70% of clients always cancel appointments last minute.

[mike carey]

As others have said, I wouldn't generalise. Many here will want a short notice hire and there will also be many who commit more than a month out and follow through. I have arranged appointments with several gentlemen I have become aware of through these web sites (I've used a variety of methods of contacting them: here, RM, other ways). In every case I have set up the date and time well over than a month out, in only one case did I change details (flight delays did me in) and in one case we refined the details over the last day. Bottom line, set your own rules for how far out you will book, but don't assume that someone who books early will flake.

[Encantomel]

I am noticing that my last-minute appointments are the ones usually kept. The guys who book further out tend to cancel or no show on me.

[Bayman4Fun]

I rarely cancelled as a client. My few cancellations as a client can be categorized by time - very soon after setup, or upon arrival.

 

I occasionally learned more info, additional research or even postings on similar boards revealed concerns soon after I've made the appointment. Usually within hours or a day of making an appointment, some suspicions became justified, and so I cancelled.

 

Others were not cancellation so much as quick departures after meeting. I've left a session when a guy looks nothing like his pictures at all. When I've asked him to leave upon arrival at my place, I provide a nuisance fee/cab fare just to get rid of him.

 

I've had a couple of disgusting (funny-gross in the re-telling) experiences when mid-session, I got up, dressed quickly and bolted. One guy, roiding and talking about it, had such extreme "backne" my hands came away gooey-wet on hugging. Another, as we got going, showed me the sore on his dick, explaining he'd been bitten by a spider at a then famous gay inn in LA before flying to SF. Uhhhh... buh-bye!

 

I cancelled last minute on Marc Dylan in SF. I made an appt on a day the Bay Bridge was closed for the replacement bridge project. Normally a 30 minute ride into SF, I allowed 90 for traffic. Two hours of barely moving, still only halfway there, I called him and said I'm just not gonna make it.

[Mocha]

We should meet someday so you can make your own judgement about me, I'm sure I will change your mind

 

Don't feel obligated to kiss up to him. Based on how he degrades myself and other escorts, meeting him would likely be setting a premise that others have to prove their worth to his worthless character.

 

Worst case scenario he'll be a royal pain to please. Best case scenario he will fall into the category of the 70% of clients who cancel. Which is the other thing, not every client is worth dealing with. 70% seems like a high number. It's better to have no calls and repel the asswipes, than to have them calling and cancelling.

 

That's why even though I looked around on backpage today and seen some guys posting in massage and m4m section, I've had no desire to post ads on there despite the fact that I had a lot of business from it over the years. It was bad enough when backpage was allowing Escort ads. I can't even imagine now the level it would be of cancels and fakes.

 

At one point, I was nationalblacklisting.com guys left and right. Like every week. After doing some tweaks to wording and photos to keep the fools at bay, I'm happy to announce I've not had to blacklist a single client so far this year. Yeah calls are down, but so are the cancellations. But I won't hesitate to use it again if it's necessary.

[MikeBiDude]

Don't feel obligated to kiss up to him. Based on how he degrades myself and other escorts, meeting him would likely be setting a premise that others have to prove their worth to his worthless character.

 

Worst case scenario he'll be a royal pain to please. Best case scenario he will fall into the category of the 70% of clients who cancel. Which is the other thing, not every client is worth dealing with. 70% seems like a high number. It's better to have no calls and repel the asswipes, than to have them calling and cancelling.

 

That's why even though I looked around on backpage today and seen some guys posting in massage and m4m section, I've had no desire to post ads on there despite the fact that I had a lot of business from it over the years. It was bad enough when backpage was allowing Escort ads. I can't even imagine now the level it would be of cancels and fakes.

 

At one point, I was nationalblacklisting.com guys left and right. Like every week. After doing some tweaks to wording and photos to keep the fools at bay, I'm happy to announce I've not had to blacklist a single client so far this year. Yeah calls are down, but so are the cancellations. But I won't hesitate to use it again if it's necessary.

And the hits just keep coming.....lol!

[+ Eric Hassan]

Oh thanks, i like this forum, I think I made a mistake not replacing the word client for something else more appropriate.

 

I want to correct it it with you, when I mean a few of clients sometimes don't know escorts time, they may think we are always available and we have all the time, "Not all of them" but you know in a of good tomatoes you will find one that it's rooted.

 

Speaking up, some escorts are super late to appointments too like me sometimes when I don't organize my schedule 100% I can be a mess.

 

I'm sorry that you have the experience of a lot of cancellations. I don't know you at all, but I imagine that not having your schedule organized is part of your problem. If you don't have your shit together, you don't inspire others to treat you like you do have your shit together.

 

Also, @instudiocity has an excellent response. Accepting that reality, and not taking it personally, will probably help a lot.

[instudiocity]

Also, @instudiocity has an excellent response. Accepting that reality, and not taking it personally, will probably help a lot.

One more point, you aren't for everyone. Every client isn't for you. The sooner you can understand which clients you enjoy the most and which clients enjoy you the most, the sooner this occupation will cease to be work, and cancellations will drop to nearly non-existent.

 

Which would you prefer 5 clients per day @ $100/ hr? Or one client per day @ $500/session. You are in a quality occupation, stop worrying about your quantities and start worrying about your qualities.

[YoungAD]

Don't feel obligated to kiss up to him. Based on how he degrades myself and other escorts, meeting him would likely be setting a premise that others have to prove their worth to his worthless character.

 

Worst case scenario he'll be a royal pain to please. Best case scenario he will fall into the category of the 70% of clients who cancel. Which is the other thing, not every client is worth dealing with. 70% seems like a high number. It's better to have no calls and repel the asswipes, than to have them calling and cancelling.

 

That's why even though I looked around on backpage today and seen some guys posting in massage and m4m section, I've had no desire to post ads on there despite the fact that I had a lot of business from it over the years. It was bad enough when backpage was allowing Escort ads. I can't even imagine now the level it would be of cancels and fakes.

 

At one point, I was nationalblacklisting.com guys left and right. Like every week. After doing some tweaks to wording and photos to keep the fools at bay, I'm happy to announce I've not had to blacklist a single client so far this year. Yeah calls are down, but so are the cancellations. But I won't hesitate to use it again if it's necessary.

 

Mocha, no one on this forum has the power to degrade you unless you allow it. And many of us (myself included) have offered advice to you with the intent of helping you bettering your situation. The issue here has been your steadfast contempt for anyone with a difference of opinion. You are determined to make your square peg fit into a round hole, whether it gets you into financial trouble, damages your emotional wellbeing, or waste your time as you plod from city to city and enjoy none of them. You have a completely unrealistic view of the way the business world works, and a sense of entitlement that is about four sizes too big for your reputation. Just for the record, relocation packages are typically not offered to entry-level employees.

[Mocha]

Mocha, no one on this forum has the power to degrade you unless you allow it. And many of us (myself included) have offered advice to you with the intent of helping you bettering your situation. The issue here has been your steadfast contempt for anyone with a difference of opinion. You are determined to make your square peg fit into a round hole, whether it gets you into financial trouble, damages your emotional wellbeing, or waste your time as you plod from city to city and enjoy none of them. You have a completely unrealistic view of the way the business world works, and a sense of entitlement that is about four sizes too big for your reputation. Just for the record, relocation packages are typically not offered to entry-level employees.

 

HAHAHA. Coming from you? You degrade people all the time. You just called on the OP to be whiny. You are Delusional. And quote:

 

Take the advice or do not. You are beginning to sound like a whiner.

 

And with a cancel rate of seven out of ten, maybe the post shows what kind of escort not to become as well.

 

If you think that's constructive advice to an escort, you are out of your rabid ass mind and you must have had some pretty abusive parents or siblings growing up and I feel bad for you. And that's the same bullshit you and your little gremlins say to me, and I'm supposed to say, "you're right, I'll do it!"

 

I don't know why you're commenting on something else from another thread, but clearly you don't even know what you're speaking of. I will address it though...I know entry level jobs don't offer relocation packages, Doofus. And whether it was offered or not, I would not even be working directly for my client anyway. So there was no relocation package even being asked or discussed. Once again, you're making up things that weren't even suggested.

 

You've never offered advice, you have only made abrasive catty remarks disguised by inferior faux gold wrapping. That's all you do. Just like in this post, you're talking out of your ass talking about my reputation that you know nothing about. But since you asked, it's actually fine Thankyou very much.

 

I have no contempt for different opinions. But there's a difference between blaming and belittling someone or trying to call out all of their shortcomings. You've offered nothing of value in the post you just made. It's not helpful, it's demoralizing. It's not positive, it's dismissive. You live and breed off of that and you're an all around evil person, just like I addressed and rebuked you in the other thread. If you really wanted to help like you so falsely claim you do, you'd PM me suggestions and see what options are available to me, understand why I deal with certain differences, and see that perhaps I'm not as unhappy and unsuccesful as you paint me to be.

 

But instead you're just a vile work of iniquity who deserves no place in my head space. Depart.

[coriolis888]

Hahahha the picture of me? Lol, thanks a ton papi chulo.

 

 

Speaking of the picture of you, if you access your rentmen ad where your photo is, you will see that you have 27 reviews. Two of the 27 reviews are not complimentary. but those reviews sound like an isolated bad day for whoever wrote the review.

 

However, two other reviews have fairly long written narratives saying nothing but great things about you. If your IP address is located in the U.S. you cannot readily see narratives in rentmen reviews. But, there is a way around that obstacle.

 

Rentmen blocks narratives of reviews to U.S. IP addresses. If you have an APN, you can access your accounts on rentmen and read the nice comments said about you. It seems, based on those narratives, you must be doing something right.

 

Oh , I don't think you come across as a whiner.

[Yeison]

Don't feel obligated to kiss up to him. Based on how he degrades myself and other escorts, meeting him would likely be setting a premise that others have to prove their worth to his worthless character.

 

Worst case scenario he'll be a royal pain to please. Best case scenario he will fall into the category of the 70% of clients who cancel. Which is the other thing, not every client is worth dealing with. 70% seems like a high number. It's better to have no calls and repel the asswipes, than to have them calling and cancelling.

 

That's why even though I looked around on backpage today and seen some guys posting in massage and m4m section, I've had no desire to post ads on there despite the fact that I had a lot of business from it over the years. It was bad enough when backpage was allowing Escort ads. I can't even imagine now the level it would be of cancels and fakes.

 

At one point, I was nationalblacklisting.com guys left and right. Like every week. After doing some tweaks to wording and photos to keep the fools at bay, I'm happy to announce I've not had to blacklist a single client so far this year. Yeah calls are down, but so are the cancellations. But I won't hesitate to use it again if it's necessary.

Oh wao, is there a black list for flakers? I need to check it out hahahha, I've been getting so many lately that I need to be aware.

[Yeison]

Speaking of the picture of you, if you access your rentmen ad where your photo is, you will see that you have 27 reviews. Two of the 27 reviews are not complimentary. but those reviews sound like an isolated bad day for whoever wrote the review.

 

However, two other reviews have fairly long written narratives saying nothing but great things about you. If your IP address is located in the U.S. you cannot readily see narratives in rentmen reviews. But, there is a way around that obstacle.

 

Rentmen blocks narratives of reviews to U.S. IP addresses. If you have an APN, you can access your accounts on rentmen and read the nice comments said about you. It seems, based on those narratives, you must be doing something right.

 

Oh , I don't think you come across as a whiner.

Awww thanks papi, I'm so happy all of my customers have had enjoy the time spent with me and I always makes sure they leave with a good taste in their mouth, conversation it's very important to me before get into any kind of fun so I also let them know that I am a smart guy and they can fall in love with my personality.

 

The two bad Reviews I have on RM are because I am not sugar for everybody to like, I am sure I always give my best, always but certain kind of people will be disappointed because they may expected something beyond the limits that they even lie on the reviews saying I am not the one in the pictures, that's when you realize what kind of sad people they are, 2 against 25 plus all of these people that knows me and never post a review they knows the truth and that's my back up hahhaha.

 

An advice for sad bad reviewers, take a hike honey, get lost and never come back hahhaha.

[MikeBiDude]

Oh wao, is there a black list for flakers? I need to check it out hahahha, I've been getting so many lately that I need to be aware.

Oh boy...

[MartyB]

I have only booked with an escort 2 weeks in advance who from out of town and are extraordinary men. And yes I have had to cancel due to business plans beyond my control. But I will no longer book an escort who comes to town for 3 days. I have missed one booking in all my time due to a dead cell phone and didn't have the address and phone # on me. Felt terrible. I've bad escorts cancel on me as well. We are all human.

[+ oldNbusted]

I prefer to book in advance, two or three weeks, but it seems people who book early are considered suspect or at least more likely to cancel at the last minute? That's unfortunate.

[BryanKnight]

I would agree. The longer in advance a stranger asks to meet, the higher the likelihood of a change.

[instudiocity]

But instead you're just a vile work of iniquity who deserves no place in my head space. Depart.

Joey, Mocha, Jerrod: If that's what you'd say in public, more specifically in front if a cadre of clients, just how many of us would you expect to hire you, with so sharp a tongue!

[AquaNYC]

I would agree. The longer in advance a stranger asks to meet, the higher the likelihood of a change.

Well, I plan at least a week in advance and I hope escorts don't plan to cancel on me/or don't take me seriously thinking I'm a flake because of an appointment scheduled far in advance. Please don't generalize. As a business man, I'm very disciplined with my schedule and it's usually very unlikely that I wouldn't know ahead of time that a business trip is cancelled days before and I can give an escort a far advance notice if I'm not coming to a city after all. More likely, the case is I need to push an appointment several hours later if a flight is delayed, but I will keep the escort well informed and will definitely tip him for accommodating my schedule. This has happened several times and the escorts were wonderfully accommodating and we had a great time together. I recognize this is a business of companionship and to get high quality, you need to treat it accordingly.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Well, I plan at least a week in advance and I hope escorts don't plan to cancel on me/or don't take me seriously thinking I'm a flake because of an appointment scheduled far in advance. Please don't generalize. As a business man, I'm very disciplined with my schedule and it's usually very unlikely that I wouldn't know ahead of time that a business trip is cancelled days before and I can give an escort a far advance notice if I'm not coming to a city after all. More likely, the case is I need to push an appointment several hours later if a flight is delayed, but I will keep the escort well informed and will definitely tip him for accommodating my schedule. This has happened several times and the escorts were wonderfully accommodating and we had a great time together. I recognize this is a business of companionship and to get high quality, you need to treat it accordingly.

 

I don't think he is making an unfair generalization. It is a matter of logic. The longer the time you book in advance, the highest the chances of something happening that would cause a cancellation or a reschedule. It has nothing to do with the professionalism of the provider or the seriousness of the client.

[AquaNYC]

I don't think he is making an unfair generalization. It is a matter of logic. The longer the time you book in advance, the highest the chances of something happening that would cause a cancellation or a reschedule. It has nothing to do with the professionalism of the provider or the seriousness of the client.

I appreciate your point. Its hard to disagree that having more time between a planned appointment can increase the likelihood of changes.

[mike carey]

Well, I plan at least a week in advance and I hope escorts don't plan to cancel on me/or don't take me seriously thinking I'm a flake because of an appointment scheduled far in advance. Please don't generalize.

I wouldn't say that what @BryanKnight said was generalising. He was stating what his experience was with advance bookings. He didn't say that he assumes they will work out that way or that he discriminates and I don't think he would do that. In reality it's the individual making the booking that is the determinant of likely cancellation not the time between making the booking and the appointment happening. If someone makes a booking two months out and keeps in touch, they likely won't be one of the percentage who book early and flake.

[BryanKnight]

Thank you for sharing your concerns. I appreciate you being considerate and thoughtful.

 

The best meetings I've had arranged father in advance have been because the caller and i took a genuine interest in getting to know what we want and care about.

[Maximus69]

I just tell them to contact me if interested closer to when they plan to arrive (a few days/day before) Most of the time these appointments booked far in advance never work out, they just forget to write back lmao...