Sex on your own time?

[AndreFuture]

You're a very prolific writer, aren't you?

I have sex on my own time, but it tends to be very different than my encounters with clients. My client meetings are scheduled, take place in private, and my whims around whether I'm in the "mood" for a hookup pretty much have nothing to do with the final result. Part of my job is turning myself "on" at the desired time and place, and I'm capable of doing it well.

 

I've mostly lost interest in this manner of hooking up in my personal life. If a hot guy on grindr tells me to come over or asks if he can stop by my place tomorrow after office, my motivation to agree is pretty low. I never know what the chemistry is going to be like or if I'll be in the mood by the time I actually meet him in person. And although I'm VERY capable of having an amazing sexual encounter with someone regardless of those two factors, it sort of feels like work that I generally get compensated for, so the chances of me being personally satisfied by the encounter are often not worth the expenditure of time to me. I've been there / done that for years and years and scheduled/prearranged/internet/app hookups have somehow lost a lot of their excitement for me. There ARE exceptions of course. Maybe I just got extremely picky about them.

 

Most of my personal hookups "on my own time" come from cruising nowadays. Mumbai has a THRIVING public cruising culture. Streets, trains, bus stops, loos, taxis, beaches, parks... not to mention gay events/parties. I don't go out of my way to cruise, rather cruising for me is a state of mind that I'm generally in whenever I'm out in public. I love the thrill of the public seduction, the nonverbal communication, and the chemistry or lack thereof tends to be obvious from the get-go. Someone who I wouldn't look at twice on a hookup app can easily catch my attention in the real world based on their vibe, smile, smell, etc. The risky public nature and spontaneity of it all are huge turn-ons for me. I don't have to fit it into my schedule and there's no pressure for me to do anything beyond what I'm in the mood for. In fact I don't even have to explain that I'm transgender a lot of the time, if they don't ask and all I'm doing is sucking them off somewhere. It's simple, quick, thrilling, and satisfying for me.

 

Much like in my work, in my personal hookups I can be attracted to a wide variety of ages, body types, etc. Most of my clients are people who I would hook up with for free/fun should fate happen to place us in the right situation. When someone books a session with me, what I really feel that they are doing is compensating me for disrupting my life and taking the time to focus my attention on them. Plus you know... the marketing, professional photo shoots, flying to their city especially to meet clients, etc etc etc. The sex is not the part that I need to be compensated for. It's making myself publicly AVAILABLE for people outside of my daily path and making time in my schedule to meet people who I otherwise might not.

 

Oh god, sorry for writing a book... XP

[FTM Zachary Prince]

You're a very prolific writer, aren't you?

 

Only when inspired.

[Michael Paul]

I enjoy being with all my clients. None of them so far have that special size that pleases me the most. So I look for it on my own time...

[Walker1]

Mumbai has a THRIVING public cruising culture. Streets, trains, bus stops, loos, taxis, beaches, parks... not to mention gay events/parties. I don't go out of my way to cruise, rather cruising for me is a state of mind that I'm generally in whenever I'm out in public. I love the thrill of the public seduction, the nonverbal communication, and the chemistry or lack thereof tends to be obvious from the get-go.

 

Oh god, sorry for writing a book... XP

 

How is the scene in Mumbai? Are gays open or still behind closed doors? Interesting is the FTM scene looked at differently in India? Sorry, just curious about the scene there and the difference than say a big city in the US?

[FTM Zachary Prince]

How is the scene in Mumbai? Are gays open or still behind closed doors? Interesting is the FTM scene looked at differently in India? Sorry, just curious about the scene there and the difference than say a big city in the US?

 

The answers to these questions could fill an entire book! I also don't really want to hijack the thread by changing the subject. Book me sometime and I'll tell you all about the Mumbai gay scene in person...

[+ HornyRetiree]

Mumbai has a THRIVING public cruising culture. Streets, trains, bus stops, loos, taxis, beaches, parks... not to mention gay events/parties. I don't go out of my way to cruise, rather cruising for me is a state of mind that I'm generally in whenever I'm out in public. I love the thrill of the public seduction, the nonverbal communication, and the chemistry or lack thereof tends to be obvious from the get-go.

 

DITTO! I am not an escort but I do relate to the thrill of crusing for hot and unexpected evcounters.

 

Just this past Saturday, I was traveling and stopped at a boat launch — fed two loads to the same guy.

 

The first, while he was being fucked by another guy — The second about 30 minutes later when I asked for another BJ before I contunued on my way. (We had been chatting) He seemed surprised that I was recharged and ready to go again but was delighted to obligue- unplanned and hot to have these situations.