"Regulars"

[MikeyGMin]

For a client who expresses an openness to wanting to have regulars with a specific provider, should I be surprised when there is no friendly outreach or touching base from the provider to try to support the development of this? Just curious. My experience this far is the every time seems to be treated like a first time.

No you shouldn't be surprised. I'm sure there are exceptions, but in general, communications will probably remain limited to scheduling. I wouldn't expect any kind of "How are you doing?" type of texts or emails. You get the extra rapport of a regular arrangement from the repeated sessions themselves.

[+ sniper]

For a client who expresses an openness to wanting to have regulars with a specific provider, should I be surprised when there is no friendly outreach or touching base from the provider to try to support the development of this? Just curious. My experience this far is the every time seems to be treated like a first time.

 

Given this is an endeavor that relies in large part on discretion, I would not expect outreach from the provider. They don't want to risk someone else receiving the message and thus the client's home life being blown up, for example.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Given this is an endeavor that relies in large part on discretion, I would not expect outreach from the provider. They don't want to risk someone else receiving the message and thus the client's home life being blown up, for example.

 

LOL. My favorite regulars do keep in touch now and then sending a check up message. They have always been entirely appropriate and I could have shown them to my wife, husband, boyfriend, girlfriend, parents, boss, or whoever. Greeting and being polite still falls inside discretion parameters.

[+ sniper]

LOL. My favorite regulars do keep in touch now and then sending a check up message. They have always been entirely appropriate and I could have shown them to my wife, husband, boyfriend, girlfriend, parents, boss, or whoever. Greeting and being polite still falls inside discretion parameters.

There's still no guarantee how it will be perceived by the customer, and there is a risk of reducing rather than increasing business with the move. It has been said "you're not paying them for sex, you're paying them to go away after." I'm not saying there aren't clients who welcome such contact, I'm saying there are some who definitely do not, and therefore erring on the side of caution is more likely.

[+ José Soplanucas]

There's still no guarantee how it will be perceived by the customer, and there is a risk of reducing rather than increasing business with the move. It has been said "you're not paying them for sex, you're paying them to go away after." I'm not saying there aren't clients who welcome such contact, I'm saying there are some who definitely do not, and therefore erring on the side of caution is more likely.

 

You are correct when the mutual knowledge is superficial. Once you know each other there is no much difference in the etiquette of friends and regular escorts. Of course if you do not want or approve these communications in any circumstance, your escort would learn it sooner or later.

[+ Keith30309]

Wasn't there a thread about this recently or am I overdoing the White-Out huffing.

 

For me, a friendly "hello" out of the blue can remind me of what a good time I had with someone and create a desire to repeat it. There are so many guys - at home and traveling - that I forget about people sometimes and just think about the new peeps.

[Mount N Do]

For a client who expresses an openness to wanting to have regulars with a specific provider, should I be surprised when there is no friendly outreach or touching base from the provider to try to support the development of this? Just curious. My experience this far is the every time seems to be treated like a first time.

What most surprises me is your assertion that "every time seems like the first." That is odd.

[Ryanquinn]

Since I'm the OP, I'm gonna hijack my own thread. At what point does one cease being a "regular" and transition to "sugar daddy"? I'm seeing someone just about weekly at 300 per. Our sessions typically don't run the full hour but our time often goes to about 3 hours between convo and lunch. Real nice guy, obviously I enjoy spending time with him. I believe I pretty much cover his fixed expenses. Not gonna divulge other compensation and till now it hasn't been that frequent. I'm pretty certain I'm his only client. Can't see him nights or weekends, my dilema not his. But I want a little more attention dammit! Lol. Like occasionally that he initiate contact. He knows my schedule and knows when it's safe to do so. Unreasonable? I'm willing to hear it all and open to accept that I'm whining.

 

Usually if I have a client that is not available at certain times I assume out of discretion that it's best for him to initiate contact.

 

However I'm sure if you communicate your needs with him, he will gladly meet them. Perhaps after a session, while cuddling.