H.E.

[Cannon]

I know this will vary from client to client, but Im just trying to get a general idea... when you book a massage, do you hope for or expect H.E.?

[Mydavid]

I know this will vary from client to client, but Im just trying to get a general idea... when you book a massage, do you hope for or expect H.E.?

I always confirm in advance that I will have a H.E.

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

If the hourly rate exceeds $100, I assume there will more play in the massage and expect a HE. If a lower rate, there is usually a little hope.

[Dmitri]

That is actually 2 questions and 2 different things::

 

1) Hope For? I think everyone on this forum "hopes for" a happy ending

 

2) Expect? It does not matter what the price is in a masseur's ad....or the vibe of the ad. I think we all have gone to masseurs on the high end price wise.....or someone who had a very sexual ad and we did not get a happy ending. That is not the masseur's fault.......it is ours since we assumed there would be a happy ending and did not ask before hand. So no one should ever "expect" a happy ending unless you confirm it with the masseur BEFORE you go. It is unwise to be a mind reader with any masseur and end up disappointed. From personal experience...if you want a happy ending.....confirm before you go!

[LaffingBear]

I know this will vary from client to client, but Im just trying to get a general idea... when you book a massage, do you hope for or expect H.E.?

Nope

[+ LS299B]

I know this will vary from client to client, but Im just trying to get a general idea... when you book a massage, do you hope for or expect H.E.?

When I book a massage on Masseurfinder and Rentmasseur, I anticipate a H.E. But when going to my local Massage Envy. . . no hopes or expectations whatsoever.

[JBrian72]

I know this will vary from client to client, but Im just trying to get a general idea... when you book a massage, do you hope for or expect H.E.?

No. I rely on organic chemistry. If he's into it, I can tell and we can take it anywhere. If he's not into it, I can tell that too, and I focus on the therapeutic aspects. It would seem very strange to me to negotiate a sexual act with someone I've never met before.

[bigvalboy]

No. I rely on organic chemistry. If he's into it, I can tell and we can take it anywhere. If he's not into it, I can tell that too, and I focus on the therapeutic aspects. It would seem very strange to me to negotiate a sexual act with someone I've never met before.

+1

I don't expect anything.

 

I've had massages that transitioned into an escort situation, but it was something that he initiated, not me. Other times, mutual touch was more than sufficient, and there were times when it was clear that the masseur did not want anything to happen past a therapeutic massage, and I am more than OK with that. I don't hope or expect anything. As JBrian indicates, I am personally very uncomfortable with a HE unless the masseur is into it.

[+ oldNbusted]

I know this will vary from client to client, but Im just trying to get a general idea... when you book a massage, do you hope for or expect H.E.?

 

No, having someone else do that leaves me sore for days, so I would need to do that myself, but it would be ok if I could touch him at the same time. But generally, I don't need that, that's what escort sessions are for.

[LookingAround]

Why would someone jerking you off leave you sore for days?

[+ EVdude]

I never negotiate or discuss it. Usually I can tell from their ad or in direct communication whether it'll happen or not. And while it's not paramount, I've had few massages where it hasn't happened except for my regular guys that I go to strictly for a fantastic tech massage and know that it won't happen. I've only had one spa massage that did not include an HE... and I've had a lot of spa massages. I absolutely refuse to do myself infront of a masseur. Total buzz kill.

[Becket]

I always use the catch phrases, "full body massage" or "mutual contact ok?" Using these two terms--I'm too shy just to ask, though that would be easier--I have never been disappointed.

[+ HornyRetiree]

I always confirm in advance that I will have a H.E.

 

DITTO -- a massage moves and shifts energy and part of the culmination of a relaxing massage for me is ejaculation.

[+ oldNbusted]

Why would someone jerking you off leave you sore for days?

 

Beats me!