Sex on your own time?

[Ghadd]

Hello!

Pretty new to the forums, and I haven't seen a discussion on this topic, so here goes!

 

I'm wondering if escorts have sex on their own time, or are they always on the clock? Are you ever up for sex when not working?

 

Let say, you're out with friends, someone starts flirting with you, and things progress further. Do you inform them that you're an escort? Or are you not even interested in sex with someone who's not a client?

 

No, I'm not hoping to score with an escort for free. I'm genuinely curious! I remember reading an interview with a pornstar that said he doesn't have much sex in his personal life, because that's his job.

[Good Grief]

Hello!

Pretty new to the forums, and I haven't seen a discussion on this topic, so here goes!

 

I'm wondering if escorts have sex on their own time, or are they always on the clock? Are you ever up for sex when not working?

 

Let say, you're out with friends, someone starts flirting with you, and things progress further. Do you inform them that you're an escort? Or are you not even interested in sex with someone who's not a client?

 

No, I'm not hoping to score with an escort for free. I'm genuinely curious! I remember reading an interview with a pornstar that said he doesn't have much sex in his personal life, because that's his job.

 

[+ purplekow]

Ask a Yes No question, get a Yes No answer.

[Ghadd]

Ask a Yes No question, get a Yes No answer.

Duly noted. Thanks.

[+ purplekow]

Duly noted. Thanks.

Perhaps you want to rephrase the question to make it more an essay question rather than true false.

For example, "How does the sexual requirements of your job impact your own social life?" Or "As an escort, how difficult is it to satisfy your own sexual needs in profession and nonprofessional capacities."

As a top, I like my questions like I like my sex partners...........open ended.

[LoveNDino]

Hi @Ghadd! Welcome. I joined about 5 months ago and I’m still in love with this forum.

[Ghadd]

Perhaps you want to rephrase the question to make it more an essay question rather than true false.

For example, "How does the sexual requirements of your job impact your own social life?" Or "As an escort, how difficult is it to satisfy your own sexual needs in profession and nonprofessional capacities."

As a top, I like my questions like I like my sex partners...........open ended.

Thank you, I'll keep that in mind.

[wklucas]

I once had a married escort tell me that he had mostly stopped having sex with his wife....

He wanted to "save" cumming for when he was getting paid for it.....& I think he mentioned that the wife was ok with that.....(I imagine that she maybe at least had a platonic fuckbuddy on the side then ).

.....& by no means, was he a trashy guy but rather classy (& hot) who just had that approach to his working life at the time.

[+ Avalon]

I understand that many females who have a man who escorts or does porn prefers them being with men than women.

[wklucas]

I understand that many females who have a man who escorts or does porn prefers them being with men than women.

 

In interviews, Reese Rideout said his wife said that exactly.....in her own interviews, she verified that.....she said that she doubted her marriage would / could survive if his porn work was with other women.

[+ Avalon]

In interviews, Reese Rideout said his wife said that exactly.....in her own interviews, she verified that.....she said that she doubted her marriage would / could survive if his porn work was with other women.

 

 

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reese_Rideout

 

 

Does he escort?

[JayJonathan]

No, he never escorted when he was in the business, and he’s retired now.

[+ Avalon]

No, he never escorted when he was in the business, and he’s retired now.

 

Thank-you!

[Maximus69]

I don't have sex on my own time. Its been quite awhile since I've had sex without being paid, probably over a year now. Just because I get texts/calls at any random time so gotta have my cum for my clients, would want them to give them my all and not an empty tank

[Mocha]

I do indeed...

 

I'm sorry but I've just got my types, and honestly if I didn't have my own time..I'd of missed out on a lot, lot of good experiences and I think my overall self-esteem and sense of happiness would suffer. In fact, on my rentmen profile, all the videos I have up are with guys who I hooked up for free. I know everyone is different, but for the ones who only see clients for sex...think about what you might be missing out on. And it's not all sex, sometimes it's just to chill and go out and look good with someone else. Clients are discreet, they keep real low profile...I can't base my social and sexual life on that.

 

Running out of cum shouldn't be an issue...it's not like in order to have sex for free that involves hooking up around the clock. I may do a free hookup session every 1-2 weeks or so. Sometimes if I'm really in business mode, I may go 2-3 weeks before I hookup, but that's the max and I'm either hitting the bar or going online.

 

This past week, I pulled 2 guys out the club, 2 guys online. Fine ass guys. Business was good last weekend and then dead all week so I'm like shit...I'm gonna gets mine one way or another.. All the time.

[+ Tarte Gogo]

I'm sorry but I've just got my types, and honestly if I didn't have my own time..

Don’t apologise, this is a very fair and good answer.

 

I like this “ask an escort” forum, we get to hear about you guys both as business owners, and as sensitive people with a normal life which is hard to discuss during a session, I would feel as if i was intruding.

[Mocha]

Don’t apologise, this is a very fair and good answer.

 

I like this “ask an escort” forum, we get to hear about you guys both as business owners, and as sensitive people with a normal life which is hard to discuss during a session, I would feel as if i was intruding.

 

Thanks.

 

Free fuck and paid are 2 different things. It's like driving a Mustang convertible from a rental car place versus driving one off the car lot.

 

Same car, different feeling.

 

The rented one is pretty much hassle free and includes everything. You can switch it out for a different car each time you rent. Owning it is going to be a considerable financial decision. But, it's nothing like having your own.

 

Hey there Porscha, I wanna ride ya...

[BlakeBenz]

I do not have sex outside of my client encounters.

[cooldemo03]

I have had sex a number of times with escorts who weren't escorting when I was with them. So I can say yes it does happen.

[Mocha]

The way to potentially score with an escort for free is to become one yourself. That way you don't have to defend your first line of your last paragraph. Mutual fee cancellations are the best! No tip to worry about, no clock to keep track of, and no reason to give a review since neither one was a client.

 

Hmm...I don't think the purpose is how to score an escort for free. I think the question was more asking if we meet/play outside of paid hookups in general. Like I said, I do.

 

Matter of fact, did it again last night. When I say this guy was SO MF'ing fine, he was SOOO MF'ing fine. He was fresh out of Chihuahua Mexico, younger than me, barely knew English. But he looked like some type of Arab Puerto Rican...But, we communicated just fine once the clothes came off.

 

Plus I didn't even have to get off. So...contrary to popular belief, I'm not "spent", but if anything now I'm even more "charged up" so to speak for the next client...whenever that may be. Had 2 clients not able to make it yesterday so had hotel to myself so...why cheat myself when I could treat myself.

 

Oh in case anyone is confused by Arab Puerto Rican:

 

[TruthBTold]

. . . .

 

Fuck Mocha, if he looked like that how did you not get off?

[Mocha]

Fuck Mocha, if he looked like that how did you not get off?

 

Well long story short, I wanted it to last as long as he wanted. Somehow after fucking him, he wanted to fuck me and ended up shooting off in my mouth. After that, guys tend to not care if you're you get off. Mind you....he barely spoke English and was 2 years younger than me. But somehow, it happened. And ever since...I've been cumming quite lucratively.

 

It's scenes like that which make me A) want to move to Mexico B) find a boyfriend and C) have sex on my own time once in awhile and D) wish I could rewind time and E) keeps me going and F) why I travel and G) make me want to stay in one place and H) Do both and I) don't know what the fuck I'm saying.

[AndreFuture]

No; I jack off if I want sexual satisfaction.

[Kipp Slinger]

Haven't had sex on my own time in three years.

[FTM Zachary Prince]

I have sex on my own time, but it tends to be very different than my encounters with clients. My client meetings are scheduled, take place in private, and my whims around whether I'm in the "mood" for a hookup pretty much have nothing to do with the final result. Part of my job is turning myself "on" at the desired time and place, and I'm capable of doing it well.

 

I've mostly lost interest in this manner of hooking up in my personal life. If a hot guy on grindr tells me to come over or asks if he can stop by my place tomorrow after office, my motivation to agree is pretty low. I never know what the chemistry is going to be like or if I'll be in the mood by the time I actually meet him in person. And although I'm VERY capable of having an amazing sexual encounter with someone regardless of those two factors, it sort of feels like work that I generally get compensated for, so the chances of me being personally satisfied by the encounter are often not worth the expenditure of time to me. I've been there / done that for years and years and scheduled/prearranged/internet/app hookups have somehow lost a lot of their excitement for me. There ARE exceptions of course. Maybe I just got extremely picky about them.

 

Most of my personal hookups "on my own time" come from cruising nowadays. Mumbai has a THRIVING public cruising culture. Streets, trains, bus stops, loos, taxis, beaches, parks... not to mention gay events/parties. I don't go out of my way to cruise, rather cruising for me is a state of mind that I'm generally in whenever I'm out in public. I love the thrill of the public seduction, the nonverbal communication, and the chemistry or lack thereof tends to be obvious from the get-go. Someone who I wouldn't look at twice on a hookup app can easily catch my attention in the real world based on their vibe, smile, smell, etc. The risky public nature and spontaneity of it all are huge turn-ons for me. I don't have to fit it into my schedule and there's no pressure for me to do anything beyond what I'm in the mood for. In fact I don't even have to explain that I'm transgender a lot of the time, if they don't ask and all I'm doing is sucking them off somewhere. It's simple, quick, thrilling, and satisfying for me.

 

Much like in my work, in my personal hookups I can be attracted to a wide variety of ages, body types, etc. Most of my clients are people who I would hook up with for free/fun should fate happen to place us in the right situation. When someone books a session with me, what I really feel that they are doing is compensating me for disrupting my life and taking the time to focus my attention on them. Plus you know... the marketing, professional photo shoots, flying to their city especially to meet clients, etc etc etc. The sex is not the part that I need to be compensated for. It's making myself publicly AVAILABLE for people outside of my daily path and making time in my schedule to meet people who I otherwise might not.

 

Oh god, sorry for writing a book... XP