This Has Got To Hurt

[+ Avalon]

http://www.gaypornshare.com/video/7675/spanked-pissed-on

[+ sync]

Both those individuals need immediate, competent mental/emotional nurturing.

[Walker1]

That looks bad-hope it was acting.

[whipped guy]

Both those individuals need immediate, competent mental/emotional nurturing.

That looks bad-hope it was acting.

As bad as this looks (and it admittedly is over the top compared to how most scenes are done) when a scene such as this is totally consensual with both participants being on the same page it can be a nurturing experience for all parties involved and especially the sub. It is ironic but it can also be a safer experience when done in a sane and sensible manner. When the dom is responsible and knows what he is doing... and that is a key point... any red marks will eventually heal and often quite quickly as within hours. Can scenes such as this lead to dire consequences? Absolutely! However, other types of unsafe sexual practices can lead to even more serious and dangerous consequences.

 

As with all things one must play safely in an accountably trustworthy manner.

[jjkrkwood]

Sorry, not into the pain & abuse thing....

[+ sync]

Sorry, not into the pain & abuse thing....

 

You are very gracious. I'm not into the pain & abuse thing, and I'm not the least bit sorry.

[Walker1]

I like BDSM-so far only watching and some light spanking . This one the sub just looked like he was in serious pain. But I am not an experienced person. How does one get into BDSM-I can't have toys in my house! I am afraid I would go too far and hurt somebody -not knowing physical limits. Are there teachers?

lately I am starting to be interested in being a sub too-but again will the dom go too far?

[whipped guy]

As an addendum to my above post and as proof that when scenes are done in a responsible manner by professionals the results can be rewarding consider the Kink Bound Gods BDSM videos. At the conclusion of the scene the dom and sub are always interviewed and based on their enthusiasm a good time was had by all with both parties eager and willing to go at it one more time. Exactly as would be the case with any other totally satisfying sexual experience!

 

I like BDSM-so far only watching and some light spanking . This one the sub just looked like he was in serious pain. But I am not an experienced person. How does one get into BDSM-I can't have toys in my house! I am afraid I would go too far and hurt somebody -not knowing physical limits. Are there teachers?

lately I am starting to be interested in being a sub too-but again will the dom go too far?

 

You might start by hiring an escort who specializes in such activities. However, they are few and far between. Most guys just wing it and you emphatically don't want anyone touching you who does not know what they are doing. There needs to be a meeting of the minds that resultes in the sub having trust and confidence in the dom. The really trustworthy doms are cut from nice guy cloth. The last type of person who you would suspect might be into such activities, and the ideal person in whom to place your trust.

 

If there is a BDSM club in your area visit simply to watch and absorb the scene. They might also make suggestions for pros in your area, or you might meet someone with whom you can eventually hook up. Also, remember BDSM can be as light or heavy as the sub wants.

 

Read my profile page for more info on the dynamics of S&M and the relationship between the dom and sub. Bottom (no pun intended) line: it is the sub/bottom who sets the tone for the scene. If light is your thing the go light! There is always plenty of time to turn things up a notch or two... or not at all! Also, the best S&M tops have had experiences as subs along the way proving that it is often best to learn the trade from the bottom up... okay we'll call that remark a pun!

 

Seriously, it can be a very rewarding experience, but you need to enter into it with the right mindset. Also, it need not be over the top as in many videos and that includes the one that is the basis for this thread.

 

Also, regarding toys in the house. Big LOL! Once when at an escorts appartment all his toys that he normally had in clear view were hidden. However, aunt Martha was visiting and she had no clue... I have a closet that I probably need to put a padlock on!

[Vato Loco]

All the world is a stage.

 

Fuck it, this will be going on in SF this very Sunday on Folsom St.

[Rudynate]

You are very gracious. I'm not into the pain & abuse thing, and I'm not the least bit sorry.

 

 

The Fetish Forum might not be your venue.

[+ sync]

The Fetish Forum might not be your venue.

 

Not for this particular type of fetish.

[whipped guy]

One more comment: it is more difficult to play the dom than to be a sub. The dom needs to take care of his boy and make sure that the action is exactly at the level that the sub needs. That requires a meeting of the minds and reading body language so as not to cross any line, yet at the same time challenging the sub. It also requires some verbal skills. Some subs like to be toyed with and threatened. Others like the humiliation approach. Some have a cocky I can take what you can dish out approach.

 

Also, some subs can go for quite a long time and it can literally be exhausting for the dom. Some can be flogged for an hour causing the dom to be dripping in sweat. That means pacing things so as to keep the sub in his pleasure zone with out overdoing things. It can be a balancing act. Therefore intense moments need to be interspersed with some gentle action to allow for some recovery. Others like it intense for a short period and then need a rest in between spurts of activity.

 

In any event, when the dom and the sub have a meeting of the minds and develop a symbiotic relationship the results can be heavenly for both parties.

 

I'm not into the pain & abuse thing, and I'm not the least bit sorry.

 

By the way, I'm not into the "getting fucked thing". To me that's "pain and abuse", and not even the pleasurable type of pain. I guess I could say that I'm not the least bit sorry that I feel that way either. However instead of that I simply don't partake and refrain from criticizing others for doing what they enjoy.

 

To each his own, and as long as BDSM is consensual and done in a responsible fashion we need to respect others rather than express disapproval. However, if those parameters are not met then it is a totally different story. The same goes for a other sexual acts of a more "traditional" nature which as I noted above when done irresponsibly can lead to even more dire and extreme consequences.

[+ sync]

To each his own, and as long as BDSM is consensual and done in a responsible fashion we need to respect others rather than express disapproval. However, if those parameters are not met then it is a totally different story. The same goes for a other sexual acts of a more "traditional" nature which as I noted above when done irresponsibly can lead to even more dire and extreme consequences.

 

My feelings exactly. If my commentary of the video content came off as judgemental rather than opinionated, it is regrettable. While I have no sorrow for the practice, I do have sorrow for individuals who must inflict/endure atrocities to experience fulfillment.

[whipped guy]

My feelings exactly. If my commentary of the video content came off as judgemental rather than opinionated, it is regrettable. While I have no sorrow for the practice, I do have sorrow for individuals who must inflict/endure atrocities to experience fulfillment.

If by "individuals who must inflict/endure atrocities to experience fulfillment" you mean those who cross the line into insanity or worse those who do not respect the limits of their partner and are selfishly concerned only with their personal gratification, then we are in complete agreement. When a dom goes overboard it is the equivalent of rape.

 

What is often forgotten is that many guys who are partnered or simply hook up and are into the BDSM scene consider it to be an alternative, if albeit intense, way to make love. Indeed I met a couple a few years ago who were voted "Dom and Sub of the Year". They seemed so lovingly normal and actually they were if not quite in the traditional sense.

 

Ironically, others consider it to be analogous to a therapeutic massage and not only those who prefer the action on the lighter side.

 

Therefore to appreciate the scene one must disregard any precocieved notions regarding what conventional society deems to be "normal" behavior.

 

As one person explained it to me way back when it's like animals going at it where they often get quite rough!!!! That reminded me of the poster that we had in our dorm room during college.

 

 

Talk about being horny!!!

 

Not exactly like the sweet pooch in @sync's avatar either!

[+ poolboy48220]

Dan Savage once described bondage as like playing Cowboys and Indians for adults, with nudity & orgasms.

[samhexum]

That had to hurt.

 

Gary Sanchez was struck with a foul tip in the groin area during the Yankees’ 8-4 victory over the Twins in Tuesday’s AL wild-card game -- and David Robertson’s reaction went viral.

 

D-Rob put his hand over his own nether region while appearing to gasp as Sanchez cringed in pain, doubled over onto the dirt.

 

“Poor guy. I had a great view of it, he just took a tough shot right there,” Robertson said. “I just felt for him. I’m wearing a cup, too. I just know how it feels to get hit there. It’s not fun.”

 

Robertson’s reaction rivals when he sprinted out of the bullpen in Detroit during the Austin Romine vs. Miguel Cabrera brawl.

 

It’s the second time a Robertson reaction has gone viral and also the second time a Yankees player has been hit in the groin with a baseball.

 

Last month, Chase Headley was hit in the groin while at the plate.

 

Sanchez remained in the game, finishing with a pair of hits – including a double.

 

http://assets.nydailynews.com/polopoly_fs/1.3539749.1507086686!/img/httpImage/image.jpg_gen/derivatives/article_750/857292148.jpg

 

http://assets.nydailynews.com/polopoly_fs/1.3539748.1507086673!/img/httpImage/image.jpg_gen/derivatives/article_750/857295408.jpg

 

[Rudynate]

My feelings exactly. If my commentary of the video content came off as judgemental rather than opinionated, it is regrettable. While I have no sorrow for the practice, I do have sorrow for individuals who must inflict/endure atrocities to experience fulfillment.

 

 

I guess you're one of those who just can't shut up.

[+ sync]

I guess you're one of those who just can't shut up.

 

Nor will shut up at the will of others.

[+ Axiom2001]

Sorry, not into the pain & abuse thing....

 

Sorry, NOT for me!

 

[i could feel the boy's pain with each paddling! Too, too painful. Again, "not for me!"]

 

About a month ago, an escort, who's now retired, discussed this and other acts with me.

Both of us concluded as to the rationale behind this and some other acts and what gratification is being served.