How to transition from massage to escort experience...

[+ 7829V]

Hi guys, I'm relatively new to getting massages (less than a year)... and I've received some therapeutic, some with HE, and some "full service".

 

I would like to know how to transition from hiring a masseur to hiring an escort. What I am wondering are the dynamics... when I get a massage I know what will happen: table or bed, me on such table/bed, guy starts massaging...

 

But with an escort...? Never experienced that, I am thinking you have some drinks? chat? or just go down to business? I think if I hire an escort, I need him to take the lead... not sure... that's why I am asking.

[+ poolboy48220]

No hard & fast rules. I always ask if they want something to drink and use the bathroom, and watch the guy's body language. If he declines anything or just wants a glass of water, it's usually a sign they want to head straight up to the bedroom. If they want something stronger, we'll sit & chat for a while and I'll move it into a discussion of how the session will go. But you can take it at your own speed - if they're rarin' to go and you'd like to discuss what you like and what you're going to do, feel free - but bear in mind that discussion time might cut into your session time.

[Chuckball]

I prefer dealing with escorts. I found there is more confusion in getting things going with masseurs. I have a few regular escorts that I see at their apartments. It usually starts with a mutual hug and then like pool boy says a question of whether I would like a drink or use the facilities. Ordinarily I ask for a glass of water. I had no idea until pool by mentioned it that this is a cue to move things to the bedroom. But he is right.

On a first meeting we usually discuss my likes and dislikes before starting into anything physical. All escorts I have visited have been exceptionally good in making sure each of us has a good time. I am sure I will experience some unpleasantness down the road but so far so good. I urge you to try the escort experience and let us all know how you found it.

[+ Funguy]

I see a couple who start the visit right off with a kiss, deep, prolonged, and wonderful. Then we say hello, etc.

Others a WARM hug, hi, how are ya, kiss, and then one of us initiates the removal of clothing. Each our own OR each the other's.

A few greet me already naked at the door and you know where that goes!

[Rudynate]

Hi guys, I'm relatively new to getting massages (less than a year)... and I've received some therapeutic, some with HE, and some "full service".

 

I would like to know how to transition from hiring a masseur to hiring an escort. What I am wondering are the dynamics... when I get a massage I know what will happen: table or bed, me on such table/bed, guy starts massaging...

 

But with an escort...? Never experienced that, I am thinking you have some drinks? chat? or just go down to business? I think if I hire an escort, I need him to take the lead... not sure... that's why I am asking.

 

The next time you're thinking about hiring, key in an escort's number rather than a masseur's number and show up. He knows what you're there for, and you know what you're there for, so just have at it.

[Dmitri]

I have found what works for me is telling the escort what I am looking for before meeting or hiring. Remember, you are hiring them. Letting them know right up front will help avoid any disappointment, and helps make sure you are a good match. An example is I like the escort to greet me fully clothed and I like to undress them. That's my own personal turn on. So I ask them for that before hiring. If they say yes...then I know we are a good match. I use this as an example since it would be a buzz kill if I did not communicate and they answered the door naked, when I had wanted to undress them. You are the director in your escort fantasy, so make your needs known to the escort before hiring and it should all go fine. Another bit of advice is before you get together do something on your own to help loosen you up so you are not nervous. This could be smoking some weed, a glass or two (or three!) of wine...or whatever works for you. Good luck and have fun!

[Dmitri]

I have found what works for me is telling the escort what I am looking for before meeting or hiring. Remember, you are hiring them. Letting them know right up front will help avoid any disappointment, and helps make sure you are a good match. An example is I like the escort to greet me fully clothed and I like to undress them. That's my own personal turn on. So I ask them for that before hiring. If they say yes...then I know we are a good match. I use this as an example since it would be a buzz kill if I did not communicate and they answered the door naked, when I had wanted to undress them. You are the director in your escort fantasy, so make your needs known to the escort before hiring and it should all go fine. Another bit of advice is before you get together do something on your own to help loosen you up so you are not nervous. This could be smoking some weed, a glass or two (or three!) of wine...or whatever works for you. Good luck and have fun!