You are not 25 and that's OK

[+ Funguy]

Hey guys,

60 is the new 40!

[+ GregM]

Hey guys,

60 is the new 40!

 

Wait! If 60 is the new 40 does that make 40 (almost 41) the new 20? Cause really I don't wanna go back to my 20's. I really was a hot mess back then.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[JayCeeKy]

I don't wanna go back to my 20's. I really was a hot mess back then.

 

I wish that I could go back to a 20+ body with a 60+ mind/knowledge of the world = happiness.

[+ purplekow]

I am coy about my age and about many other things, as I will share the information when I want to share it, not because I was asked. I have been asked how old I am and I actually have had to stop and think about it, so age is not a high priority in my self identification.

 

As far as an escort goes, I am hiring the person and I am not worrying about the period of time I will have to pay into his retirement plan. He is really 45 and he says he is 38, as long as he will 69 me 24/7 until I feel 18, I could not care less, 10/4 over and out.

[Cliff]

I saw a sensual masseur for several years who shaved more than 10 years off his age. I didn't care what age he was, or claimed to be. It if made him feel more comfortable being "younger" than so be it. He was still a great masseur and hot as fuck.

[Mydavid]

I like guys who is a little bit older. I don't care their age as long as they can still perform.

[Encantomel]

The only problem for escorts remaining the same age forever is that it causes at least some potential clients (like me) to wonder what else they are lying about. I fully expect an escort who looks like he could be younger to shave five years (plus or minus) off his age, but there is absolutely no logic for that guy to not advance his age as time passes. Even if he only wanted to claim one year older every 16 months, at least it wouldn't look as ludicrous as pretending to be forever 36 or 39. I hired a guy in my area over 15 years ago who claimed to be in his thirties then (he was probably already in his mid to late forties) and he still lists his age as mid thirties. And, in this case, he has updated at least some of his photos so it makes it look like he's a prematurely aged 36 year old. Where's the appeal in that? And are there really clients who would show up for an appointment with someone who claimed to be 36 who wouldn't walk away when the guy who answered the door was obviously in his late fifties or older? Don't get me wrong -- I think some men in that age group are hot, so I am not suggesting they cannot be sexually desirable. But if someone is paying an escort, isn't that person likely going to feel hustled if the escort has so blatantly lied about this age? A lot of guys can get away with claiming to be five years younger, and some ten years younger. Very, very few guys can claim to be twenty years younger and have anyone believe them. Even for men with lean, muscular bodies, the appearance of skin does change over time.

I give my true age, 55yo, in my ads...and business is still good

[+ azdr0710]

shaved four or five years off my age until a couple years ago.....same time I stopped using Just For Men hair color.....(am 54 y. o.)

[+ purplekow]

I use Just for Men

Every now and Again

Because it chases away the grey

On what would be otherwise a very blue day.

[Rudynate]

shaved four or five years off my age until a couple years ago.....same time I stopped using Just For Men hair color.....(54 y. o.)

 

 

For awhile, when I was 38, I went around saying I was 37. Then I ran a 'personals' ad in a gay paper. One of my respondees was this really dreamy guy, exactly the sort of man you would hope would respond to your personals ad, and we became an item. He was 38. And I thought, "I don't care a bit that he's 38." So then I thought, "maybe others won't care a bit that I'm 38," and stopped saying that I was 37. Never have since fabricated about my age.

[+ purplekow]

For awhile, when I was 38, I went around saying I was 37. Then I ran a 'personals' ad in a gay paper. One of my respondees was this really dreamy guy, exactly the sort of man you would hope would respond to your personals ad, and we became an item. He was 38. And I thought, "I don't care a bit that he's 38." So then I thought, "maybe others won't care a bit that I'm 38," and stopped saying that I was 37. Never have since fabricated about my age.

Have you stopped being 38?

 

 

I have told man people this, when the idea of going back and being younger, I always select 38 as it is an age on the borderline of youth and age, wisdom and frivolity, experience and naivete. Old enough to date hot men who are in the fifties, young enough to date hot guys who are in the twenties and energetic enough to know to keep up with the youngsters and comfortable enough to relax and watch the foolishness. 38 for me is a perfect age.

[Rudynate]

Have you stopped being 38?

 

 

I have told man people this, when the idea of going back and being younger, I always select 38 as it is an age on the borderline of youth and age, wisdom and frivolity, experience and naivete. Old enough to date hot men who are in the fifties, young enough to date hot guys who are in the twenties and energetic enough to know to keep up with the youngsters and comfortable enough to relax and watch the foolishness. 38 for me is a perfect age.

 

 

Sadly, I've left 38 behind, and your're right PK, it was a very good year. I had just moved to San Francisco and was feeling very fresh, and ready for the future. But then, that's what life in San Francisco does, it lets you know that it expects nothing but your best.

[LADoug1]

I give my true age, 55yo, in my ads...and business is still good

It might also be good since your rates are so incredibly low.

[LADoug1]

Nothing makes me tell my real age like meeting someone who obviously has shaved a silly number of years off theirs.

[MartyB]

I have found that as I've matured sex is better than ever. I'm more adventurous open minded and free. It's amazing. Now I prefer to me with an escort i can relate to. That is usually the definition of a man not a boy. And yes Viagra makes it even better. Lol

[+ HornyRetiree]

I stayed 38 for TWO years and then jumped to 40!

 

I started going gray at 16 (thanks to my maternal grandmothet) and was bald on top w/ gray/white fringe at 29 !

 

I knew no one would believe 39 so I just skipped it.

 

The advantage is that I have looked the same for 40 years, while everyone else grew older!!:)

[+ VictorPowers]

if I know you are born in 1989 you are not 25 Why do so many working men and probably clients shave a few years off their real age? I am attracted to the person and don't have a magic age limit

I'm still 25

I have every intention to change it to 26 when I really do in Dec. I'm all for accurate advertising.

[AquaNYC]

I actively seek escorts who are 35+. My best experiences have been (and I recognize I'm making a big generalization) with older escorts. In my experiences, the encounters have seemed more natural, comfortable, and often times we tend to laugh and enjoy each other more - we don't take things seriously (though still very respectable and professional). I wish there were more mature escorts available.

(Also for the record, I have had great experiences with younger and those experiences are more frequent given they are the options most often available.)

[+ quoththeraven]

if I know you are born in 1989 you are not 25 Why do so many working men and probably clients shave a few years off their real age? I am attracted to the person and don't have a magic age limit

On the escort end, because many clients only search within certain parameters and because ages have to be updated manually.

 

I don't understand why clients do it, but accuracy is second nature to me anyway. It's less trouble to be honest than be consistent in my misrepresentations. I'd also rather surprise someone with my age than have them think I look old for it.

[+ MostlyLurking]

I am very intolerant of lies, including lies from escorts . . . but escorts shaving years is an exception.

 

For myself, I have often misrepresented my age. When I've gotten near a ten-year mark, I start using the higher number. When I was 28, I often said 30: not when precision was important, of course, but in casual conversation. I reached 70 in December, but I've been calling myself 70 for years. There are two reasons. First, being 70 and looking 60 is, in my mind, something to be a little proud about, while being 60 and looking 70 suggests that you haven't been taking care of yourself. Second, I have often wanted to soften the blow. My 30th birthday was stressful, but not as bad as it would have been if it had hit all at once!