Escorts who actually (or with some enthusiasm) like older guys

[adventurous old guy]

I recommend you search the forum for posts related to "Danielzx". There has been a good bit of discussion related to him.

 

I had considered hiring him in FTL and did some research on some of his pics and they were found elsewhere. He blocked me on RM after I posted a message here.

Keith, very surprised to hear this. The face pics are definitely his, and after close inspection I'd say he's one of those who look better than their pics body-wise. Not disputing your statements, just puzzled by what motivated him to use somebody else's pics.

[+ Keith30309]

Keith, very surprised to hear this. The face pics are definitely his, and after close inspection I'd say he's one of those who look better than their pics body-wise. Not disputing your statements, just puzzled by what motivated him to use somebody else's pics.

There have been occasions when there are divergent opinions of a companion by clients with personal experiences and rock-solid judgement.

About a year ago I had a pretty negative experience with a New York guy and yet someone who's judgement I trust without question had great experiences. I think I can only have objective confidence so far in what I am likely to experience with a potential companion because we are all humans and the dynamic of Client+Companion is so personal. My "how am I likely to feel after spending time with this person" question I always ask myself can never be 100%. Maybe that's a good thing... the excitement of the unknown is a big part of the emotional payback for me.

[amigomonty]

Nice find from another thread. Check his wording. https://rent.men/DominicPacifico

[BoyBerlin]

I'm sure this subject has been covered by this group before.......but are there any escorts who: 1) advertise that they particularly like older men? or 2) have show members of this group that they prefer older men? I've met Mike Gaite, who was terrific, but who else?

I know I might offend here but I want to be honest and real... One thing I never mentioned in past post is I was an escort before I became a client and can see this from both sides.

There are escorts who prefer older clients when working. This is much different than being specifically attracted to older men. Older clients are probably easier, not as demanding and more generous so its an easy call for an escort compared to client like me who wants to pound their ass for an hour straight. Sorry to burst any bubbles here but this doesn't mean that the hot 22 year old has a thing for guys in their 70s it just means your less work and perhaps more profitable. Of course, there is always a 1 off which but 9 out of 10 times its going to be what I stated above.

[MikeBiDude]

I know I might offend here but I want to be honest and real... One thing I never mentioned in past post is I was an escort before I became a client and can see this from both sides.

There are escorts who prefer older clients when working. This is much different than being specifically attracted to older men. Older clients are probably easier, not as demanding and more generous so its an easy call for an escort compared to client like me who wants to pound their ass for an hour straight. Sorry to burst any bubbles here but this doesn't mean that the hot 22 year old has a thing for guys in their 70s it just means your less work and perhaps more profitable. Of course, there is always a 1 off which but 9 out of 10 times its going to be what I stated above.

I'll take those odds...

[+ purplekow]

There are escorts who prefer older men.

There are escorts who prefer older men's money.

There are escorts who prefer older men because it is easy money.

There are escorts who would not touch a guy over 30 in his private life.

We all have opinions, we all "know what we know" the "true facts"

Basically, I am an old man. If I have a good time with an escort and he is willing to see me again, then for me, he likes old men enough to let me try and get him wet and sweaty. What he likes in his private life, unless somehow I wind up in his private life, is really none of my business.

 

I still choose to believe that when I hire an escort the first time, they see me to make some money. When they agree to see me a second time, it is because they thought it was a good return on time invested, both financially and personally. I have been "dumped" a few times by escorts, after a few encounters they have become unreachable and on one occasion, downright rude. I was not a good investment for the monetary return. That is a result of my age only as one of many factors.

 

I mentioned Mike Gaite as one who has specifically told me he enjoys older men. But older than him is not necessarily as old as I am. Davidsf, as far as I can tell, has never met a man he did not want to fuck, so he enjoys older men as much as he enjoys younger men, because, hell, if you have a dick he is up for it. There are a few escorts who have told me, either in confidence or as flattery, that they do not usually enjoy older men, but they do enjoy our encounters. If that is true or false it is unimportant, as long as he is showing up, I am getting it up.

 

So you old men, young men, boys and any other adjective you are to use, can call each other names, nit pick, have your claws extended and demean each other, but the best way to find out if a particular escort "really likes" older men is to ask him and hear what he has to say.

[adventurous old guy]

I know I might offend here but I want to be honest and real... One thing I never mentioned in past post is I was an escort before I became a client and can see this from both sides.

There are escorts who prefer older clients when working. This is much different than being specifically attracted to older men. Older clients are probably easier, not as demanding and more generous so its an easy call for an escort compared to client like me who wants to pound their ass for an hour straight. Sorry to burst any bubbles here but this doesn't mean that the hot 22 year old has a thing for guys in their 70s it just means your less work and perhaps more profitable. Of course, there is always a 1 off which but 9 out of 10 times its going to be what I stated above.

Totally resonating with purplek. Just as there's more to an escort than a beautiful body to do, there's more to a 62 yo client like me than age and money. Attraction has several dimensions including that je ne said quoi, chemistry. Not just sexual chemistry but that feeling of hitting it off because of energy level, humor, attitude or something else intangible. OK, so maybe sometimes it's just lust on my part and they payoff of being lusted for on his, LOL.

 

Anyway, like pk a big test for me is willingness to repeat -- that's where the weeding out happens on both sides. I only repeat if the my partner responds and gives himself intensely enough to make me feel connected. And if that happens and he's willing to go for it again, he's attracted enough for me. Not all do, and that's just fine.

[BoyBerlin]

Totally resonating with purplek. Just as there's more to an escort than a beautiful body to do, there's more to a 62 yo client like me than age and money. Attraction has several dimensions including that je ne said quoi, chemistry. Not just sexual chemistry but that feeling of hitting it off because of energy level, humor, attitude or something else intangible. OK, so maybe sometimes it's just lust on my part and they payoff of being lusted for on his, LOL.

 

Anyway, like pk a big test for me is willingness to repeat -- that's where the weeding out happens on both sides. I only repeat if the my partner responds and gives himself intensely enough to make me feel connected. And if that happens and he's willing to go for it again, he's attracted enough for me. Not all do, and that's just fine.

@adventurous You have kinda made my point for me. You have described an" easy client" which is what the escort prefers but again I think we are confusing preferring an easy client to being sexually attracted... If an older client hires an escort is happy with some good conversation and a half way decent blow job its pretty easy money for the escort regardless of the clients age. on the other hand if the escort has a young horny client who just wants to fuck until there ass is torn up for a whole hour its a more difficult client. None of this has anything to do with attraction.

I will say I guess all that matters from a clients perspective is satisfaction at the end and if you feel satisfied the escort has done his job regardless of attraction or level of work for the escort.

[adventurous old guy]

BoyB -- I wonder if we are struggling with semantics. In responding to this thread, I was thinking about three particular men who like the way I fuck. They could choose other clients who would be much less work. With one of them I've had a version of this conversation in which he told me that he's surprised by how many of his clients don't expect vigorous sex. He likes seeing me because I do. I've asked him what we do that he especially likes and a lot of it is that I'm a top who has knows what I'm doing. The rest of it is that we both have fun. So, do I think he's attracted by the way I look? Not at all, and when I use the term "attraction" I'm saying there's something there that's more than money. Its hard for me to say what that is, and its somewhat different from guy to guy. For one of the others that something is, I think, him being a thrill seeker. He's got a full time job that's respectable but not exciting. In addition to the money, which he doesn't really need, he likes to see me because our time together is not going to be as easy as his other clients -- there's some kind of excitement he gets from being taken, and so we hit it off. Now maybe that's more adrenalin rush or endorphin release or pride in performance than anything else, but its more than the money because again he can earn that much easier. I'm lumping all those intangibles into "attraction" when I use the word, and I wonder if you're making finer distinctions? Because I think I mostly agree with you. These three I'm thinking of would probably not seek me out as a sex partner in their private lives. And I think for a lot of the other men I've met for what my partner calls "brief sharing experiences" they do see me as not much more than a horny older man with cash.

 

One other point that I'd like to make is that sex is -- or at least can be -- a rich kind of communication when people engage with one another as human beings rather than objectified things, i.e. beautiful young bodies or cash rich old men. I think I can tell the difference between someone who is just showing up and getting through it to someone who I'm connecting with in some way. Its in the responsiveness in the moment -- words, sounds we make, facial expressions, body language. It can be faked, and when I can tell that's happening its a disappointment. But it also can happen, and that's when these experiences are truly fun and very satisfying for me. Again, its hard to define and maybe its mostly nerve endings, adrenalin and endorphins. But I like the non-medical model -- that there is some human connection happening that's in some way deeper than the ways we evaluate each other on the surface.

 

AOG

[BoyBerlin]

Hey @adventurous old guy: your quote is an impressive post! 1 of 2 things here... this could be a 1 off (which I have always said was possible) or you are living in a fantasy world I am not criticizing because that's what we all pay for! So more power to you!

 

I personally don't hire for emotional connection. Actually, I just left a session with an escort that I had this whole verbal domination thing going on with. I fucked him for a whole hour and called him a whore. I think he enjoyed it but I didn't ask because I don't want to know. I hire because I am not confident being this way with my partner or hook ups. It's the service I pay for and I don't convince myself that there is something more. But that's me and if this keeps you going who am I to criticize!

[adventurous old guy]

Yup, our motives are different. Emotional connection and adventure are mine. Adventure for me = something exciting and different from the sexual experience I have at home. Emotional connection for me = an intense back and forth exchange with another human being.

 

Really enjoying this thread btw!

[adventurous old guy]

Hey @adventurous old guy: your quote is an impressive post! 1 of 2 things here... this could be a 1 off (which I have always said was possible) or you are living in a fantasy world I am not criticizing because that's what we all pay for! So more power to you!

 

I personally don't hire for emotional connection. Actually, I just left a session with an escort that I had this whole verbal domination thing going on with. I fucked him for a whole hour and called him a whore. I think he enjoyed it but I didn't ask because I don't want to know. I hire because I am not confident being this way with my partner or hook ups. It's the service I pay for and I don't convince myself that there is something more. But that's me and if this keeps you going who am I to criticize!

Oh, and no worries here about criticizing. I loved being pushed on ideas, and like your strong POV.

[BoyBerlin]

@adventurous old guy: Now for something more light hearted and a chance to brag.. Check out MJXXBR on PlanetRomeo... He is the guy that provided me with quite a service today! I am sure his hotness can be our common ground..LOL

[BoyBerlin]

By the way, as per my name here I am based in Berlin and PlanetRomeo is the go to escort shop here....

[+ purplekow]

@adventurous You have kinda made my point for me. You have described an" easy client" which is what the escort prefers but again I think we are confusing preferring an easy client to being sexually attracted... If an older client hires an escort is happy with some good conversation and a half way decent blow job its pretty easy money for the escort regardless of the clients age. on the other hand if the escort has a young horny client who just wants to fuck until there ass is torn up for a whole hour its a more difficult client. None of this has anything to do with attraction.

I will say I guess all that matters from a clients perspective is satisfaction at the end and if you feel satisfied the escort has done his job regardless of attraction or level of work for the escort.

 

 

You mention that you were an escort and perhaps an "easy client" is what you preferred but that is not true for every escort. While I cannot imagine an escort wanting five clients in a row who want to "fuck until there ass is torn up for a whole hour" but I do not bottom so perhaps that is a thing someone may enjoy and find "easy". It seems that you assume older men cannot fuck for an hour, but perhaps you are hanging out with the wrong older men.

 

As you know, sometimes escorting is a job and sometimes it is a pleasure to offer the service. When it is a job, it is harder and I would imagine that an escort may appreciate the "easy (to satisfy) clients". When it is a pleasure, I think escorts will be attracted to being with that client no matter his age and irrespective of whether he is an "easy client" or not.

[BoyBerlin]

You mention that you were an escort and perhaps an "easy client" is what you preferred but that is not true for every escort. While I cannot imagine an escort wanting five clients in a row who want to "fuck until there ass is torn up for a whole hour" I do not bottom so perhaps that is a thing someone may enjoy.

 

As you know, sometimes escorting is a job and sometimes it is a pleasure to offer the service. When it is a job, I would imagine that an escort may appreciate the "easy clients", when it is a pleasure, I think escorts will be attracted to being with that client no matter his age and irrespective of whether he is an "easy client" or not.

I haven't escorted in 10 years but did it on and off for a good chunk of my late teens and early to mid-20s so I can try to reflect. I personally am not attracted to older men but this doesn't mean I didn't enjoy the conversation and I never really looked at it as I was there to get pleasured but sure its natural that I enjoyed the touch and feel. The best clients were the older ones they were in general much more respectful. In general I would agree its a job.. Some days are good and some days aren't. My whole point though was if we are talking about physical attraction we are really living in a fantasy world if you think the same hot 22 yo that you pay would show up to your door under a different premise.

 

I am 37 myself and I would like to think an okay looking guy but I am at that age where I am not the trophy anymore and I as well acknowledge getting the hottest guy in the room is a thing of the past. This isn't why I hire but I think you get my point...

[+ purplekow]

I am older, unfit and bald and I am not expecting a 22 year old to be attracted superficially to me, nor am I hiring a 22 year old because no matter how physically attractive, they do not represent what I find attractive in a sex partner.

There is a lot more to attraction for many people than physical beauty but that if you have that you do start with a lead. However, I have other things working for me so the challenge is using those qualities to get them into my bed for the first time. There is significantly greater attraction and eagerness the second time.

However, I have a good friend who is over 50, fit and a personal trainer and he has several gym bunny twinks blowing up his phone and he may need to install a revolving door to direct the traffic in and out of his bedroom.

So it does not have to be a fantasy that a 22 year old would be physically attracted to an older man. If it matters, he is a bottom and at times, he has had several callers in one day because all 22 year olds cannot necessarily tear it up for hours on end.

 

By the way, I did not become the trophy until I was 37, so do not sell yourself short, you may just need to start using other qualities rather than a tight ass and a good looking face.

[mike carey]

My two kopecks. A client escort linkage is a 'relationship'. It can be anything from two friends to something completely impersonal. I can't imagine treating a relationship with an escort as something purely transactional. If I have a period of role play, I would expect to speak normally either side of that play, to convey feelings and have him return the favour. I don't think hiring an escort is the same as hiring a plumber. I can understand that others would think otherwise but to me dismissing an escort is the equivalent of dismissing 'the help'. They are people deserving of our engagement, not dismissal because we have fucked them and now we can move on.

[nycguy]

I have had a number of escorts initiate contact with me because I am a daddy in my early 60s. Very few did so to drum up business. The older I get, the more daddy boys I find.

[BoyBerlin]

Aright, there is o

I am older, unfit and bald and I am not expecting a 22 year old to be attracted superficially to me, nor am I hiring a 22 year old because no matter how physically attractive, they do not represent what I find attractive in a sex partner.

There is a lot more to attraction for many people than physical beauty but that if you have that you do start with a lead. However, I have other things working for me so the challenge is using those qualities to get them into my bed for the first time. There is significantly greater attraction and eagerness the second time.

However, I have a good friend who is over 50, fit and a personal trainer and he has several gym bunny twinks blowing up his phone and he may need to install a revolving door to direct the traffic in and out of his bedroom.

So it does not have to be a fantasy that a 22 year old would be physically attracted to an older man. If it matters, he is a bottom and at times, he has had several callers in one day because all 22 year olds cannot necessarily tear it up for hours on end.

 

By the way, I did not become the trophy until I was 37, so do not sell yourself short, you may just need to start using other qualities rather than a tight ass and a good looking face.

@purplekow I think there might be different reasons why we hire. Call me a scumbag but when I hire its because I am horny and looking for a pretty face with a tight ass. its of course a different story when I was looking for a life partner.

[BoyBerlin]

I have had a number of escorts initiate contact with me because I am a daddy in my early 60s. Very few did so to drum up business. The older I get, the more daddy boys I find.

@nyc guy: Again sorry to burst any bubbles here but it sounds like they were looking for a clients daddy or not.

[BoyBerlin]

My two kopecks. A client escort linkage is a 'relationship'. It can be anything from two friends to something completely impersonal. I can't imagine treating a relationship with an escort as something purely transactional. If I have a period of role play, I would expect to speak normally either side of that play, to convey feelings and have him return the favour. I don't think hiring an escort is the same as hiring a plumber. I can understand that others would think otherwise but to me dismissing an escort is the equivalent of dismissing 'the help'. They are people deserving of our engagement, not dismissal because we have fucked them and now we can move on.

You make a fair point. We should treat everybody with respect and dignity regardless of profession. However, not sure what you would recommend to me.. As noted in post prior there is a reason I hire. I get off on the idea of paying for sex, having total control, being dominate and if negotiated upfront even like to be verbally abusive. I guess this is my fetish. Sorry, but just being honest on my intentions.

[nycguy]

@nyc guy: Again sorry to burst any bubbles here but it sounds like they were looking for a clients daddy or not.

 

Don't be sorry. You're not bursting any bubbles as you have no idea what you are talking about when it comes to me. Think what you want. Judge as you will. The great thing about being a daddy is dismissing boys who think they know all as I have seen it all before and am 100 steps ahead of them.

[BoyBerlin]

Don't be sorry. You're not bursting any bubbles as you have no idea what you are talking about when it comes to me. Think what you want. Judge as you will. The great thing about being a daddy is dismissing boys who think they know all as I have seen it all before and am 100 steps ahead of them.

I am not dismissing you! I think and say tons of things that could be dismissed! I will through out something else as well. A few times I was with escorts who at the end told me I was hot, I don't need to pay for it and if they met me in a bar I very well could have been one of their hook-ups.. Believe it or not to me this was actually a turn-off. I have the opposite fantasy of most. I like to believe I am paying for something I can't get for free. Like the impossible.

[bigvalboy]

A few times I was with escorts who at the end told me I was hot, I don't need to pay for it and if they met me in a bar I very well could have been one of their hook-ups..

 

Yeah...I get that a lot.