Escorts that are married

[Michael Paul]

I'm married to a wonderful man. We have been together for 20 year now. I have just began this field of work, part time. He is all for it and views it as a second job. We do not discuss much about it other than I give him the contact information, so he knows where I am at.

I have been contacted by a few clients that wanted me to travel to them and they wanted to pay for everything. Flight and hotel, plus our time together. Well my husband does not want me to travel. I respect his wishes as he is allowing me to do this on the side.

Are there any other escorts out there that are married and have this same experience. Did your husband eventually come around to the idea of your traveling?

[jjkrkwood]

If he is allowing you to do the job, I dont understand the resistance in allowing the travel ? It's just an extension of the "job"... Perhaps he is NOT as OK with it as you might think ?

[+ quoththeraven]

If he is allowing you to do the job, I dont understand the resistance in allowing the travel ? It's just an extension of the "job"... Perhaps he is NOT as OK with it as you might think ?

Alternatively, he may want you around. There may be an element of jealousy, yes, but traveling does affect the amount of time a couple spends together and has for each other.

 

There are escorts who are single who don't travel because they're homebodies and would lose as much business as they gain. It might be necessary to specify "no travel" in one's ad and explain it based on your preferences, not your partner's.

[+ Avalon]

I'm married to a wonderful man. We have been together for 20 year now. I have just began this field of work, part time. He is all for it and views it as a second job. We do not discuss much about it other than I give him the contact information, so he knows where I am at.

I have been contacted by a few clients that wanted me to travel to them and they wanted to pay for everything. Flight and hotel, plus our time together. Well my husband does not want me to travel. I respect his wishes as he is allowing me to do this on the side.

Are there any other escorts out there that are married and have this same experience. Did your husband eventually come around to the idea of your traveling?

 

Was your marriage since since same-sex marriage has been legal or a ceremony years ago?

 

I remember years ago that now retired escort Aaron Lawrence had a commitment ceremony; I've wondered now that since same-sex marriage is legal if they got officially married.

[Mocha]

I'm married to a wonderful man. We have been together for 20 year now. I have just began this field of work, part time. He is all for it and views it as a second job. We do not discuss much about it other than I give him the contact information, so he knows where I am at.

I have been contacted by a few clients that wanted me to travel to them and they wanted to pay for everything. Flight and hotel, plus our time together. Well my husband does not want me to travel. I respect his wishes as he is allowing me to do this on the side.

Are there any other escorts out there that are married and have this same experience. Did your husband eventually come around to the idea of your traveling?

 

I can't suggest what decisions you and your hubby make. Only you 2 knows what's best for y'alls relationship. I wouldn't even recommend you discuss that outside of your relationship. I can't say he shouldn't say that because we don't know why he says that. Is it health, home responsibilities, or safety aspects?

 

However...if someone said I couldn't travel, then they probably don't understand the business. It's up to you to make them understand.

 

Also, you just begun. Are these genuine people asking to fly you out or scammers? Clients don't fly someone out they've never met. Even if they did...would you want to do that? Not knowing who they are?

 

That said...if I didn't travel, I'd likely have left the business long, long, loooooooooooong time ago. It's the very essence of the business. Staying in one place is okay if you're part time, but traveling opens up the doors.

[Michael Paul]

Alternatively, he may want you around. There may be an element of jealousy, yes, but traveling does affect the amount of time a couple spends together and has for each other.

 

There are escorts who are single who don't travel because they're homebodies and would lose as much business as they gain. It might be necessary to specify "no travel" in one's ad and explain it based on your preferences, not your partner's.

 

If he is allowing you to do the job, I dont understand the resistance in allowing the travel ? It's just an extension of the "job"... Perhaps he is NOT as OK with it as you might think ?

 

I would like to answer both of you at the same time. jjkrkwood ..At this point is perfectly fine with my Escorting. I believe that you are correct quoththeraven... our time together is on the weekends. I only do calls on my day off during the weekdays. Sometime I do actually do calls during the weekend. He has no problem with them, because I will be returning home. in a few hours.

[Michael Paul]

I can't suggest what decisions you and your hubby make. Only you 2 knows what's best for y'alls relationship. I wouldn't even recommend you discuss that outside of your relationship. I can't say he shouldn't say that because we don't know why he says that. Is it health, home responsibilities, or safety aspects?

 

However...if someone said I couldn't travel, then they probably don't understand the business. It's up to you to make them understand.

 

Also, you just begun. Are these genuine people asking to fly you out or scammers? Clients don't fly someone out they've never met. Even if they did...would you want to do that? Not knowing who they are?

 

That said...if I didn't travel, I'd likely have left the business long, long, loooooooooooong time ago. It's the very essence of the business. Staying in one place is okay if you're part time, but traveling opens up the doors.

 

I have told him about the ones that request me to travel for a weekend visit, and he just looks at me. At this point I am not willing to push this issue, he does have some insecurity issues. None that involve worry that I will leave him. I would never do that, ever.... He is worried about the unknown factor and my safety. Which I agree with, I also realize that the money lies outside the state line. He did agree to one overnight stay, but it fell through. I guess that is a good sign that he is thinking past the typical 2 hour visit with clients.

[Moondance]

I know of an escort whose understanding with his husband was that he wouldn't do in-calls in their home or do overnights when he was in their hometown. And although he did take appointments when traveling, I believe his availability for those occurred when he was traveling for other reasons, not as a function of his escorting. In this particular case, the escorting was a sideline to a full-time job.

 

I know of another man who was in a relationship when he started escorting, and subsequently married his partner. In this case, although I know the man is involved in other endeavors, I think his principal income is from escorting. He sees clients in the home he shares with his husband, and is available for overnights, other longer appointments and travel.

 

Different strokes for different folks.

 

@Michael Paul, congratulations on 20 years with a wonderful man who supports what you are doing. Reading between the lines of your post, it doesn't sound like there's a financial need to increase your income from escorting (as availability for travel might). If that's correct, and if your relationship is a higher priority than the escorting or your income from it, it seems to me like you're doing exactly the right thing in being mindful of your husband's concerns, respecting his wishes, and waiting to see whether they do -- or don't -- evolve over time.

[Michael Paul]

 

@Michael Paul, congratulations on 20 years with a wonderful man who supports what you are doing. Reading between the lines of your post, it doesn't sound like there's a financial need to increase your income from escorting (as availability for travel might). If that's correct, and if your relationship is a higher priority than the escorting or your income from it, it seems to me like you're doing exactly the right thing in being mindful of your husband's concerns, respecting his wishes, and waiting to see whether they do -- or don't -- evolve over time.

 

Thank You for the congrats. We got legally married on 12-12-15... one of the happiest day ever. ....In the beginning when I decided to move from massages to escorting it was for fun and not financially needed. However things have changed now. He lost his job of 19 years and was able to provide for everything. We need the extra money I make on the side to make life easier now. So It is a double edge sword. I respect him and he respects me. Our marriage will always be number one... I hope he changes his mind in time. With me being older I get request from guy my age or older, because they wish to be with someone close to their own age. They all seem to live out of state... $$$... I will just wait and see if things evolve in time as you stated.

[jawjateck]

Clients don't fly someone out they've never met.

 

Ahem.....more than 20 times. With great success too.

Some of us break all the rules.