Do people have less time to see an escort?

[Mocha]

Just asking in general. Seems one of the major challenges of being a full time traveling escort (meaning hitting different cities over a period of several weeks), is not being able to meet some of the people because their time schedules only allow narrow window to meet.

 

I've already missed a couple clients this week because I've been contacted the night of to see if I'm available. Either they don't give me enough time to get there (sometimes as little as an hour or 2), or say they can't meet the next day because of other obligations. Usually the convention goers and business types...which is why I've argued before that it's not always worth chasing conventions because it seems everyone is short on time.

 

The other kinda annoying one is when someone just contacts out the blue, expects immediate availability...but when I say Ill be available tomorrow and can schedule then...I get, "okay catch you next time you're here". Well next time I'm in the area may be a year from now.

 

I know sometimes people really do have obligations, and some people seem to like to make themselves appear busy so they can miss you anyway. But if someone is genuine, why cant more time be given? Other times, people seem like they're too busy to meet the next day...but end up being able to meet after all.

 

I know I'm not a long time friend or family member, but I think people should atleast try to understand that an escort coming to town is similar to a friend or family member who's coming to town. I would say some general thoughts; if contacting someone after like 8 pm...hope to meet that night, but understand it's likely that person will either need a couple hours to wrap up their current plans or need the next day to reschedule.

[+ Kufrol]

Conventions and workshops pose variables that often require spontaneity. If participants have traveled with colleagues, finding a specific time to be able to meet is tricky. Schedules often change, and ultimately, one's time belongs to his or her employer if the company pays for the trip.

[Trick]

It's happened to me once or twice as a client where I had booked an appointment in a city I was traveling to and the escort canceled. That was when I had to call around last minute for who was available.

[+ oldNbusted]

It seems like the issue described is narrow windows plus short notice. I usually have limited availability but as long as things are planned a few weeks in advance, it's fine. I like the anticipation anyway.

[LaffingBear]

As a client

 

How am I supposed to correlate this concern, and escorts frequently noting in the forums that client contacts regarding advanced planning generally indicates they won't follow-through?

[Trick]

I guess it's simply a reality we all have to live with, that there are flakes from both camps - escorts and clients.

[MartyB]

Doesn't it also wrap around the city the escort is traveling to, whether one has a regular escort one sees, if you can only see the escort discreet times and how long the escort is in town for. It's not always clear cut in both sides.

[LaffingBear]

I guess it's simply a reality we all have to live with, that there are flakes from both camps - escorts and clients.

Maybe not so much flakes.... but, as with almost all things in life, theres no one right approach.

 

I forget who it was... some big fat comic.... used to joke that he'd stand in the clothing section in a department store and yell

"What is this one-size-fits-all bullshit?!?!?!"

[+ VictorPowers]

Just asking in general. Seems one of the major challenges of being a full time traveling escort (meaning hitting different cities over a period of several weeks), is not being able to meet some of the people because their time schedules only allow narrow window to meet.

 

I've already missed a couple clients this week because I've been contacted the night of to see if I'm available. Either they don't give me enough time to get there (sometimes as little as an hour or 2), or say they can't meet the next day because of other obligations. Usually the convention goers and business types...which is why I've argued before that it's not always worth chasing conventions because it seems everyone is short on time.

 

The other kinda annoying one is when someone just contacts out the blue, expects immediate availability...but when I say Ill be available tomorrow and can schedule then...I get, "okay catch you next time you're here". Well next time I'm in the area may be a year from now.

 

I know sometimes people really do have obligations, and some people seem to like to make themselves appear busy so they can miss you anyway. But if someone is genuine, why cant more time be given? Other times, people seem like they're too busy to meet the next day...but end up being able to meet after all.

 

I know I'm not a long time friend or family member, but I think people should atleast try to understand that an escort coming to town is similar to a friend or family member who's coming to town. I would say some general thoughts; if contacting someone after like 8 pm...hope to meet that night, but understand it's likely that person will either need a couple hours to wrap up their current plans or need the next day to reschedule.

It's hard to be "available instantaneously". Agreed there, but those quick appointments can really help in the long run if you accommodate for your client. Understand that their timeframe may be slim. In the end, here to adhere to their schedule and provide at a convenient time.

[Jomo]

Just asking in general. Seems one of the major challenges of being a full time traveling escort (meaning hitting different cities over a period of several weeks), is not being able to meet some of the people because their time schedules only allow narrow window to meet.

 

I've already missed a couple clients this week because I've been contacted the night of to see if I'm available. Either they don't give me enough time to get there (sometimes as little as an hour or 2), or say they can't meet the next day because of other obligations. Usually the convention goers and business types...which is why I've argued before that it's not always worth chasing conventions because it seems everyone is short on time.

 

The other kinda annoying one is when someone just contacts out the blue, expects immediate availability...but when I say Ill be available tomorrow and can schedule then...I get, "okay catch you next time you're here". Well next time I'm in the area may be a year from now.

 

I know sometimes people really do have obligations, and some people seem to like to make themselves appear busy so they can miss you anyway. But if someone is genuine, why cant more time be given? Other times, people seem like they're too busy to meet the next day...but end up being able to meet after all.

 

I know I'm not a long time friend or family member, but I think people should atleast try to understand that an escort coming to town is similar to a friend or family member who's coming to town. I would say some general thoughts; if contacting someone after like 8 pm...hope to meet that night, but understand it's likely that person will either need a couple hours to wrap up their current plans or need the next day to reschedule.

I've only hired 7 times in my short life, with three different scorts. They have all been a minimum of three weeks in advance

Only been stood up once. I do forward my flight schedule. Maybe that helps

[LaffingBear]

[Mocha]

It's hard to be "available instantaneously". Agreed there, but those quick appointments can really help in the long run if you accommodate for your client. Understand that their timeframe may be slim. In the end, here to adhere to their schedule and provide at a convenient time.

 

That's true, i did it yesterday in fact. Because I happened to already be in the car and the client was able to host. Hotels in Milwaukee are booked up all weekend so I'm shacking with friends.

 

BUT...even that client was almost missed. He squeezed me in between some other plans. As we were getting ready, he was worried some people might be showing up. So I was rushing to go before they get there.

 

I'm not saying don't book last minute because it's true...sometimes those come in handy and save the day. I'm just saying, if someone is debating between planning or not planning, go with planning.

 

And even then, i still missed another client who contacted me yesterday, wanted to book last night and then again this morning. But after last night, I'm not ready to jump out of bed and drive back to Milwaukee to work first thing in the morning. That's how people end of with heart attacks and manic episodes. And conveniently, he's no longer available now that I'm wide awake.

[Larstrup]

If you're a traveling escort in a city looking for business and you're available, and need more than an hour or two, to meet your client, what are you doing there in the first place? ( based on your second paragraph scenario)

 

Shouldn't you already be primped, pretty and ready to go?

[Mocha]

If you're a traveling escort in a city looking for business and you're available, and need more than an hour or two, to meet your client, what are you doing there in the first place? ( based on your second paragraph scenario)

 

Shouldn't you already be primped, pretty and ready to go?

 

Hell Mutha F'ing no. I can't be primed round the clock. I can only be aware of and prepared for. Like, If a hurricane watch/warning is forecasted, i have 24-48 hours to get prepared by having my bag of condoms lube and accessories ready to go. Which I always do anyway. But, if the hurricane suddenly shows up with 30 minutes notice, that's not enough time to shower, put in directions, screen the client, and stop what I'm doing. Sometimes, those things are already done, or if in a hotel it can be done quicker than an outcall.

 

Otherwise it would equate to sitting around for hours and days. By the time someone does contact, he'd be too burnt out from waiting to really meet anyone. Waiting for the phone to ring is an extraordinary tedious task in itself.

 

An hour or 2 notice should be reasonably expected I think. Available doesn't mean standing on a street corner flagging down taxis. Available means....there's no clients currently in the queue, let's schedule something together. But not 0-60 mph with 3.5 seconds notice.

[rvwnsd]

Typically, I make plans at least a day in advance. The one time I scheduled a same-day appointment was a fluke - was talking with an escort and he said he had availability later in the evening and I booked him. Had a great time.

 

Regarding the question about requiring more than two hours' notice, that seems entirely reasonable. Let's make a little timeline:

• Client initiates contact at 6:00 PM
  
• Back and forth about likes/dislikes, rate, location 6:00 PM - 6:30 PM
  
• Time booked at 6:30 PM
  
• Escort thoroughly showers, shaves, deodorizes, and grooms 6:30 - 7:15
  
• If bottoming, escort prepares to bottom 6:30 PM - 7:30 PM (includes time for residual water to make its way out, although I've heard one should finish the prep routine at least 2 hours before penetration) so shower/grooming begins one hour later
  
• Escort dresses 7:15 - 7:30 (or 8:15 - 8:30 if bottoming)
  
• If hosting, escort straightens up his hotel room/home to make it client-ready 7:30 - 8:15 (or 8:30 - 9:15 if bottoming)
  
• If traveling, escort gathers keys, phone, gear, and determines route 8:15 - 8:30 (9:15 - 9:30 if bottoming)
  
• If traveling, escort gets to client (who the hell knows how long)
  
• If hosting, escort takes time to relax and get ready to be "on" for the client 8:15 - 9:00 (9:15 - 10:00 if bottoming)
  

Seems like three hours is the minimum time for a relaxed and groomed escort.

 

One last point: would we be disputing @Mocha's comments/questions had they been made by one of the beloved escorts who could be excused for mowing down a row of nuns while they are rescuing a litter of kittens from being washed away by the floodwaters caused by an earthquake- and hurricane-triggered tsunami? I'm guessing not.

[+ VictorPowers]

I feel the definition of "reasonable advanced notice" can differ from person to person. As a bottom, it's difficult to be ready "anytime". My personal preference is a day notice. At minimum, I like a couple hours if I'm free anyway.

[marylander1940]

Just asking in general. Seems one of the major challenges of being a full time traveling escort (meaning hitting different cities over a period of several weeks), is not being able to meet some of the people because their time schedules only allow narrow window to meet.

 

I've already missed a couple clients this week because I've been contacted the night of to see if I'm available. Either they don't give me enough time to get there (sometimes as little as an hour or 2), or say they can't meet the next day because of other obligations. Usually the convention goers and business types...which is why I've argued before that it's not always worth chasing conventions because it seems everyone is short on time.

 

The other kinda annoying one is when someone just contacts out the blue, expects immediate availability...but when I say Ill be available tomorrow and can schedule then...I get, "okay catch you next time you're here". Well next time I'm in the area may be a year from now.

 

I know sometimes people really do have obligations, and some people seem to like to make themselves appear busy so they can miss you anyway. But if someone is genuine, why cant more time be given? Other times, people seem like they're too busy to meet the next day...but end up being able to meet after all.

 

I know I'm not a long time friend or family member, but I think people should atleast try to understand that an escort coming to town is similar to a friend or family member who's coming to town. I would say some general thoughts; if contacting someone after like 8 pm...hope to meet that night, but understand it's likely that person will either need a couple hours to wrap up their current plans or need the next day to reschedule.

 

 

 

And when some folks are THAT busy... they're only free now and they can't wait 30 mins they should jerk of now and think their own lifestyle and what's a priority and what isn't before dumping their frustration/issues (imaginary or real) on others...

 

@Mocha Thank you for being so honest on here! All jobs have frustrations.

[rvwnsd]

@Mocha Thank you for being so honest on here! All jobs have frustrations.

+1

Thanks for saying this very succinctly.

[marylander1940]

+1

Thanks for saying this very succinctly.

 

It's an honor coming from: Teller of "Like It Is"

[rvwnsd]

It's an honor coming from: Teller of "Like It Is"

Awww, shucks - you are making me blush.