Do you ask your regulars if they want to meet again?

[+ Funguy]

I like it when a traveller contacts me, especially ahead of time, about an upcoming visit to my neck of the woods, knowing I need time for scheduling. From previous contact, they really do know I want to see them when they visit. I get really disappointed when all of a sudden I see, "I'm in your city for the next 3 days." I can just about guarantee I won't be able to see them.

[dcguy20]

I don't mind guys from out of town letting me know they're coming back to the area. There have been some local guys who constantly hit me up even after I have told them I will contact them when I'm ready. I usually never see them again as a result.

[LADoug1]

I was trained in customer service at Neiman-Marcus. Thank you notes were encouraged if not mandatory. I would love to get a text from an escort after a positive experience. Seals the deal.

[Jose305]

I'm a client don't mind being contacted if it isn't going overboard. I think if you're an escort your business is sales so a once in awhile friendly reminder of your existence is cool - with me anyways. For example, I hired a masseur this weekend his massage was real and very therapeutic but his personality was of a wet noodle - zero connection whatsoever - I won't contact him and if contacts me in future ( I doubt it) I'll simply not reply period. If he were different I wouldn't mind a future contact.

[Rudynate]

I like it.

[LADoug1]

I'm a client don't mind being contacted if it isn't going overboard. I think if you're an escort your business is sales so a once in awhile friendly reminder of your existence is cool - with me anyways. For example, I hired a masseur this weekend his massage was real and very therapeutic but his personality was of a wet noodle - zero connection whatsoever - I won't contact him and if contacts me in future ( I doubt it) I'll simply not reply period. If he were different I wouldn't mind a future contact.

 

It should depend on what the message said. If it's simply a thank you then Miss Manners says to reply with a simple "Thanks for the note". If it suggests a repeat I would reply "Thanks but we didn't connect so I prefer not to repeat". Either way a reply is gracious and no doubt appreciated.

[+ oldNbusted]

I'm fine with being contacted and I let people know. I figure they have better things to do than message me too much and if that did happen, I would reply back with some diplomatic variation of "I'll reach out to you". But if they are not smart enough to get that hint, it would be over.

[+ glennnn]

I appreciate our escorts so much, and sympathize with their need to be constantly building their businesses. I personally am not wired to live as an entrepreneur; the uncertainty about my livelihood would drive me to distraction. Therefore, I understand an escort's need to reach out to potential clients every day. We should put ourselves in their position and think about what it would be like to live with rejection and uncertainty in a crowded market. (It makes me think of actors, models and other performers, too.) If they push too hard sometimes, perhaps we can cut them some slack. However, really bothering your clientele is probably not a career builder. I vote for the middle road. Contact me with updates, but keep it low-key and moderate. Thank you.

[SteveWheaton]

I hire now and then. I've been known to send a text to to say thanks again sometimes weeks or months later. Rarely get a reply which doesn't bode well for a second meeting. I know the don't necessarily remember me, but I usually note that up front - you may not remember me but we met blah blah blah. Still nothing. If I get a text back my brain engages and I start looking forward to the next meeting. Not sure when I get classified as a stalker though. Maybe my expectations are too high.

[Yeison]

If he owes me some money, sure I'd like to see him again.

Lol crazy

[Chuckball]

When I have had a good experience with an escort I like to maintain a fantasy that we have forged a friendship all the while knowing the relationship is totally contractual. Earlier in the year I had a great session with an escort and we texted each other afterwards about the Academy Awards. Nothing sexual said. But it reinforced my fantasy that he is a good friend and makes me want to meet up again.

[big-n-tall]

When I have had a good experience with an escort I like to maintain a fantasy that we have forged a friendship all the while knowing the relationship is totally contractual. Earlier in the year I had a great session with an escort and we texted each other afterwards about the Academy Awards. Nothing sexual said. But it reinforced my fantasy that he is a good friend and makes me want to meet up again.

 

I can tell you from experience, forging a friendship with an escort isn't stuff of fantasy. Well unless you just like the fantasy aspect of it. Lol!

[Chuckball]

The reason I call it a fantasy is that I never want it taken that because he is my friend there should be some free service or discounted rate. He is an expert in what he does and I can't minimize that. But there is no reason we cannot like or even love one another because of mutual chemistry.

[Cyd_StVincent]

It depends! I travel a lot so I often reach out to people when I'm back in their city in case they aren't checking rentmen and they want to spend some time together, but I only do so with men that I feel like would be excited to hear from me - who I've had good chemistry with and also that I've received no indication that texting or emailing them might compromise their privacy.

[Jose305]

I had an interesting experience that the escort texted me 2 days later 1) if I can rate him on RM 2) if I wanted to meet again that week lol

[marylander1940]

or just wait for them to contact you?

 

For the times , me as an escort, do not have clients coming but don't want to seem annoying to my regulars.

 

Thoughts? or experience?

 

Thanks

 

S

 

if they're regulars is because they like you and they've seen you before. I would just wait for them to call me.

[scottspearsxxx]

always enjoy my repeat clients

[+ VictorPowers]

or just wait for them to contact you?

 

For the times , me as an escort, do not have clients coming but don't want to seem annoying to my regulars.

 

Thoughts? or experience?

 

Thanks

 

S

This depends on my client. If I have some wide availability and I'm in my home city, I'll reach out to some of my Regs. I also have a handful that insist on only contacting me, which I respect of course.