Do you ask your regulars if they want to meet again?

[Spencer L]

or just wait for them to contact you?

 

For the times , me as an escort, do not have clients coming but don't want to seem annoying to my regulars.

 

Thoughts? or experience?

 

Thanks

 

S

[Kevin Slater]

I don't. I figure if we've met once, they're well aware of my existence and will reach out if and when the mood strikes.

 

Kevin Slater

[BaronArtz]

I think it's OK to keep in touch and to reach out to your regulars, without seeming to be hustling for more business. Keep it tactful and in good taste. I work in sales, I reach out to my top clients regularly. It makes sense, and it is appreciated. If done right, it simply is good business practice. Don't forget - there is always a competitor ready to take your place ... Stay on your client's radar screen!

[+ nycman]

I don't like it when escorts contact me for business.

 

"I call you?....I pay....You call me?....you pay."

 

Usually stops them dead in their tracks.

 

One exception is when an out of town escort is visiting NYC.

If he's asked me previously if it's ok to let me know when he's in town,

Then, and only then, am I cool with it.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I'm the boss my friend. It is my decision. This is a job, it is,not dating.

[+ Keith30309]

I don't mind it at all! I actually kind of like it, though I usually have trouble scheduling anything near-term.

 

I know it's purely a business communication but it's still a nice touch and it keeps that person in my mind when responding to recommendation requests. I'm much more likely to recommend someone when I've had some recent contact.

 

 

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EDIT: An exception.... when I begin to receive automated text messages and phone calls from an individual (using different phone numbers) asking to meet when we're halfway across the country with no travel plans. I suspect that carpet-bombing soliciting can begin to become counterproductive at some point.

[Mydavid]

I don't mind it at all!

Same here. But I rarely received them.

[down_to_business]

As you can see, a one size fits all approach does not work in this instance. Proceed with caution and do not oversell. Keep excellent notes. Remain respectful and cease communication at the slightest hint of disapproval.

[NJmusclelover]

I like when they contact me too

From sept- dec I was seeing someone twice a week on tue/sat

he would text me sometimes

That he was free this day or so forth I liked the texts and I liked him

Seeing another guy regularly now we text back and forth all the time daily it's nice and makes it feel like special I appreciate it

But not everyone would

But the texts are more about what's going on than let's meet up

[rvwnsd]

Count me as someone who appreciates being contacted - as long as it doesn't go overboard. Only one guy has done that and I think most escorts of any experience level would agree that twice-daily texts about re-hiring are too much. A few guys would always text me when they were visiting San Diego (where I lived until just recently) and I always appreciated hearing from them.

 

One way to navigate the varying tastes in communication is to ask whether a client is OK with being contacted in the future. If they say "yes" then contact them. If they say "no" or "maybe" then don't.

[MartyB]

when I meet a new escort and I've had a great time I always text them after. If I've had a nice rapport with an escort from out of town I like getting an update that he's coming to town. My regulars I usually set up a time when I'm leaving after my session has ended and reconfirm during the week.

[rvwnsd]

Count me as someone who appreciates being contacted...

 

I want to clarify one thing: I don't fret when an escort does not contact for future meets nor do I feel negatively toward those, like @Kevin Slater , who make it a practice not to contact clients. The follow-up waters are choppy and difficult to navigate and sometimes it is better to remain onshore.

[MikeSinz]

At the end of every encounter I have with a client I ask them if I can add their number to my contacts, just in case they ever contact me again I would know it was them. I always tell them that I would not contact them because I respect someone's life outside of my Cozy home .I've even had some clients say they don't mind ,and I don't have a problem with that .I just respect eaches.own, https://rentmen.com/MikeSinz/reviews/

[Maxl]

It depends on the atmosphere when saying goodbye, I think.

[+ sf westcoaster]

I very much appreciate it when an escort tells me that he will be visiting my city. Frankly, it makes me feel good, knowing that the escort wants to see me again.

[Beancounter]

I always appreciate a heads up from the 4-5 people I see on a regular basis. They are all out of town guys and they contact 2-3 weeks in advance letting me know they'll be in town. While they all have RM ads I don't check out their ads on a routine basis so it's nice to be kept in the loop as to their travel schedules.

 

For those escorts that I've seen on a one-time basis and don't want to see again for any number of reasons I simply block their phone numbers on my phone and that's that.

[MGTOW_Tx]

or just wait for them to contact you?

 

For the times , me as an escort, do not have clients coming but don't want to seem annoying to my regulars.

 

Thoughts? or experience?

 

Thanks

 

S

 

No, If they like you or have the opportunity they will contact you again and rehire you but its not always about you, sometimes clients prefer to enjoy a bit of variety.

 

I do think it is a good idea to talk to regulars as friends and not always making every interaction about business, I would also mention it makes sense to contact clients when traveling if they live in the area.

 

Another good reason to contact clients would be about updated pictures but that would only be to remind them your still around and not every client will appreciate that action.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

I don't. I figure if we've met once, they're well aware of my existence and will reach out if and when the mood strikes.

 

Kevin Slater

 

Once again, Kevin is the voice here of the true pro.

 

A good escort knows when to step back from the podium and let nature take its course.

[Dmitri]

I think it all depends on the situation. Each encounter is unique and different. If I am with a masseur or escort and it was a great experience, I have no problem with a follow up text or call saying "It was great to meet you! Whenever you are ready again let me know" The follow up is actually nice, kind of warm and fuzzy. As we all know, many of us have actually developed friendships with our masseurs/escorts, and this is how it starts. The only problem I have is if it becomes persistent, then it is almost harassing me. That is where I draw the line. Then I just tell them, "don't call me.....I'll call you" This stops them right away. So once is cool. Repeatedly is not.

[Spencer L]

Thanks you guys! Highly appreciated!

[+ purplekow]

i do not mind a call or text which is for the purpose of reconnecting on a personal level but to be actively solicited is off putting. So call to wish me Merry Christmas but do not offer yourself as a gift to myself for the occasion.

[Maximus69]

Well No for the most part, however their are certain months I can host or other times I cannot, so I let my regulars know ahead of time, because some of them can't host, so they have to wait until I can host again. These are regulars I have seen multiple times so I know I'm not bothering them if I text them.

 

However if its someone I've only seen once or not that much, I just let them text me first if they want to see me again, I know they are extremely busy with other things, so if they really want to see me and when they have some time, they will text me

[pubic_assistance]

or just wait for them to contact you?

I prefer friendly relationships over strictly business.....so if we hit it off once, I'd expect an occasional hello, and enjoy the attention.

Certainly a weekly message might seem pushy, but every two weeks, is a casual reminder of the fun to be had.

[+ Kman]

I kind of like when an escort or masseur tells me they want to see me again obviously they are trying to gain more regular clients, but I feel they wouldn't say anything if they didn't enjoy the company. And some escorts have extended discounts to me since they really enjoyed our time together, again probably a tactic to get me to comeback again.

[jawjateck]

If he owes me some money, sure I'd like to see him again.