading Aaron Lawrence and his boyfriend were out somewhere and Aaron saw a client and pointed him out to his boyfriend. The boyfriend's remarks were something like "You had sex with him?!".