Too often?

[AquaNYC]

Inquiry out to fellow clients. How do you gauge with yourself if you are hiring escorts too often? Money matters aside, do you regulate how many times you hire a week, month? Do you just establish a visit with a regular with a cadence? I appreciate everyone will have their own unique experiences. I really appreciate any insights you might want to share. I am hiring more often (fits with my business schedule, frequent travel, I don't drink so common social venues/bars aren't interesting), and wonder if I should cut down and focus my energy on trying to find a partner (as hard and challenging of a prospect that might be). Thanks in advance.

[+ HornyRetiree]

IF I were wealthy - and I am far from it -- I would hire 5-7 times a week-- there is no such thing as too much sex (in my book) free or paid for!!

 

Relax and enjoy what you can afford!!!

[MartyB]

IF I were wealthy - and I am far from it -- I would hire 5-7 times a week-- there is no such thing as too much sex (in my book) free or paid for!!

 

Relax and enjoy what you can afford!!!

I hire once week for 90 minutes in my current budget with my regular. If I were a rich man would definitely expand but damn my Viagra usage would quadruple. Lol

[Beancounter]

My frequency in hiring depends on many things. I live in a large metropolitan area (Dallas) and am fortunate in that many escorts pass through the area routinely, some as many as 3-4 times a year. There are 3-4 of these traveling men that have become regulars for me. If they all happen to be in Dallas during the same month my hiring frequency reflects that.

 

In months when my regulars aren't in town I may engage the services of someone that piques my interest and I want to take for a test drive. However there are months I may not hire at all.

 

Budget wise I set an annual amount I'm willing to spend in total. If I do a lot of overnights or hire a travel companion then my number of hires is lower than strictly hiring on an hourly basis. My annual budget is in the very low 5-figure amount.

[+ HornyRetiree]

"My annual budget is in the very low 5-figure amount."

 

DAMN what fun I could have with a budget like that for fun instead of as income!!!

[liubit]

In my case, it also depends on many factors, such as work , social life, boy availability, and....when my boyfriend complains that I hire too much Without it letting this interfere with my life in general, I try to see boys as often as I can, and it normally happens 2-3 times a week, sometimes up to 4-5 in my sluttier phases. There is no such thing as too much sex in my book

[tanman4u]

If I had a), the money, and b)the job that wouldn't care if I got out-ed, I'd be hiring all the time. Hell I'd go to a city and start working my way through RM or A4A or even Backpage just for the fun of it.

[+ José Soplanucas]

IF I were wealthy - -- I would hire 5-7 times a week-- there is no such thing as too much sex

 

I am so disappointed at you. So little imagination. So poor ambition. You are rich, biotch!

[+ Funguy]

I've gone from about once every 6 weeks to 3-4 times per month (escort and massages included) all depending on who is available when. Sometimes there will be a couple of traveling guys here at the same time and I will partake if I can (my schedule forces me to schedule ahead most of the time). That's when I am at my most frequent, even up to 2 or 3 times in a week. I'm just a slut (as opposed to Steven Kesslar who is a whore - cum on - LOL). So far my age has not gotten in the way because I take care of myself to keep myself in my prime.

 

However, 6 weeks is the longest I can tolerate before I go stark raving mad!

[LoveNDino]

As long as you can still pay your mortgage and eat!

[MikeyGMin]

wonder if I should cut down and focus my energy on trying to find a partner (as hard and challenging of a prospect that might be).

I see my regular at least once a month and then some favorites when they come to town or are available.

 

But as far as this part of your post...

 

I date age (and otherwise) appropriate guys and have told myself for many years that if the right one came along it wouldn't matter that he wasn't as hot as the young studs I see. I've realized in the last year, that for me, that is complete and utter bullshit. I am dazzled and spoiled by the sheer beauty of these guys, and that impacts my ability to date with a whole heart.

 

I've made peace with that. I'm going to retire soon and move to a different country and start everything over, but now I'm starting to have regrets about the distractions from a serious relationship. If you really want something long-term it's worth considering the impact that hiring beautiful young men will have on that part of your life.

 

That's been my experience. I'm sure it's different for other people.

[+ Just Sayin]

I live in a city with a very limited supply of either escorts or masseurs, so my hiring is limited to when I am traveling alone to a larger city with talent; I'm in Montreal now (I should write a "Montreal report") so I'm trying to partake every day during my visit.

[LaffingBear]

I think there are many aspects to this question.

 

I hired fairly often in the 90s and early in the 2000s. I tend to like ripped & defined guys.... hired several porn actors.... a type not easy for an older heavyset guy to "hook" in a casual connection.

 

While I've had my share of fun in subsequent years, it's occurred to me that I may never be able to satisfy that one specific appetite again, without paying for it.

 

Thankfully, I'm a man of many tastes. If life is a banquet, this son-of-a-bitch won't be starving to death.

[+ nycman]

As long as you can pay the electric bill...keep hiring.

 

If money were no object, my pool would have 5-10 beautiful and

amazng men around it at all times. They would all be charming

and attentive. They would all take turns "entertaining" me each

day....and I would take incredible care of them all.

 

Fuck it...a man can dream...can't he?

[gallahadesquire]

I'm one of those guys who has to feel a connection with someone ... no wham, bam. I'm fortunate enough to have connected with the sweetest, attractive, hottest, hunkiest, intelligent guy who [fortunately?] comes through only quarterly or so.

[+ WmClarke]

If life is a banquet, this son-of-a-bitch won't be starving to death.

Thank you, Auntie LaffingBear

[BryanKnight]

I hire sometimes. I take it more personally because I look at it as a relationship and an investment as well, kind of a weird in between place.

 

I ask myself the questions

 

"Does this make me happy?"

"How this help me be happier in the future?"

 

If yes, and I can articulate why, I continue. If I cannot, I back off.

[+ Keith30309]

There was a time last year when I was traveling and hiring someone different twice a week.

It all began to become mechanical and the emotional attachments that I craved so much were more and more difficult to attain.

In retrospect, that was too much and ultimately counterproductive because it left me feeling worse than I otherwise would have being away from home so much. I tried augmenting that with meeting guys from Seekingarrangements, which has been partially successful.

I try to keep an eye on my emotional barometer and hire the right guys.

[MassageDrew]

Inquiry out to fellow clients. How do you gauge with yourself if you are hiring escorts too often? Money matters aside, do you regulate how many times you hire a week, month? Do you just establish a visit with a regular with a cadence? I appreciate everyone will have their own unique experiences. I really appreciate any insights you might want to share. I am hiring more often (fits with my business schedule, frequent travel, I don't drink so common social venues/bars aren't interesting), and wonder if I should cut down and focus my energy on trying to find a partner (as hard and challenging of a prospect that might be). Thanks in advance.

 

I think I would stick to my once a month routine. It's not that I cannot afford to hire to hire; rather, I prefer to think of it as a treat. Something to look forward to after a long exhausting work month. It gives me a chance to miss my regular guy as well I don't ever want to reach the point where I get tired of him. I have booked other appointments though to try other escorts/masseurs, or when traveling.

[MartyB]

There was a time last year when I was traveling and hiring someone different twice a week.

It all began to become mechanical and the emotional attachments that I craved so much were more and more difficult to attain.

In retrospect, that was too much and ultimately counterproductive because it left me feeling worse than I otherwise would have being away from home so much. I tried augmenting that with meeting guys from Seekingarrangements, which has been partially successful.

I try to keep an eye on my emotional barometer and hire the right guys.

Not always but quality beats quantity in this business for this man. I can get off with any sexual encounter but when it's between two men where chemistry and heat are there it's awesome

[AquaNYC]

Thanks to all for sharing. Appreciate the insights.