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[+ oldNbusted]

I have to admit, I would not be happy if I wanted something and it didn't happen, I don't think it would be fair for me to have to bear the entire consequences. I have to give a guy points for telling me beforehand he would not be able to perform as negotiated and agreeing to cancel or reschedule.

[Good Grief]

That's true. Prevention is better than cure in this case.

 

After many years, I've come to realize most of the "erection issues" are partly mental/environmental and partly diet related. Has very little to do with the dick itself. In this business, it's important to take supplements, specifically prostate enhancing...continuously. You don't even need viagra or other sex drugs. There's better, less side effect products out there to help restore and replenish and keep you ready for the next client.

 

Also working out regularly is essential. Working out increases testosterone which increases sex drive. And water. Water, water, water. Alcohol in moderation is good to relax and get your mind in the mood. Also focus on ambience. I've had clients have barking dogs, distracting TV programs (no news please), bright white lights...and all the while rushing a guy to get there in 10 minutes, then walk around the back of a dark house where you can't see shit, and then expect an instant hard on.

 

Let's not make assumptions that an escort already came 3 times, and thus make it a priority to book a session at 7 am so you can be the first of the day. That's in theory. But, one shouldn't take on more clients than they can perform for.

 

 

 

The problem with that is...even if the lawn care guy DOES only mow half, he can come back the next day and finish. I know because my parents have a lawn guy that cuts their large yard and I've also had a brief period of doing lawn care myself when I was younger.

 

Most clients are too time constrained to have a return session. Plus, the lawn guy can show up when he is ready, and isn't as clocked as we are. It's just not the same.

 

If Justin Bieber or Dwayne Johnson or Zac Effron or Ryan Guzman or any other person were called to do our service, they would probably charge $1,000 just to walk in the door and another $1,000 just take their clothes off. To do anything else would be $5,000. Maybe $100,000 if they aren't fully into it. I know for a fact, some White guys be getting spoiled and never even take their clothes off...let alone get hard and perform. A friend of mine was getting money and an apartment and a car, and never even fucked the guy but only had 1 drunken blowjob long time ago. Unfortunently...things went sour because the dynamics of things.

 

Especially when a client has the money and means to afford it...There's plenty of other body parts to suck on besides a dick.

 

A G A I N

 

[+ Tarte Gogo]

So how long does it take an average 20 something year old to "recover"?

If I remember well, about 15 minutes.

[Good Grief]

If I remember well, about 15 minutes.

 

Nah. If you keep working it, maybe 10 mins...

[+ othermanc]

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[+ nycman]

"LTT"

 

Learn to Top.

 

Then it's a non-issue.

 

Grin

[+ othermanc]

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[+ nycman]

Hey, I just learned to bottom 7 weeks ago and now it's the main event for me!

 

Damn, cherry busted 7 weeks ago and you're already a piggy bottom?

 

My kinda man!

[+ othermanc]

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[N13]

I don't think it's you at all. Did you exchange pictures? I mean I'm sure you saw his from his ad. But did you give him your picture? You know what he looks like and that's why you hired him. He doesn't have that advantage. Escort or not, I think it's more of a question whether you're his type or not.

 

I go on dates and there are times when I'm so horny for the guy that I'm thinking of having sex with him while still eating dinner. Other times, not so much. But you go through dinner anyway and a drink or two later to be polite before you get the f*** out of there.

 

To say that you didn't have the same issue from other guys is a blind expectation that they're all the same. Can one escort actually deliver a similar experience from the previous one? You tell me. I've experiemced this once from someone that I had high expectations. Total bust and I'm not going back. Money can get the escort to your door and that's about it. The rest is somewhat chemistry. More experienced escorts can go past the likability factor and deliver an amazing experience all the time. You're hiring those in their 20's so they're just starting out. They still have that like/dislike hang ups.

 

This strikes me as completely not getting the point. This is not about a hook up where two guys go for it. It is about a business transaction where one party is paying for a service. The service assumes and entails a hard cock. What is this about type and chemistry? Escorts offer a service and if they cannot come prepared 99% of the time they are in the wrong industry.

 

I would love to hear what some of the escorts say about the situation.

[+ othermanc]

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[MassageDrew]

Frankly, I don't think any escort would entertain the idea but let's give this a try. I'd like to see what kind of responses you'd get.

[+ othermanc]

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[Good Grief]

I received some nice personal emails from some of the escorts I complained about. There were sincere sounding comments about how I had "every right to feel as I did" (sic) and that was followed with praise for me as a good client. OK. I'm satisfied with that. I think I made a point that may make a difference down the road, at least for me in my circle of regulars. Now on to the fun and games!

 

Copied from your Deli post:

 

Did the "escorts you complained about" see this thread?

 

Just wondering as you said you've received "nice personal emails from some of the escorts I complained about."

 

You didn't mention any names throughout this thread as far as my aged eyes can see. Suppose they remembered you?

[N13]

I received some nice personal emails from some of the escorts I complained about. There were sincere sounding comments about how I had "every right to feel as I did" (sic) and that was followed with praise for me as a good client. OK. I'm satisfied with that. I think I made a point that may make a difference down the road, at least for me in my circle of regulars. Now on to the fun and games!

 

And how many of them refunded any of your money?Just asking

[+ othermanc]

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[+ othermanc]

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[N13]

Of course you are a nice guy. And generous too!

[BabyBoomer]

 

 

So they knew what was going on.

 

Are any of them forum members?

 

~Boomer~

[+ othermanc]

del.

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[cmennow]

A simple explanation like, "I'm sorry to bring this up but I have had a real problem in the past....What is your policy if it turns out that you are unable to perform?"

A lot of escort put in their ad that you are paying for their "time" to get around the issue of not being able to perform and still get their full fee.

[N13]

A lot of escort put in their ad that you are paying for their "time" to get around the issue of not being able to perform and still get their full fee.

 

They put that in their ad to keep the law at arm's length because somebody told them to. I don't think that the ones who don't care if they get hard are smart enough to figure this out. There is something inherently wrong with a service provider who thinks they should get their fee whether they provide or not. The smart professionals, I think, very seldom find themselves in that position.

[+ Avalon]

Sometimes a client won't care whether an escort gets hard or not. It depends on what the client wants. I remember Aaron Lawrence once saying after seeing four clients in one day he got a call from someone wanting his services. He told him of his day but it didn't matter if the main thing the client wants to do is top.