Are there new ways to find escorts?

[Will-ing Service]

I am not new to hiring but I am finding RentMen on the expensive side, Craigslist is very sketchy, and A4A has not been that good for me either. I am more of a sub and just want to service but I am finding it really hard to find someone. People say that Grinder and Scruff are outlets but I don't know how to find Escorts there. Sometimes I just wanna suck a dick and not have to pay a fortune and sometimes I will spend for a scene. Can anyone fill me in on the newer ways to find guys online or on apps?? Really frustrated here - thanks!

[MrMattBig]

I am not new to hiring but I am finding RentMen on the expensive side, Craigslist is very sketchy, and A4A has not been that good for me either. I am more of a sub and just want to service but I am finding it really hard to find someone. People say that Grinder and Scruff are outlets but I don't know how to find Escorts there. Sometimes I just wanna suck a dick and not have to pay a fortune and sometimes I will spend for a scene. Can anyone fill me in on the newer ways to find guys online or on apps?? Really frustrated here - thanks!

 

There are always ways to find escorts.

If you find someone you like and aren't sure if they escort, simply message them

"Hi, I saw your pics and profile and really want to meet you. Would you be open to me paying for your time?"

The time part is key, you are not paying to give oral, you are paying to meet this person, and then whatever happens is on you two after that.

If all that happens is oral, if said person charges 300 for an hour of their time, then you still pay him 300.

[+ poolboy48220]

Yikes. I'm not sure if I could ever be that direct for someone I'm not sure is escorting.

[MrMattBig]

It's better than " I have 60, can I suck your cock?"

Trust me, I get those responses, and it goes instantly limp.

[+ poolboy48220]

HAHAHAHAHAHA. Well said. But what I meant was I'd have trouble expressing that idea, however tactfully put, to someone I wasn't sure was as least open to the idea. Hell, I'm very careful even when I ask the strippers/dancers "Do you ever see people outside the club?" And that's NEVER before I've spent some money on them already, in a private dance.

[MrMattBig]

It's is definitely harder to ask in person.

And asking a stripper is even harder.

I echo that sentiment, I have wanted to ask female strippers if they meet outside of work, but have been to scared to do so.

Behind electronic screen however, might as well go for it.

[DMICS]

I am not new to hiring but I am finding RentMen on the expensive side, Craigslist is very sketchy, and A4A has not been that good for me either. I am more of a sub and just want to service but I am finding it really hard to find someone. People say that Grinder and Scruff are outlets but I don't know how to find Escorts there. Sometimes I just wanna suck a dick and not have to pay a fortune and sometimes I will spend for a scene. Can anyone fill me in on the newer ways to find guys online or on apps?? Really frustrated here - thanks!

 

I thought I wrote this for a second. I'm in the exact same boat.

 

I've been thinking using Instagram to reach out to guys that have my interest.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I am puzzled. If all you want is to suck a dick, why do you need an escort? Adam and Scruff (Grinder never worked for me) are full of guys who would happily let you suck their dicks for free or for a few bucks.

Are you in a big city or in a small town?

 

I am not new to hiring but I am finding RentMen on the expensive side, Craigslist is very sketchy, and A4A has not been that good for me either. I am more of a sub and just want to service but I am finding it really hard to find someone. People say that Grinder and Scruff are outlets but I don't know how to find Escorts there. Sometimes I just wanna suck a dick and not have to pay a fortune and sometimes I will spend for a scene. Can anyone fill me in on the newer ways to find guys online or on apps?? Really frustrated here - thanks!

[Will-ing Service]

There are always ways to find escorts.

If you find someone you like and aren't sure if they escort, simply message them

"Hi, I saw your pics and profile and really want to meet you. Would you be open to me paying for your time?"

The time part is key, you are not paying to give oral, you are paying to meet this person, and then whatever happens is on you two after that.

If all that happens is oral, if said person charges 300 for an hour of their time, then you still pay him 300.

[Will-ing Service]

I have done similar things to writing and asking if they are open to it but have not gotten any reply at all. I am looking for something more direct if that is possible don't really want to spend time doing a back and forth.

[Will-ing Service]

I am puzzled. If all you want is to suck a dick, why do you need an escort? Adam and Scruff (Grinder never worked for me) are full of guys who would happily let you suck their dicks for free or for a few bucks.

Are you in a big city or in a small town?

[Will-ing Service]

I have not really done Grinder but have not had luck with Adam 4 Adam - I am in NYC and I am surprised that this would be so difficult

[+ José Soplanucas]

I have not really done Grinder but have not had luck with Adam 4 Adam - I am in NYC and I am surprised that this would be so difficult

When you hit reply, you can write your response in the body of the same message where the quote appears, like I am doing right now.

I am surprised you cannot make Adam work for you in NYC. Every time I visit NYC I get plenty of fun from Adam, for free. You must be doing something wrong.

By the way, welcome to the forums!

[+ Eric Hassan]

I am not new to hiring but I am finding RentMen on the expensive side, Craigslist is very sketchy, and A4A has not been that good for me either. I am more of a sub and just want to service but I am finding it really hard to find someone. People say that Grinder and Scruff are outlets but I don't know how to find Escorts there. Sometimes I just wanna suck a dick and not have to pay a fortune and sometimes I will spend for a scene. Can anyone fill me in on the newer ways to find guys online or on apps?? Really frustrated here - thanks!

 

RentMen is not expensive because RentMen does not set the rates for escorts. There is typical market rate in each major city. It's the typical market rate because it's what most escorts are charging. It varies from city to city - for example, the market rate here in NYC is much higher than it is in Manchester, NH. Some escorts may charge more or less, but for various reasons, that can be a bad idea for business. If the market rate in your city/town/locale is higher than you're willing to pay, you might want to consider options that are not escorts.

 

I can't speak for everyone, obviously, but I think you're going to have a hard time scouring apps and social media sites, tossing out offers to pay people for sex. You might get lucky and find someone, but I'm guessing you'll get nasty responses, blocked, or kicked off sites/apps.

 

Your time and energy and peace of mind will probably be better spent developing relationships with a guy/guys that you are sexually compatible with ("fuck buddies") that don't charge you and then spending money on a guy that you carefully vet, when it's the right time for you.

[+ José Soplanucas]

RentMen is not expensive because RentMen does not set the rates for escorts. There is typical market rate in each major city. It's the typical market rate because it's what most escorts are charging. It varies from city to city - for example, the market rate here in NYC is much higher than it is in Manchester, NH. Some escorts may charge more or less, but for various reasons, that can be a bad idea for business. If the market rate in your city/town/locale is higher than you're willing to pay, you might want to consider options that are not escorts.

 

I can't speak for everyone, obviously, but I think you're going to have a hard time scouring apps and social media sites, tossing out offers to pay people for sex. You might get lucky and find someone, but I'm guessing you'll get nasty responses, blocked, or kicked off sites/apps.

 

Your time and energy and peace of mind will probably be better spent developing relationships with a guy/guys that you are sexually compatible with ("fuck buddies") that don't charge you and then spending money on a guy that you carefully vet, when it's the right time for you.

 

Ditto. And if it is possible, in your same neighborhood. I love Adam's "near you".

[+ goosh69]

It's is definitely harder to ask in person.

And asking a stripper is even harder.

I echo that sentiment, I have wanted to ask female strippers if they meet outside of work, but have been to scared to do so.

Behind electronic screen however, might as well go for it.

Asking a stripper is WAY easier! 9/10 times they escort. At least that often!