Fetish Escorting?

[NathanJustice]

Hey there!

 

I'm new as of 4-5 months ago to the scene and I was curious about opinions of my escorting choices.

 

I can be a selective clean freak so I don't engage in anal sex as an escort as I've never done it myself, wouldn't enjoy it, and don't plan to do it. Same with giving oral. I always state my restrictions up front, early as possible, and it's on my profile.

 

Instead, I'm highly interested in random fetish and role play scenarios. They can be fairly wild and I've done a large variety of them to date. I haven't had that hard of a time getting interested clients, but I do notice I have to let a fair amount walk due to my restrictions. I generally get repeat business, so I wonder if I'm also maybe getting a better clientele from my restrictions? I notice guys who've been around the block sexually start to get much more specific and harder to please as opposed to a guy who has always fantasized about say..... kidnapping a college jock for medical experiments, being punished and forced to worship an army man, being the weak boyfriend to an abusive young southern guy, etc.

 

What's everyone's opinions on a escort not really engaging in anal/oral sex while being very open to fantasy role play scenes?

[+ José Soplanucas]

Hey there!

 

I'm new as of 4-5 months ago to the scene and I was curious about opinions of my escorting choices.

 

I can be a selective clean freak so I don't engage in anal sex as an escort as I've never done it myself, wouldn't enjoy it, and don't plan to do it. Same with giving oral. I always state my restrictions up front, early as possible, and it's on my profile.

 

Instead, I'm highly interested in random fetish and role play scenarios. They can be fairly wild and I've done a large variety of them to date. I haven't had that hard of a time getting interested clients, but I do notice I have to let a fair amount walk due to my restrictions. I generally get repeat business, so I wonder if I'm also maybe getting a better clientele from my restrictions? I notice guys who've been around the block sexually start to get much more specific and harder to please as opposed to a guy who has always fantasized about say..... kidnapping a college jock for medical experiments, being punished and forced to worship an army man, being the weak boyfriend to an abusive young southern guy, etc.

 

What's everyone's opinions on a escort not really engaging in anal/oral sex while being very open to fantasy role play scenes?

 

Not for me. All my role plays include oral and anal sex.

[Mount N Do]

Hey there!

 

I'm new as of 4-5 months ago to the scene and I was curious about opinions of my escorting choices.

 

I can be a selective clean freak so I don't engage in anal sex as an escort as I've never done it myself, wouldn't enjoy it, and don't plan to do it. Same with giving oral. I always state my restrictions up front, early as possible, and it's on my profile.

 

Instead, I'm highly interested in random fetish and role play scenarios. They can be fairly wild and I've done a large variety of them to date. I haven't had that hard of a time getting interested clients, but I do notice I have to let a fair amount walk due to my restrictions. I generally get repeat business, so I wonder if I'm also maybe getting a better clientele from my restrictions? I notice guys who've been around the block sexually start to get much more specific and harder to please as opposed to a guy who has always fantasized about say..... kidnapping a college jock for medical experiments, being punished and forced to worship an army man, being the weak boyfriend to an abusive young southern guy, etc.

 

What's everyone's opinions on a escort not really engaging in anal/oral sex while being very open to fantasy role play scenes?

Sorry man but I'm with @latbear4blk except for the anal which I typically don't care for. Oral and kissing are deal breakers.

[NathanJustice]

Well I guess to be more specific, do you think of anything negative when you find that out or do you feel it's just a difference of preference?

[Mount N Do]

Well I guess to be more specific, do you think of anything negative when you find that out or do you feel it's just a difference of preference?

That you're not into oral? Would that be mutual oral or none at all. I think that matters as well. And yes, I'd probably move on if there was no oral.

[NathanJustice]

To be extremely specific haha, I get the vibe from a very few people who feel not offering those services is a non service, where as I feel it's a different service.

 

I have no issue with receiving oral, btw.

[Mount N Do]

To be extremely specific haha, I get the vibe from a very few people who feel not offering those services is a non service, where as I feel it's a different service.

 

I have no issue with receiving oral, btw.

Then personally, I'd consider. Just actually saw your ad. I'm curious because you list BFE as something you engage in. How would you characterize a BFE?

[NathanJustice]

Then personally, I'd consider. Just actually saw your ad. I'm curious because you list BFE as something you engage in. How would you characterize a BFE?

 

This may be my inexperience, but I imagine it can describe acting out as if that person is your boyfriend for the given time period. I think there's a huge difference between an escort coming over and saying, "Let's do this." instead of being intimate. fun, and flirtatious with the client for the duration. I have heard that term used to disguise oral/anal sex, but I wasn't sure if it was a set in stone term or a relatively vague one.

[handiacefailure]

As someone into BDSM I actually prefer it. There used to be a pro dom I would see in Chicago that recently retired:(

[+ HornyRetiree]

To be extremely specific haha, I get the vibe from a very few people who feel not offering those services is a non service, where as I feel it's a different service.

 

I have no issue with receiving oral, btw.

 

I think you have a niche market --- and guys can say yeah or nay! Some would be content with what you offer and with blowing you.

 

Do you cause your clients to ejaculate manually?? Frottage???

[+ Keith30309]

To be extremely specific haha, I get the vibe from a very few people who feel not offering those services is a non service, where as I feel it's a different service.

I have no issue with receiving oral, btw.

I think that in the most abstract sense, when you spend time with someone then you're providing a service. The videos on your web page pretty clearly demonstrate interactions with clients... just not the traditional things you mention.

Obviously there are clients who derive pleasure from tickling someone, for example, so it's a valued service to them. If I were you I'd just feel comfortable in saying that you have a niche client base for whom conventional anal/oral activity is unimportant.

For what it's worth, I think that good, intuitive role play takes allot of skill and emotional intelligence. Getting inside someone's head isn't easy.

[NathanJustice]

I think you have a niche market --- and guys can say yeah or nay! Some would be content with what you offer and with blowing you.

 

Do you cause your clients to ejaculate manually?? Frottage???

 

Good to hear. I have a lot of tricks and options haha. I've definitely not had complaints when someone chooses me. (Mostly my clients do not prefer to be recorded or at least have public video.)

[NathanJustice]

I think that in the most abstract sense, when you spend time with someone then you're providing a service. The videos on your web page pretty clearly demonstrate interactions with clients... just not the traditional things you mention.

Obviously there are clients who derive pleasure from tickling someone, for example, so it's a valued service to them. If I were you I'd just feel comfortable in saying that you have a niche client base for whom conventional anal/oral activity is unimportant.

For what it's worth, I think that good, intuitive role play takes allot of skill and emotional intelligence. Getting inside someone's head isn't easy.

 

Absolutely! No offense to anyone else, but I have always felt a 'pump n go' is for sure a step below having someone enjoying playing out a secret fantasy with you. It's good to hear there are a range of opinions, mostly positive or neutral.

 

I've worked in high-end sales, psychology, theatre, and communication, in addition to being a fetishist/exhibitionist and gym rat, so this role seemed to fit me quiet well.

[marylander1940]

Hey there!

 

I'm new as of 4-5 months ago to the scene and I was curious about opinions of my escorting choices.

 

I can be a selective clean freak so I don't engage in anal sex as an escort as I've never done it myself, wouldn't enjoy it, and don't plan to do it. Same with giving oral. I always state my restrictions up front, early as possible, and it's on my profile.

 

If you don't do anal or oral because you're too neat.... What the hell do you do?

 

Instead, I'm highly interested in random fetish and role play scenarios. They can be fairly wild and I've done a large variety of them to date. I haven't had that hard of a time getting interested clients, but I do notice I have to let a fair amount walk due to my restrictions. I generally get repeat business, so I wonder if I'm also maybe getting a better clientele from my restrictions? I notice guys who've been around the block sexually start to get much more specific and harder to please as opposed to a guy who has always fantasized about say..... kidnapping a college jock for medical experiments, being punished and forced to worship an army man, being the weak boyfriend to an abusive young southern guy, etc.

 

What's everyone's opinions on a escort not really engaging in anal/oral sex while being very open to fantasy role play scenes?

 

All those fantasies (and many other) include oral and anal sex for me.

[marylander1940]

Good to hear. I have a lot of tricks and options haha. I've definitely not had complaints when someone chooses me. (Mostly my clients do not prefer to be recorded or at least have public video.)

 

You should post a link to your ad on your signature and also post on the Fetish forum to promote yourself.

[NathanJustice]

It is odd for many, I know. You'd be surprised the number of people I meet that have no interested in anal or oral sex whatsoever. It's generally fetishists. I currently live in a house of 3-4 young, fit, gay guys into kink and 3 of us don't do anal/oral at all.

 

I tried to add links in my signature and keep getting a spam error message. :/

[liubit]

I am sure you attract certain clients, @NathanJustice, but they don't include me, sorry. Without kissing and mutual sucking, no deal for me.

[+ José Soplanucas]

@NathanJustice , there is a market for everyone, you are just excluding (I think) majority of potential clients. But that does not mean you cannot be successful. Good luck.

[+ nycman]

I would agree with what others have said.

 

It's a niche market....but that doesn't necessarily mean it's an unprofitable one.

 

Having said that it's not for me.

[Decatur Guy]

It's not really clear on your ad and website what you're actually about. For one thing, are you dom or sub or both?

[Guest davebk]

I think this is an interesting question.

 

1. I'm the kind that looks for fetish escorts or men who list certain fetishes because there are certain things I want to include with a guy. Knowing a guy is into that is a big plus for me. But for me, it is hottest if that particular fetish is something that actually gets the escort horned up and eventually gets him off. That's because I am very submissive but also because I love that a man I am with is very into it. Which leads me to

 

2. If you were just using the fetish as a way to make money and NOT have to get into anal or oral with a man, that would not be attractive to me. For some, sure, but I would want it to be a fetish you actually share with me.

 

3. As a client, I think it would be very helpful to include up front not just that you aren't into anal or giving oral, but also whether or not you kiss, and if you personally get off/orgasm from the session.

[+ Charlie]

Yours sounds like a very specialized market indeed. Do the scenes you participate in at least include masturbation by one of the parties? I find it hard to imagine a sexual fantasy that doesn't include any sex.

[caliguy]

 

I can be a selective clean freak so I don't engage in anal sex as an escort as I've never done it myself, wouldn't enjoy it, and don't plan to do it. Same with giving oral.

 

You mean dirty? You sound a bit uptight or paranoid.. How would you know if you've never tried it? I thought someone in the S&M scene would have an open mind or at least willing to explore boundaries.

[DTCG82]

I'd hire you for a marine or baseball fantasy. But you'd have to really really commit to the wardrobe

[MikeyGMin]

It is odd for many, I know. You'd be surprised the number of people I meet that have no interested in anal or oral sex whatsoever. It's generally fetishists. I currently live in a house of 3-4 young, fit, gay guys into kink and 3 of us don't do anal/oral at all.

 

I tried to add links in my signature and keep getting a spam error message. :/

Hey Nathan - I don't know much about fetishes because I don't have any, but I can sometimes get into servicing a hot guy. As long as you are into receiving oral, that would be a possibility if I were in Chicago. I know I'm not the only one who gets into that. (But it's a one-off thing for many. I would never become a regular.)

 

It's definitely going to limit your client pool, but there's a market for everything, and as long as you're upfront about it, no harm no foul. You might want to rethink including "boyfriend experience" in your ad copy though. Of course there is no absolute definition, but virtually everyone agrees that it includes a level of intimacy (kissing and mutual oral) that appears to be out of your comfort zone. Plenty of guys (myself included) enjoy a BFE that does not include penetration, but it ain't a BFE if there isn't intimate kissing. By almost everyone's definition.

 

Good luck and don't let any negativity you receive here deter you. You do you!