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Yes. I was actually contemplating posting about it. Receiving the "L" word can be difficult. It can be a frustrating experience for the client if they get those feelings. Sometimes it may be in yours and their best interest if they stop hiring you.

 

Yikes!

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big-n-tall Grand Master

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Not an escort... :)

 

I would never go after a guy or a girl, escort or not, who did not show an interest in going further. I would swallow those feelings should I develop them. If I thought I was so head over heels in love and the person clearly didn't feel the same way... I'd walk away and come to terms with not seeing the person again. I know not everyone can do that easily.

 

For an escort, I would guess you would have to decide whether you were ok enough to talk with the guy about his feelings. Either that or decide whether continuing to see the guy is in the best interest of you both. If the client's profession of love was relentless, I could see how that could be extremely bothersome.

 

With that said... I have grown to love (platonically) a number of working guys who reciprocate the feeling. As for something deeper, I was crushing hard on one guy and another I've become quite smitten with. The working guy I was crushing on, tells me a lot about how he thinks I would make a great boyfriend. We do think of each other as friends, but that's as far as it will go.

 

Now the other guy is a different story. I think it's leading down the road to something more. At first, I thought, maybe he was just being super sweet. My cynical side thought maybe he's just telling me these things to keep me interested. That all changed fairly quickly. We are in contact almost daily. He no longer asks me for compensation for his time. Although, I will give him gas money when he drives a long distance to see me. :D When we do see each other we spend almost a whole day or more together. There is a lot going on between he and I that is tantamount to being in a relationship. We've talked about it a lot. He knows how I feel and I know how he feels. I'm not sure where it will go, but I'm enjoying what we have at this point.

 

End slightly related tangent. Lol!!!

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not2rowdy Experienced

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Not an escort but…

You’re not the first to have run across this situation - and won’t be the last.

 

Some additional advice might be found in these threads:

 

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/when-a-client-falls-in-love.76356/

 

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/im-in-love-with-an-escort-help-me-please.88181/

 

 

Hopefully it hasn’t progressed too far:

 

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/clients-being-to-clingy.86675/

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TruHart1 Grand Master

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I'm a client, not an escort, but I have one regular escort I continue hiring who said he loved me first a few years ago. Because he is a sincere sort of fella who has always treated me extra special, in both big ways and little ways, I never doubted his sincerity in his declaration of love. Will we move in together and get married? No, but our relationship on and off the clock is, in my estimation, very romantic when we do spend time together and I have no reservations about using the "L" word with him, myself!

 

Of course, I have admitted to this often: I fall in love just a little whenever my best regulars spend time with me. With the escort who unabashedly declares, "I love you, TruHart1" I feel our relationship has moved to an even higher level. The important thing for me is to let him lead the way in our relationship so we may both feel comfortable and enjoy what happens to be between us, both sexually and emotionally!

 

TruHart1 :cool:

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DR FREUD Rising Star

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After almost 17 years on this forum it is obvious that over the years there were many clients who have fallen in love with their escort. These men really need to obtain therapy prior to hiring any additional men. I can remember one from Indianapolis that especially was over the top and needed help.

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I recently had my first encounter with an escort. He told me he loved me several times and not just in the middle of passion. I understood that it was only part of the BFE within this scenario and nothing more than that. As I think about it now and after reading this thread, I can't help but think he might be playing with fire if he does this with other clients. He's very convincing.

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nycman Grand Master

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I recently had my first encounter with an escort. He told me he loved me several times

 

Yikes! Talk about playing with fire! It would make me run away quickly

if something like that happened on my first encounter with an escort.

 

I have used the "L" word with escorts to whom I have become attached,

however, it was after lengthy discussions about the difference between.

"loving" someone and being "in love" with someone.

 

Thankfully, I have never been "in love" with an escort.

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Yikes! Talk about playing with fire! It would make me run away quickly

if something like that happened on my first encounter with an escort.

 

I have used the "L" word with escorts to whom I have become attached,

however, it was after lengthy discussions about the difference between.

"loving" someone and being "in love" with someone.

 

Thankfully, I have never been "in love" with an escort.

Same here. There is a big difference between "I love ya man" and "I'm in love with you." Love the arrangement -- not the man.

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José Soplanucas Grand Master

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Yikes! Talk about playing with fire! It would make me run away quickly

if something like that happened on my first encounter with an escort.

 

I have used the "L" word with escorts to whom I have become attached,

however, it was after lengthy discussions about the difference between.

"loving" someone and being "in love" with someone.

 

Thankfully, I have never been "in love" with an escort.

 

I would run away if that happens to me with a regular hook up. But if an escort does it, it is just role playing.

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I hinted to an escort that love was a possibility for me and he kindly replied that he liked what he did and wasn't looking for a relationship. He handled it beautifully.

Very professional response. My real reply is very similar. (Not the one below)

 

I love you.............. 're wallet and dates.

:D

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"Falling in love and having a relationship are different" - That's actually so damn real. I do have a lot of clients who share their love with me, and with some I do in return, but the fact is usually that no matter how amazingly we get along in the context of our dates chances are our lifestyles are too different for a real relationship to be something that would be enjoyable for long. I'm down for building love as long as there is an understanding of the boundaries in which our love is contained.

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