Escorts who actually (or with some enthusiasm) like older guys

[njr47]

As the originator of this thread, I'm a little disappointed in the few relevant responses. Although impassioned discussions of "what is old age" may be illuminating, they weren't very enlightening as to escorts who genuinely enjoy older guys. We all know that there are younger men who prefer older guys (check out the websites devoted to older/younger hook-ups and relationships). Is it unreasonable to ask if there are any escorts who the members of this forum have reason to believe actually prefer (and desire) to be with older men?

[P Gren]

you are right. sorry about that. i got distracted by how defensive guys can get about being older

[+ PapaTony]

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https://www.queerty.com/self-proclaimed-number-one-escort-world-says-likes-men-old-ugly-20161025

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[+ Keith30309]

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https://www.queerty.com/self-proclaimed-number-one-escort-world-says-likes-men-old-ugly-20161025

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To expand on this, to the OP:

 

"I generally prefer clients who wouldn’t conventionally be considered attractive. I guess because my priorities are different. I want my clients to be clean, polite, respectful of my boundaries as per your first question, and to enjoy themselves. I associate all of the above more with older, overweight, bald, etc."

[+ HornyRetiree]

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https://www.queerty.com/self-proclaimed-number-one-escort-world-says-likes-men-old-ugly-20161025

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Oh well:) I may be "mature" (69) BUT I sure am not ughly!!! He loses!!!

[LBCDaddy]

I think it depends on the age of the escort... clearly for an 18 yo an older guy might mean 30+.

[+ quoththeraven]

As the originator of this thread, I'm a little disappointed in the few relevant responses. Although impassioned discussions of "what is old age" may be illuminating, they weren't very enlightening as to escorts who genuinely enjoy older guys. We all know that there are younger men who prefer older guys (check out the websites devoted to older/younger hook-ups and relationships). Is it unreasonable to ask if there are any escorts who the members of this forum have reason to believe actually prefer (and desire) to be with older men?

How about doing the work of checking reviews by older clients and then coming back here to ask for feedback (including via PM) about specific providers? Among the problems with asking here are:

 

1. The exposure and vulnerability involved in characterizing oneself as old, especially when the reviews are more anonymous because not everyone uses the same username and plenty of reviewers do not participate in the forum. Some don't even know about it.

2. Uncertainty about what you mean by old

3. Self-selection - The responses you do get are going to be skewed and not necessarily helpful.

4. Marketing - Sometimes responses are colored by a desire, often incompletely camouflaged, to serve as an escort's publicist.

5. The temptation to violate the ban on reviews in the forum so as not to circumvent the vetting procedure.

6. The assumption that most escorts don't like or are putting on a show for older clients. It seems likely to me that for many escorts, older clients are likely to constitute a significant portion of not only their business but repeat business.

7. Subjectivity - One person's experience is different from another's and the reason may have nothing to do with age per se.

8. How do we judge whether an escort's enthusiasm is genuine? Responders can really only state they've been satisfied with their experience with escort Y. To say more runs the danger if turning a post into a review.

 

If you've been burned by an escort, it might be more helpful to ask for escorts who are patient, good teachers or good at something specific to your experience. Narrowing it down to a specific location might help too unless you are in fact ready to travel anywhere.

[BaronArtz]

This is anecdotal - a 23 year old escort I know well told me he actually prefers older clients because they are less work. In his words, older clients are less demanding, easier to satisfy and generally more appreciative of a chance to be naked in the company of a young stud. They also tip better. He generally avoids the 2O or 3O-year old clients. This age group has less disposable income and tends to request discounted fees because they are 'hot'. They also have the stamina and the desire for extended sex-sessions which are indeed, more work for him.

 

I won't disclose who the escort is, sorry. I am not his publicist and I don't want the above to be construed as a 'review'.

[adventurous old guy]

Actually, I think the OP has gotten good feedback here. The problem IMHO in the way the the request was framed is that a successful experience is not just about age. Other things factor in, for all the reasons mentioned by all the respondents here.

 

As for specific guys, Benjamin N has already weighed in. Two guys who recently have been very responsive to me, a 62 yo, are:

 

Daniel, Florida-based but travels: https://rentmen.com/Danielzx

Colby, Minneapolis-based but travels: https://rentmen.com/MPLSJock

 

Have reviewed both. Not sure where age fits in the equations about what makes it work, but can say for sure that these guys don't exclude on age, and there was evidence that they enjoyed our meetings. Think that attitude, hygiene, chemistry also factor in.

[MikeBiDude]

I've never understood the huge number of posters here who question the "younger like older" paradigm. Me thinks there are many out there with a lack of confidence in this department. In my sixth decade of life now - have had my share of self esteem issues over the years - but couldn't be more confident in myself and my current persona. Does every single young man I'm attracted too feel the same (or any?) attraction towards me? Of course not!! Do I meet a fairly wide/varied group of young me who are attracted to me? Yes!!

 

It's often said "yeah, they're attracted until the money stops flowing". Sure, that happens. But not always...there are very real and very attractive young men who truly like older guys.

 

If you constantly question whether your younger escort/date/hookup is really attracted to you/older, you'll have dismal results.

 

I may not be textbook physically attractive, but I'm fine with average. But, I *know* my confidence in myself (re:attracting younger) is high, it works for me.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Oh well:) I may be "mature" (69) BUT I sure am not ughly!!! He loses!!!

 

Did the escort say "ugly"? I think someone else is interpreting older, bald, and overweighted as ugly. It is not what the escort said.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I've never understood the huge number of posters here who question the "younger like older" paradigm. Me thinks there are many out there with a lack of confidence in this department. In my sixth decade of life now - have had my share of self esteem issues over the years - but couldn't be more confident in myself and my current persona. Does every single young man I'm attracted too feel the same (or any?) attraction towards me? Of course not!! Do I meet a fairly wide/varied group of young me who are attracted to me? Yes!!

 

It's often said "yeah, they're attracted until the money stops flowing". Sure, that happens. But not always...there are very real and very attractive young men who truly like older guys.

 

If you constantly question whether your younger escort/date/hookup is really attracted to you/older, you'll have dismal results.

 

I may not be textbook physically attractive, but I'm fine with average. But, I *know* my confidence in myself (re:attracting younger) is high, it works for me.

 

Ditto. I cannot agree more. Plus...

Those guys should remember that because a young man does not like them, it does not mean they don't like older guys. Perhaps he just doesn't like THEM.

[Mydavid]

This is anecdotal - a 23 year old escort I know well told me he actually prefers older clients because they are less work. In his words, older clients are less demanding, easier to satisfy and generally more appreciative of a chance to be naked in the company of a young stud. They also tip better. He generally avoids the 2O or 3O-year old clients. This age group has less disposable income and tends to request discounted fees because they are 'hot'. They also have the stamina and the desire for extended sex-sessions which are indeed, more work for him.

 

I won't disclose who the escort is, sorry. I am not his publicist and I don't want the above to be construed as a 'review'.

Good! But in my opinion, even if a young escort likes to do business with old men, it doesn't mean he likes old men sexually. He might like to have sex with young guys, but like to make money from old men.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Good! But in my opinion, even if a young escort likes to do business with old men, it doesn't mean he likes old men sexually. He might like to have sex with young guys, but like to make money from old men.

 

Indeed those cases exists. But also there are escorts who do prefer older guys in their private life. There are not the majority, the bias against age is evident, but they do exist and they are not a few.

 

Please, read carefully the wording the OP chose for the thread headline. There are many providers that fit in that profile.

[+ HornyRetiree]

Did the escort say "ugly"? I think someone else is interpreting older, bald, and overweighted as ugly. It is not what the escort said.

 

Headline did:)

[P Gren]

Indeed those cases exists. But also there are escorts who do prefer older guys in their private life. There are not the majority, the bias against age is evident, but they do exist and they are not a few.

 

Please, read carefully the wording the OP chose for the thread headline. There are many providers that fit in that profile.

are you talking about the bias some older guys have against other older guys? i wasn't sure.

[+ José Soplanucas]

are you talking about the bias some older guys have against other older guys? i wasn't sure.

 

I am talking about the bias everyone has against older guys, but the specific topic for this thread is escorts. Right?

[P Gren]

I am talking about the bias everyone has against older guys, but the specific topic for this thread is escorts. Right?

I know, but you brought up biases and i was asking for a clarification. and yes i supposed i could have sent you a private message to clarify about old on old bias

[instudiocity]

Once I hit 30, I started figuring out that the only difference between 30, 60 and 90, was the number of experiences each adult has endured. Society does a mind game on us with the way people think about age in the early years of life, 0-25. Society defines differences between each year of age, and rightly so, except we forget to announce that once a person grows past puberty, everything is UPHILL as you grow in your adulthood with experiences, good and bad, that will refine your personhood. Remember the old adage, 'you learn more from your mistakes than your successes'? That's how I define adulthood, self-learning, self-maturing, self-disciplining. I no longer need the grade school to understand who I am. I'm better at 62 than I was at 30 - between the ears, not so much between the sheets.

 

Saying, a 10 year old knows so much more than a 5 year old, ain't necessarily so but is generally. But most 30 year olds who have achieved adulthood enjoy the exact same status as the 60 year old and 90 year old in my example. The biggest, most frequently occurring, difference between these three ages is quantity and quality of their experiences - not good experiences, not successes, but of experiences in their adulthood and how those experiences have refined their persons.

 

I find my hiring leans more to the escorts who seem to satisfy my sexual as well as paternal interest in them. When I read reviews, I generally categorize them one of two ways, 'low-self image' reviewer or 'joie de vivre' reviewer. Some reviewers write "he put me at ease" as if the escort threw a "RELAX" switch. I can't help but think low-self image reviewer, why they hell are you not at ease? Other reviewers write about their fun spending time with an escort - the joy of connecting - mentally, emotionally, communicatively... that's the kind of escort I like.

 

There are some pre-25 escorts who can handle that 'other than sexual activity' well. But to generalize, a lot of them are nothing more than teenagers with hot bodies. Finding a MAN, no matter his age, who spends time engaging in conversation, touching, playing and sharing with me, that's a guy I'll frequent.

[Gar1eth]

Once I hit 30, I started figuring out that the only difference between 30, 60 and 90, was the number of experiences each adult has endured. Society does a mind game on us with the way people think about age in the early years of life, 0-25. Society defines differences between each year of age, and rightly so, except we forget to announce that once a person grows past puberty, everything is UPHILL as you grow in your adulthood with experiences, good and bad, that will refine your personhood. Remember the old adage, 'you learn more from your mistakes than your successes'? That's how I define adulthood, self-learning, self-maturing, self-disciplining. I no longer need the grade school to understand who I am. I'm better at 62 than I was at 30 - between the ears, not so much between the sheets.

 

Saying, a 10 year old knows so much more than a 5 year old, ain't necessarily so but is generally. But most 30 year olds who have achieved adulthood enjoy the exact same status as the 60 year old and 90 year old in my example. The biggest, most frequently occurring, difference between these three ages is quantity and quality of their experiences - not good experiences, not successes, but of experiences in their adulthood and how those experiences have refined their persons.

 

I find my hiring leans more to the escorts who seem to satisfy my sexual as well as paternal interest in them. When I read reviews, I generally categorize them one of two ways, 'low-self image' reviewer or 'joie de vivre' reviewer. Some reviewers write "he put me at ease" as if the escort threw a "RELAX" switch. I can't help but think low-self image reviewer, why they hell are you not at ease? Other reviewers write about their fun spending time with an escort - the joy of connecting - mentally, emotionally, communicatively... that's the kind of escort I like.

 

There are some pre-25 escorts who can handle that 'other than sexual activity' well. But to generalize, a lot of them are nothing more than teenagers with hot bodies. Finding a MAN, no matter his age, who spends time engaging in conversation, touching, playing and sharing with me, that's a guy I'll frequent.

 

We are not all the same then. Aside from being more accepting of my gayness, in general I think I acted with more wisdom when I was younger. Now a lot of that is due to my current circumstances. But not everyone gets better as they age. Some of us get worse.

 

Gman

[marylander1940]

are you talking about the bias some older guys have against other older guys? i wasn't sure.

 

Good point!

 

but one thing is when we hire and other is when we get it for free, different requirements.

 

We are not all the same then. Aside from being more accepting of my gayness, in general I think I acted with more wisdom when I was younger. Now a lot of that is due to my current circumstances. But not everyone gets better as they age. Some of us get worse.

 

Gman

 

You always speak from your heart on here.

[marylander1940]

This is anecdotal - a 23 year old escort I know well told me he actually prefers older clients because they are less work. In his words, older clients are less demanding, easier to satisfy and generally more appreciative of a chance to be naked in the company of a young stud. They also tip better. He generally avoids the 2O or 3O-year old clients. This age group has less disposable income and tends to request discounted fees because they are 'hot'. They also have the stamina and the desire for extended sex-sessions which are indeed, more work for him.

 

I won't disclose who the escort is, sorry. I am not his publicist and I don't want the above to be construed as a 'review'.

 

I've heard the exact same words about overweight clients.

[instudiocity]

We are not all the same then.

Gman

Who says we are?

[LADoug1]

Actually, I think the OP has gotten good feedback here. The problem IMHO in the way the the request was framed is that a successful experience is not just about age. Other things factor in, for all the reasons mentioned by all the respondents here.

 

As for specific guys, Benjamin N has already weighed in. Two guys who recently have been very responsive to me, a 62 yo, are:

 

Daniel, Florida-based but travels: https://rentmen.com/Danielzx

Colby, Minneapolis-based but travels: https://rentmen.com/MPLSJock

 

Have reviewed both. Not sure where age fits in the equations about what makes it work, but can say for sure that these guys don't exclude on age, and there was evidence that they enjoyed our meetings. Think that attitude, hygiene, chemistry also factor in.

God Danielzx is hot. Looks sweet as hell!

[+ Keith30309]

God Danielzx is hot. Looks sweet as hell!

 

I recommend you search the forum for posts related to "Danielzx". There has been a good bit of discussion related to him.

 

I had considered hiring him in FTL and did some research on some of his pics and they were found elsewhere. He blocked me on RM after I posted a message here.