How often does this happen to you per day?

[marylander1940]

Would-be-client: "Hi, are you free in 30/60 mins?"

Escort: "Yes, no plans I'm free.

Would-be-client: Let me see if I'm free.

This used to happen in NYC only, or so I've heard.

[Bayman4Fun]

As most humans aren't taking pentothol, or other truth-sera, I don't think you'll ever see

 

Would-be-client: "Hi, I've been fantasizing for years about hiring an escort. Are you free in 30/60 minutes?"

Escort: "Yes, no plans I'm free.

Would-be-client: I'd piss my pants before I'd ever act on my fantasy. Thanks for helping me indulge my self-deluded dreams for a few minutes more"

[sincitymix]

no, but with my work schedule and days off, when i hire i have to hire last moment, and i want or need to hire NOW so i will ask if they are available for a short notice in call I do hope no one thinks im being a fake or playing games..

usually it ends up with:

escort: yes i am free. how soon?

or

escort never responds.

me: Great! right now! address etc etc etc..

escort: oh sorry im free in like 3 hours. is that okay?

or

escort: Sure come on over!

[marylander1940]

I turned down an escort once because of his insisting I see him RIGHT NOW instead of allowing me to schedule a time. He was pushy, so I can only imagine how bad the experience could have gone if I simply abandoned my job for his financial satisfaction.

 

I'm sorry to hear that but can you imagine going through raincheck after raincheck on a daily basis?

 

as usual, the good ones pay for the bad apples.

[MassageDrew]

I can't say it's happened to me. Typically, I book well in advance to account for schedule changes. And I've had to cancel appointments when my boss decides to send me to one of out branches in the US Or Canada. I'd like to give the escort/masseur enough notice to book with another client so it's not a total loss for him.

[AquaNYC]

In NYC, I have had several experiences of setting up a meeting with an escort a day or two in advance, confirm the day of, and then an hour or two before the planned meeting time, the escort cancels and apologizes he can't make it. I have been guilty of scrambling around to find a last minute substitute, and do ask if he can be available in an hour or so. Most of the time I don't hear back. I can understand an escort would have skepticism, but would you recommend that I actually share what happened? "I just got cancelled on and was really looking forward to some company this evening, would you be free at this last moment?" I always thought this would come across as rude to the escort, being my second choice. While the circumstance is the circumstance, I would not value the escort as being second at all. Any escort I choose to be with is special to me in his own way. Curious what others do in such situations.

[Mydavid]

In NYC, I have had several experiences of setting up a meeting with an escort a day or two in advance, confirm the day of, and then an hour or two before the planned meeting time, the escort cancels and apologizes he can't make it. I have been guilty of scrambling around to find a last minute substitute, and do ask if he can be available in an hour or so. Most of the time I don't hear back. I can understand an escort would have skepticism, but would you recommend that I actually share what happened? "I just got cancelled on and was really looking forward to some company this evening, would you be free at this last moment?" I always thought this would come across as rude to the escort, being my second choice. While the circumstance is the circumstance, I would not value the escort as being second at all. Any escort I choose to be with is special to me in his own way. Curious what others do in such situations.

 

Do you mean Escorts also "overbook" to avoid absence like airline companies?

[MikeyGMin]

In NYC, I have had several experiences of setting up a meeting with an escort a day or two in advance, confirm the day of, and then an hour or two before the planned meeting time, the escort cancels and apologizes he can't make it. I have been guilty of scrambling around to find a last minute substitute, and do ask if he can be available in an hour or so. Most of the time I don't hear back. I can understand an escort would have skepticism, but would you recommend that I actually share what happened? "I just got cancelled on and was really looking forward to some company this evening, would you be free at this last moment?" I always thought this would come across as rude to the escort, being my second choice. While the circumstance is the circumstance, I would not value the escort as being second at all. Any escort I choose to be with is special to me in his own way. Curious what others do in such situations.

White lie time. I would tell him I had a business or family obligation that got cancelled at the last minute. It's just business, but everyone has egos and no one enjoys being somebody's backup plan.

[AquaNYC]

White lie time. I would tell him I had a business or family obligation that got cancelled at the last minute. It's just business, but everyone has egos and no one enjoys being somebody's backup plan.

Great suggestion. Thanks.

[Kevin Slater]

Do you mean Escorts also "overbook" to avoid absence like airline companies?

 

You should see the video of the cops dragging that poor guy out of my sling.

 

Kevin Slater

[Kevin Slater]

In NYC, I have had several experiences of setting up a meeting with an escort a day or two in advance, confirm the day of, and then an hour or two before the planned meeting time, the escort cancels and apologizes he can't make it. I have been guilty of scrambling around to find a last minute substitute, and do ask if he can be available in an hour or so. Most of the time I don't hear back. I can understand an escort would have skepticism, but would you recommend that I actually share what happened? "I just got cancelled on and was really looking forward to some company this evening, would you be free at this last moment?" I always thought this would come across as rude to the escort, being my second choice. While the circumstance is the circumstance, I would not value the escort as being second at all. Any escort I choose to be with is special to me in his own way. Curious what others do in such situations.

 

Why not just "are you available at five?"

 

Kevin Slater

[Bearofdistinction]

Why not just "are you available at five?"

 

Kevin Slater

 

Yes I am available for 5 -- But I'd prefer all 10!

[+ Eric Hassan]

In NYC, I have had several experiences of setting up a meeting with an escort a day or two in advance, confirm the day of, and then an hour or two before the planned meeting time, the escort cancels and apologizes he can't make it. I have been guilty of scrambling around to find a last minute substitute, and do ask if he can be available in an hour or so. Most of the time I don't hear back. I can understand an escort would have skepticism, but would you recommend that I actually share what happened? "I just got cancelled on and was really looking forward to some company this evening, would you be free at this last moment?" I always thought this would come across as rude to the escort, being my second choice. While the circumstance is the circumstance, I would not value the escort as being second at all. Any escort I choose to be with is special to me in his own way. Curious what others do in such situations.

 

"Hey! My name is XXX. I know this is last minute, but I suddenly find myself with some free time and was thinking I'd like to spend it with you. Are you available in an hour or so for an in/out-call?"

[MiamiLooker]

Curious what others do in such situations.

What, exactly, is the situation? You contact the escort and ask if he's available at a particular time. He either says yes or no.

[Bayman4Fun]

My interpretation is why ask if available now, getting an affirmative reply, and then saying "wonder if I can make it now?"

It's akin to calling a restaurant, asking "do you have fresh oysters on the menu? You do? Now that I've asked, I wonder if I'm even in the mood to eat oysters."

[+ Keith30309]

You should see the video of the cops dragging that poor guy out of my sling.

 

Kevin Slater

 

Do you give extra mileage or vouchers for a free ride for the involuntarily dismounted ?

[Kevin Slater]

Do you give extra mileage or vouchers for a free ride for the involuntarily dismounted ?

 

He's lucky if he doesn't get his teeth knocked out.

 

Kevin Slater

[AlexThomas]

More often then not I get the ones that I will tell them I'm not available and its always best to make an appointment. They will contact the next day asking again if I'm available in an hour. After that they will freak out saying im not worth their time and something silly like that.

 

Sometimes I am able to jump and come visit immediately, but more often then not I have to arrange transportation among other things to schedule around to include other appointments.

[instudiocity]

White lie time. I would tell him I had a business or family obligation that got cancelled at the last minute. It's just business, but everyone has egos and no one enjoys being somebody's backup plan.

Tell him the truth, "I was just cancelled on by a guy on my bucket list. You're on my bucket list, want to take his place tonight?"

 

Come on, it's not like escort or client is exclusive...

[instudiocity]

Do you mean Escorts also "overbook" to avoid absence like airline companies?

That would have been funnier sarcasm if you'd said, "to avoid empty seats like the airlines?"

 

I never want an empty seat at my events...

[marylander1940]

In NYC, I have had several experiences of setting up a meeting with an escort a day or two in advance, confirm the day of, and then an hour or two before the planned meeting time, the escort cancels and apologizes he can't make it. I have been guilty of scrambling around to find a last minute substitute, and do ask if he can be available in an hour or so. Most of the time I don't hear back. I can understand an escort would have skepticism, but would you recommend that I actually share what happened? "I just got cancelled on and was really looking forward to some company this evening, would you be free at this last moment?" I always thought this would come across as rude to the escort, being my second choice. While the circumstance is the circumstance, I would not value the escort as being second at all. Any escort I choose to be with is special to me in his own way. Curious what others do in such situations.

 

I'm sorry to hear that, that happens to escorts on an almost daily basis.

[marylander1940]

My interpretation is why ask if available now, getting an affirmative reply, and then saying "wonder if I can make it now?"

It's akin to calling a restaurant, asking "do you have fresh oysters on the menu? You do? Now that I've asked, I wonder if I'm even in the mood to eat oysters."

 

exactly!

 

Know your own schedule before asking someone else's schedule!

 

"Hey! My name is XXX. I know this is last minute, but I suddenly find myself with some free time and was thinking I'd like to spend it with you. Are you available in an hour or so for an in/out-call?"

 

That's the way a gentleman should approach an escort, but only if he knows he's free.

 

@Eric Hassan you're always teaching how to be classy in your posts!

[BryanKnight]

lol, I remember that happening many times, especially in LA.

[+ José Soplanucas]

As most humans aren't taking pentothol, or other truth-sera, I don't think you'll ever see

 

Would-be-client: "Hi, I've been fantasizing for years about hiring an escort. Are you free in 30/60 minutes?"

Escort: "Yes, no plans I'm free.

Would-be-client: I'd piss my pants before I'd ever act on my fantasy. Thanks for helping me indulge my self-deluded dreams for a few minutes more"

 

I think you nailed the issue here.

[Maximus69]

This is exactly why some escorts operate business in a "colder" robotic way because of people like this. Way too many "clients" contacting escorts to plan an appointment with no real intention on ever meeting. They get off on just wasting as of an escorts time as long as they could. Examples like them texting lets meet soon, but they want to text back and forth asking every single question on earth. Like today, some guy while texting asked me to send cock pics, I sent one the first time he asked, then 15 minutes later he asked again, and then he asked a third time lol. Thats why I urge escorts to save/block any emails/numbers of these kinds of "clients" or else they would do this again to you every few months:rolleyes::confused: