Role play

[+ Eric Hassan]

This is really interesting. Has anyone ever RP'd a scenario of two lovers... that is, people who are truly in love?

 

This seems like it could be a little emotionally risky if there wasn't a clear understanding of boundaries... what happens during the session ends with the session.

 

But it could also be very rewarding - telling someone that you love them and hearing it in return when intimate and in a state of mind where the imagination allows the flood of elation to wash over you.

 

It would sort of be like edging in an emotional sense.

 

Would there be a boomerang effect? You end the session and the basis of the lovers scenario evaporates and you're left with a let-down?

 

I wonder if attempting this with someone you've never met might not be easier because you go into it with a blank slate - no preconceptions about each other. Also, finding someone who can and would operate at that mental level might be a challenge.

 

It feels dangerous but worth it.

 

I LOVE this kind of roleplay. You're right that it requires each party to have his head on about what is actually going on. When I've been with someone who gets into it and can separate the fantasy and reality, it's MIND-BLOWING. I've often wanted to involve that with my clients, especially guys who talk about wanting the "boyfriend experience," but have felt reluctant - I don't want to confuse or mis-lead.

[MileHigh]

Thank you Boomer! So we moved to California. Shit. I had more chances to meet I'm in Florida.

Thanks @Boomer for the link.

 

@latbear4blk ... I finally saw that scene of him in that singlet... Fuck dude.... I blew the biggest load.... This is exactly the roleplay I was describing above. Thanks for the share!!

 

Any takers for that roleplay here??

[RandyC]

I LOVE this kind of roleplay. You're right that it requires each party to have his head on about what is actually going on. When I've been with someone who gets into it and can separate the fantasy and reality, it's MIND-BLOWING. I've often wanted to involve that with my clients, especially guys who talk about wanting the "boyfriend experience," but have felt reluctant - I don't want to confuse or mis-lead.

 

Yes.....

[JTtorretto]

I love getting Spanked and sometimes role play is fun. Love frat hazing or young boss bullying older employee. Never done it with an escort thogh

I'm a master at providing high quality and very realistic frat hazing scenes [spanking with my wooden frat paddle is optional]

[handiacefailure]

I'm a master at providing high quality and very realistic frat hazing scenes [spanking with my wooden frat paddle is optional]

 

I think a severe spanking with a frat paddle is the best part of a frat hazing scene. It's honestly hard to find good escorts that know how to paddle ass

[Ryanquinn]

I think a severe spanking with a frat paddle is the best part of a frat hazing scene. It's honestly hard to find good escorts that know how to paddle ass

I think you're teasing me.

[handiacefailure]

I think you're teasing me.

 

Well I have a frat paddle from the 60s:)

[justjohnDallas]

I'm new to this forum but I enjoy providing firm discipline style spanking and fraternity paddling. I have two vintage frat paddles I use and the guys always tell me they still feel it he next day.

[desertguy1954]

I LOVE this kind of roleplay. You're right that it requires each party to have his head on about what is actually going on. When I've been with someone who gets into it and can separate the fantasy and reality, it's MIND-BLOWING. I've often wanted to involve that with my clients, especially guys who talk about wanting the "boyfriend experience," but have felt reluctant - I don't want to confuse or mis-lead.

This would be fun, have never really had the bf experience. Could really add to the fantasy.

[+ Lance_Navarro]

I've had a couple of experiences playing the drunk straight guy. The first one was a scenario where I pass out and the guy starts touching me and playing with my dick and when I come to a friend realize what he's doing I "punish fuck" him. The other was that we are good friends, him gay and me straight, and had been out to a strip club (female strippers) and I let him sick my dick in exchange for him tolerating a night of being surrounded by naked women. I then become intrigued about fucking him, so we give that a go as well.

 

I'd say the most interesting and strangely therapeutic role play I've ever been involved with was with a very sweet and sexy man with whom I was attending a Sacred Intimates gathering in upstate NY. We were having sex and he asked if I would play the role of his son while he fucked me. He explained it would help him to heal from some issues he had with his father. As he fucked me I told him "I love you so much daddy" and "thank you for taking such good care of me". It was strange but also really beautiful.

[bostonman]

I'd say the most interesting and strangely therapeutic role play I've ever been involved with was with a very sweet and sexy man with whom I was attending a Sacred Intimates gathering in upstate NY. We were having sex and he asked if I would play the role of his son while he fucked me. He explained it would help him to heal from some issues he had with his father. As he fucked me I told him "I love you so much daddy" and "thank you for taking such good care of me". It was strange but also really beautiful.

 

There can definitely be something therapeutic about roleplay - I have several fantasies that involve real-life experiences from my teens as a starting point - experiences that I wish had gone much farther than they did, and roleplay based on that can be a fun and emotionally stimulating way to relive those moments the way I wish they had really gone lol.

 

Or, the idea of going back in time to my college or high school days to make it with one of those hot all-star jocks that I always drooled over but never got. Doesn't have to be any specific guy I knew - just the idea of again, revising history a little, and pretending that I got lucky with one of them after all. (And often, to dream that, stereotypically alpha as he seems, he also winds up to be quite a passionate lover, lol. Even if, as I usually like to imagine, it's this jockboy's first time with another guy. Maybe he's a little drunk, maybe he's just curious, maybe it's payback for me helping him get an A on a test, lol - or maybe he's the one "playing" me just like he plays the field with the girls...but he's always more into the lovemaking side of sex than I would have expected. Ah, fantasy...)

 

Though incest fantasies are fine with me on general terms, I tend to shy away from literal dad/son roleplay, perhaps because I just can't relate to it on a personal level. (I love my dad, but...) But something like a "son" type making it with his best friend's dad - that could be hot. I do remember having some school friends who I thought had very hot dads or older brothers, etc...

 

Also, my first experiences with porn was with the written kind - those dime novels that incorporated real plots along with the sex, the way porn films just don't do well, lol. And, combine that with my love for theatre - it all translates to a love for coming up with fun sexual scenarios to play out. It plays to my creative side as well as my sexual side.

[Muscle Lover 2]

I love role play, even with a first time hire. It helps me relax with someone who is so hot that I would normally be intimidated. But the role play takes my mind off my inhibitions. About half the guys really get into them, the other half not so much. If they are not good, I do not push it. If we start and they are clearly uncomfortable, I call "time out" and we stop. Some guys are really good at them -- Giovanni Volta, for one. What scene wouldn't be hot with that man a part of it? https://rentmen.eu/GiovanniVolta

[bostonman]

If we start and they are clearly uncomfortable, I call "time out" and we stop.

 

I also love to come up with "character names" - partly because that's fun and can add to the fantasy, partly because then we can always use our real names if we need to stop or adjust the activity as we go.

[LADoug1]

I've only had one role play experience where my partner wanted to be my son. I didn't realize he wanted my to be his father. Just thought he wanted the daddy/twins scene. Duh!