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Guys,

 

I *think* I'm getting up the gumption to hire an escort for the first time. I've always been a "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free" kind of guy, but for a few reasons — fantasy, fetish, a treat, and an absurdly long dry spell — it may be time for me to take the plunge.

 

For discretion reasons I don't really want to make this happen in my home city, though I'm not opposed to a visitor if one came by. I'm debating between 3 choices:

 

1. Book myself a cheap overnight in Vegas.

2. Try to line something up in NYC when I'm on a business trip, but that is always fraught with scheduling challenges.

3. Wait for Everybody's Favorite Escort to respond to my email for the hopes of scheduling something when our schedules line up.

 

Tend to be looking for the aggressive top type. Taller/bigger is better, prefer athletic to bodybuilder. Don't really want the BFE. Been taking a look at reviews and remtmen so have some ideas, but sometimes it feels like there is almost too. I have choice.

 

So here are my questions:

 

If you had those 3 choices for your first time, where would you invest in making it happen?

How do I avoid some of the things that turn me off? Drug use, smelling/tasting like tobacco...

What's important to know before I go into this?

 

Thanks!

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I think any of the three could work. Pick the guy that turns you on the most and work it from there. (Read the reviews to help you know if you will be compatable.)

 

Ask, ask, and ask. Do you do drugs? Do you smoke?

 

The best laid plans of mice and men can go astray. You can plan and end up having a terrible time or not plan and have a great time. It is, at best, an educated crap shoot. If you stick to the well and often reviewed guys you will have your best chance.

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If you want a visitor, then filter your searches.

 

There are several good ones that you can sponsor into your city, but, I'm not opposed to any of those options. I'm not sure of your unique discretion issues (we all have something), so it is tough to suggest an better alternative.

 

As for the turn-offs, the best thing is to communicate and ask questions. Don't be afraid to be blunt... do you smoke? Cigarettes? Cigars? ANYTHING else? Do you Party? Do you PnP? However you want to word it.

 

Then ask for the things you DO want. Describe the fantasy or fetish.

 

Then search reviews out here, on Daddy's, RM, anywhere you can find them (there are several places).

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Agree with the advice given. I would emphasize to hire guys with good Reviews. You can also ask here for feedback on someone. Don't fall in love with someone's profile or pix.

 

Another piece of advice, if you host at a hotel don't book a non refundable room - I've had a few last minute changes/cancellations.

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2. Try to line something up in NYC when I'm on a business trip, but that is always fraught with scheduling challenges.

 

I've got a Vegas trip coming up, but from the looks of it, it seems like most of the guys in Vegas are gay-for-pay. While I'm not opposed to that, I am looking for something a bit more interactive. Work has given me an opportunity to get something done in NYC, so I've put together a list. I'm looking for an alpha jock type. Dominant. Top. A bit rough around the edges. Wresting or physical domination. I've ranked the following guys based on reviews and interests (BuiltJohnNYC got top dibs cus I read on here he does MMA). Wondering if anyone had feedback on the list!

 

https://rentmen.eu/builtjohnynyc

https://rentmen.eu/BryanKnight

https://rentmen.eu/JakeArcher

https://rentmen.eu/JAKEHAYES

 

I have further choices, but those are my top ones for now. Thoughts?

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. Wondering if anyone had feedback on the list!

 

https://rentmen.eu/builtjohnynyc

https://rentmen.eu/BryanKnight

https://rentmen.eu/JakeArcher

https://rentmen.eu/JAKEHAYES

 

I have further choices, but those are my top ones for now. Thoughts?

 

 

I assume that you are in the U.S. I also assume that you are not aware that rentmen blocks U.S. IP addresses from seeing narratives written by clients of their experiences with escorts. I do not understand the logic for this blocking but that is the way it is.

 

I am currently away from the U.S. where the narratives are not blocked for me.

 

The reason I mentioned the narratives is one of the escorts you listed ( https://rentmen.eu/builtjohnynyc ) has some excellent long written comments narratives. Having read the narratives, I am highly impressed by this escort.

 

He has 20 reviews including only one partially negative review. Based on reading the narrative of the partially negative review, I see that the basis for the negative comments has to do with the escort not being the one client's "type" which seems like a lousy excuse for dinging an escort.

 

The long narratives in the escorts ad seem to somewhat negate the claim of the escort being "straight" because some of the narratives state that this escort is excellent and several clients are repeat clients.

 

If this site was asking for a vote, I would cast my "yes" vote for the guy cited above.

 

P.S., there are ways to make your computer or cell phone appear to be in a foreign country (VPNs). You might want to look inio this so that you can read the escorts narratives. I guaranty you will be impressed.

 

Good luck on your searches.

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P.S., there are ways to make your computer or cell phone appear to be in a foreign country (VPNs).

 

so coriolis doesn't get blasted with inquiries, one way to do this is to go to https://hide.me/en/proxy , enter the full rentmen ad URL in the white box, then click on the yellow box...after the profile page opens, scroll down to the reviews area and open them up

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P.S., there are ways to make your computer or cell phone appear to be in a foreign country (VPNs). You might want to look inio this so that you can read the escorts narratives. I guaranty you will be impressed.

 

Thanks, really appreciate your taking a look, and your diligence in commentary. I have a VPN available to me so maybe I'll fire that up and see what comes up.

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so coriolis doesn't get blasted with inquiries, one way to do this is to go to https://hide.me/en/proxy , enter the full rentmen ad URL in the white box, then click on the yellow box...after the profile page opens, scroll down to the reviews area and open them up

 

hide.me seems to have some sort of "pay for the service" service. Once you sign up, you have to pay. At least, that's what it seems like.

 

DON'T sign up. Just use the url above.

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