Prostate massage?

[JoshATX]

I have no idea when it comes to properly stimulating the prostate without using my cock. Any advice where I could find info on this online to better my skills? And how many guys like to be fingered this way first? Thanks

[Strafe13]

Sorry I can't help you by directing you to online information. But I'd sure love to volunteer to be your practice model! As a total bottom, I can say that while I definitely prefer getting fucked, I also like when a guy fingers me and tries to do a prostate massage. The soft flesh of a penis is infinitely more pleasurable inside me than the unyielding firmness of fingers (especially the bony knuckles and occasional untrimmed nails or hangnails). But when a guy really knows how to perform the massage digitally, his fingers can work their own kind of magic.

[+ kov78]

Sending you a on @JoshATX

[+ kov78]

Sent you a pm with a name you could get some information from ,Josh /batseyes.

[JoshATX]

Ok I got it love

[LivingnLA]

@JoshATX, if we're ever in the same town, I would be happy to provide you with a demonstration. I've been told I'm very good with my hands or I'd happily be your demo body if you wished to practice.

 

Here are some online sources with info about prostate "massage":

 

http://badgirlsbible.com/prostate-massage

http://letstalksex.net/male-g-spot-guide-prostate-massage-pleasure/

http://thestallionstyle.com/the-forbidden-art-of-prostate-milking/

 

Keep in mind that some people are highly sensitive to direct prostate stimulation, even to the point that it's painful if not done very carefully. There are also medical conditions that make direct prostate stimulation too painful to tolerate, but generally most men love it and with practice can achieve orgasm without penile stimulation and multiple orgasms with the right techniques.

 

As all of the guides discuss, hygiene matters for both of you. Trim and buff your nails to make them smooth. Get a manicure and write it off as a business expense. Make sure your skin is smooth and without cuts, sores, etc. Start with external stimulation. Pressure on the "taint" or perineum works for men and women because it's an erogenous zone. In men, pressure here also stimulates the prostate. Go slow. Use plenty of good lube. Enjoy!

[MikeyGMin]

Coincidental timing. I have recently started seeing someone who LOVES to bottom, and I have never considered myself a skillful top. I was determined to give him the best experience possible and not just finger him without any technique. There are quite a few videos on YouTube, but I found this one done by a hetrosexual couple to be one of the best.

 

I've been using their advice on my hot little bottom boy and he seems pretty pleased. It's all new to me and I'm loving it!

 

[+ harey]

Good for you, expand your horizons.

 

[Mike Monkevicz]

Hey ready to have fun

[JoshATX]

Coincidental timing. I have recently started seeing someone who LOVES to bottom, and I have never considered myself a skillful top. I was determined to give him the best experience possible and not just finger him without any technique. There are quite a few videos on YouTube, but I found this one done by a hetrosexual couple to be one of the best.

 

I've been using their advice on my hot little bottom boy and he seems pretty pleased. It's all new to me and I'm loving it!

 

Great video! I love eager bottoms and can't wait to apply these techniques on my next client

[Strafe13]

Great video! I love eager bottoms and can't wait to apply these techniques on my next client

 

I so want to be the lucky guy!

[mike carey]

Great video! I love eager bottoms and can't wait to apply these techniques on my next client

I look forward to being experimented on!

[JoshATX]

I'll be waiting Mike!

[thonglovertx]

Coincidental timing. I have recently started seeing someone who LOVES to bottom, and I have never considered myself a skillful top. I was determined to give him the best experience possible and not just finger him without any technique. There are quite a few videos on YouTube, but I found this one done by a hetrosexual couple to be one of the best.

 

I've been using their advice on my hot little bottom boy and he seems pretty pleased. It's all new to me and I'm loving it!

 

Well that just sucked up half my day watching all of their videos - what a great couple!

[+ Keith30309]

Question for escorts: is having a client (attempt to) give you a prostate massage something that you would look forward to or dread?

 

Friday I met a regular and at my request we played with a toy he had - a vibrating, horseshoe-shaped soft rubber thing. I made sure it stayed nice and lubed and was very gentle and slow but I'm not really sure he enjoyed it. He's sometimes non-expressive so it was hard to tell. He did leak a bit so I wasn't too far off the mark but I'm just not sure it was his thing.

 

Is this an activity that you would welcome ?

[LivingnLA]

He did leak a bit

 

You hit the prostate then but it may or may not have been enjoyable. Was it a fast vibrate? It might've been too much. I'm a big fan of the Aneros. It takes practice, but damn can it be effective, especially for multiple orgasms once you get used to it and get the rhythm down. Many of the powered vibrating prostate massage toys can provide too much stimulation. But, everyone is different, so I encourage guys to try different toys until they find the right one.

[+ Keith30309]

You hit the prostate then but it may or may not have been enjoyable. Was it a fast vibrate? It might've been too much. I'm a big fan of the Aneros. It takes practice, but damn can it be effective, especially for multiple orgasms once you get used to it and get the rhythm down. Many of the powered vibrating prostate massage toys can provide too much stimulation. But, everyone is different, so I encourage guys to try different toys until they find the right one.

He said he enjoyed it but I'm not sure if that was for my benefit. It was a fast but low vibration... you would feel it against your palm but it wouldn't shake your teeth loose. Here is one:

 

[NavyChief]

I am a slow and firm but gentle kinda guy, so fast would probably get me there, but I may not enjoy it the most.