Escorts who actually (or with some enthusiasm) like older guys

[BoyBerlin]

Yeah...I get that a lot.

Does it turn you off like it does me? Or flatter you?

[+ purplekow]

Never underestimate the power of appealing to the vanity of a middle aged man.

[njr47]

Purplekow is absolutely right. A young man's flattery (feigned or real) is an amazing aphrodisiac---even when you know (in the case of escorts) it is most likely a marketing tool.

[BoyBerlin]

Hey guys, I don't mean to sound like an ass hole but when it comes to escorts being attracted to me and enjoying the sex I prefer just not to know..2 reasons: The first is if they don't like it and aren't attracted to me and I know I start to feel guilty.. If they tell me I am hot and that they love the sex its a total turn-off because as I like to think I'm getting something I can't get for free and there is of course this twisted Dom side of me that doesn't want them to enjoy it... So I prefer don't ask don't tell.. Love this forum because I would never admit any of this in person!

[adventurous old guy]

Hey guys, I don't mean to sound like an ass hole but when it comes to escorts being attracted to me and enjoying the sex I prefer just not to know..2 reasons: The first is if they don't like it and aren't attracted to me and I know I start to feel guilty.. If they tell me I am hot and that they love the sex its a total turn-off because as I like to think I'm getting something I can't get for free and there is of course this twisted Dom side of me that doesn't want them to enjoy it... So I prefer don't ask don't tell.. Love this forum because I would never admit any of this in person!

BoyB -- you are a gadfly! We have differences of opinion as you know. But I must say you are adding spirt it this thread! I never predict what you'll say next, LOL.

[+ purplekow]

Hey guys, I don't mean to sound like an ass hole but when it comes to escorts being attracted to me and enjoying the sex I prefer just not to know..2 reasons: The first is if they don't like it and aren't attracted to me and I know I start to feel guilty.. If they tell me I am hot and that they love the sex its a total turn-off because as I like to think I'm getting something I can't get for free and there is of course this twisted Dom side of me that doesn't want them to enjoy it... So I prefer don't ask don't tell.. Love this forum because I would never admit any of this in person!

Well do you have a ball gag handy, just in case one of them is just so overcome by having sex with you that they feel man-dated to let you know?

[+ Funguy]

Geez - we have some real cynics here.

At 68, soon to be 69, I'm oldER but I'm not dead. And, if I want, I can cum twice in a 2 hour meet. But that's not what it's all about.

 

I don't hire those 22 year old hotties, I go for the older mature guys. Am I an "easy" client? Maybe. But, we kiss, suck, we rim, we fuck, we cum wherever we want, we repeat, AND WE LAUGH, and we eat. We throw a bit of kink in the mix, we do all of the above and laugh some more. And I am sure satisfied at the end. We also repeat the process as often as logistics allow.

Again, am I an "easy" client or am I a "fun" client . . . You tell me.

[instudiocity]

... If they tell me I am hot and that they love the sex its a total turn-off because as I like to think I'm getting something I can't get for free and there is of course this twisted Dom side of me that doesn't want them to enjoy it... So I prefer don't ask don't tell..

No Shit? Are you sure?

 

sarcasm

[BoyBerlin]

Well do you have a ball gag handy, just in case one of them is just so overcome by having sex with you that they feel man-dated to let you know?

They wouldn't be "punished" its just a turn off...

[BoyBerlin]

No Shit? Are you sure?

 

sarcasm

Sure about what?

[P Gren]

You mention that you were an escort and perhaps an "easy client" is what you preferred but that is not true for every escort. While I cannot imagine an escort wanting five clients in a row who want to "fuck until there ass is torn up for a whole hour" but I do not bottom so perhaps that is a thing someone may enjoy and find "easy". It seems that you assume older men cannot fuck for an hour, but perhaps you are hanging out with the wrong older men.

 

As you know, sometimes escorting is a job and sometimes it is a pleasure to offer the service. When it is a job, it is harder and I would imagine that an escort may appreciate the "easy (to satisfy) clients". When it is a pleasure, I think escorts will be attracted to being with that client no matter his age and irrespective of whether he is an "easy client" or not.

It's always a job. Sometimes it's probably awful and sometimes it's maybe a pleasure - like any other job. And it's always a job

[+ purplekow]

It's always a job. Sometimes it's probably awful and sometimes it's maybe a pleasure - like any other job. And it's always a job

Hmmm, I thought that is what I wrote, but I suppose to make it crystal clear I could have stated: Sometimes it is a tedious and onerous job and sometimes it is a pleasurable job to perform the service.

[LADoug1]

Does it turn you off like it does me? Or flatter you?

I'm always dubious that the compliment is sincere or just good marketing skills. I hope I'm just too cynical.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I'm always dubious that the compliment is sincere or just good marketing skills. I hope I'm just too cynical.

 

I never pay attention to words but to actual connection and actions. This thread is ridiculous. Rather than adult men into hiring prostitutes we sound like middle school girls debating who the popular kids like the most.

[marylander1940]

I never pay attention to words but to actual connection and actions. This thread is ridiculous. Rather than adult men into hiring prostitutes we sound like middle school girls debating who the popular kids like the most.

 

Brilliant, besides I wonder how many of yinz when you were younger liked older men in their 50's and beyond

 

(I'm aware some of yinz started hiring in your 20's, and 30's)

[marylander1940]

Never underestimate the power of appealing to the vanity of a middle aged man.

 

A nice compliment goes a long way... tell that to Putin.

[BoyBerlin]

I never pay attention to words but to actual connection and actions. This thread is ridiculous. Rather than adult men into hiring prostitutes we sound like middle school girls debating who the popular kids like the most.

Not really sure what makes this thread ridiculous and the others not?

[Mydavid]

Again, am I an "easy" client or am I a "fun" client . . . You tell me.

You are both easy and fun.

[LaffingBear]

I never pay attention to words but to actual connection and actions. This thread is ridiculous. Rather than adult men into hiring prostitutes we sound like middle school girls debating who the popular kids like the most.

Ya know....ridiculous wasnt quite my reaction. But for some reason, watching the link repeatedly has become a very very mild irritant for me. I stress VERY.

 

And I finally realized why. Its the use of the word actually in the thread title.

 

As if there's a sense if incredulity about escorts liking older guys. Brings to mind use such as

• Teenage girls questioning "eeeew, you actually went out with that guy?!?!" or
  
• "Gross! You actually enjoy eating insects!?!?"
  
• "You mean you actually hit the guy? Really slugged him?"
  

It conveys a sense of disbelief.

 

Starts from the premise that escorts couldnt possibly prefer older clients, could they?

 

I have no wish to project some intent on the OP. I'm inferring alot. I'm just responding to the ridiculousness noted by others, and the prevalence of the thread.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I am out. I like confident men. Middle school girls are annoying and boring. Bye.

[P Gren]

I never pay attention to words but to actual connection and actions. This thread is ridiculous. Rather than adult men into hiring prostitutes we sound like middle school girls debating who the popular kids like the most.

Maybe you have a point. And for some guys who came out later in life, and never got the chance to be teenagers mooning over guys, now might be their opportunity to do just that. Part of life.

[P Gren]

Ya know....ridiculous wasnt quite my reaction. But for some reason, watching the link repeatedly has become a very very mild irritant for me. I stress VERY.

 

And I finally realized why. Its the use of the word actually in the thread title.

 

As if there's a sense if incredulity about escorts liking older guys. Brings to mind use such as

• Teenage girls questioning "eeeew, you actually went out with that guy?!?!" or
  
• "Gross! You actually enjoy eating insects!?!?"
  
• "You mean you actually hit the guy? Really slugged him?"
  

It conveys a sense of disbelief.

 

Starts from the premise that escorts couldnt possibly prefer older clients, could they?

 

I have no wish to project some intent on the OP. I'm inferring alot. I'm just responding to the ridiculousness noted by others, and the prevalence of the thread.

Wasn't actually the whole point of the question? For escorts, are there guys that are enthusiastic about the older part of the job market? Lots of pros and cons offered - not so many names offered (which I guess was the other point of the question).

[marylander1940]

Ya know....ridiculous wasnt quite my reaction. But for some reason, watching the link repeatedly has become a very very mild irritant for me. I stress VERY.

 

And I finally realized why. Its the use of the word actually in the thread title.

 

As if there's a sense if incredulity about escorts liking older guys. Brings to mind use such as

• Teenage girls questioning "eeeew, you actually went out with that guy?!?!" or
  
• "Gross! You actually enjoy eating insects!?!?"
  
• "You mean you actually hit the guy? Really slugged him?"
  

It conveys a sense of disbelief.

 

Starts from the premise that escorts couldnt possibly prefer older clients, could they?

 

I have no wish to project some intent on the OP. I'm inferring alot. I'm just responding to the ridiculousness noted by others, and the prevalence of the thread.

 

When you were young did you usually like men your dad's age?

 

I didn't. Btw my dad was 30 years old when I was born, when I was 20 he was 50 ( in case yinz ask).

[LaffingBear]

Wasn't actually the whole point of the question? For escorts are there guys that are enthusiastic about the older part of the job market? Lots of pros and cons offered - not so many names offered (which I guess was the other point of the question).

I'll never know the OP's exact intent.

 

its one thing to ask

 

Are there escorts who like seeing older clients?

 

something else to ask

 

Are there escorts who actually like seeing older clients? It sets a tone of disbelief.

 

I never would have noticed if this thread, with actually in the title, wasn't always prominent at the top of the room topic-list.

 

And... I posted specifics

When you were young did you usually like men your dad's age?

 

I didn't. Btw my dad was 30 years old when I was born, when I was 20 he was 50 ( in case yinz ask).

 

I don't recall any time in adulthood that I was so unattracted to anyone, that I would respond to another's interest with surprise "You mean you actually think s/he's attractive?!?!"

[P Gren]

Are there escorts who actually like seeing older clients? It sets a tone of disbelief.

 

I never would have noticed if this thread, with actually in the title, wasn't always prominent at the top of the room topic-list.

 

And... I posted specifics

I assumed the question was based on real experience. Your specifics were probably helpful.