Swallow it up!

[+ Funguy]

Perhaps I'm in the minority, but with every single escort I meet for the first time, I contact by whatever means he prefers then tell him I wish to speak to him in a short conversation to find out what he wants to know about me, what I expect the experience to be, AND what I want to know about him (assuming I have not found it in a review). Rentmen, etc. info is not always the most accurate or UTD info so if I want to ask about kissing, oral, anal, rimming, mutual whatever, etc. I ask them (couched in somewhat ambiguous terms which always bring a laugh).

The only surprises I have ever had then are good ones. I have also seen a few who say, after a brief intro, that they don't really need any more info on me, they like that I took the time to call, and that I won't be disappointed by anything. I hold my breath - and they have been spot-on!

 

I am also not bashful in grunting, "Oh God! Do it that way or this way and I'll love it even more!"

 

What a wonder of wonders is this hobby. (I don't like the word "hobby" for this but I didn't have another word on the tip of my tongue.)

[+ BigRic]

Perhaps I'm in the minority, but with every single escort I meet for the first time, I contact by whatever means he prefers then tell him I wish to speak to him in a short conversation to find out what he wants to know about me, what I expect the experience to be, AND what I want to know about him (assuming I have not found it in a review). Rentmen, etc. info is not always the most accurate or UTD info so if I want to ask about kissing, oral, anal, rimming, mutual whatever, etc. I ask them (couched in somewhat ambiguous terms which always bring a laugh).

The only surprises I have ever had then are good ones. I have also seen a few who say, after a brief intro, that they don't really need any more info on me, they like that I took the time to call, and that I won't be disappointed by anything. I hold my breath - and they have been spot-on!

 

I am also not bashful in grunting, "Oh God! Do it that way or this way and I'll love it even more!"

 

What a wonder of wonders is this hobby. (I don't like the word "hobby" for this but I didn't have another word on the tip of my tongue.)

 

Curious about any relationship/correspondence, [uSER=9945]@funguy[/uSER], between, on the one hand, guys who either don't want to talk on the phone (I know a few colleagues who strongly prefer text, perhaps because they are so busy) or who don't respond to your call "in kind" (in other words, they respond to your voicemail with a text message) and, on the other, great experiences with guys you hire. In other words, are you finding that these phone conversations are mapping strongly with repeat hires?

 

At the same time, are there guys you've been very satisfied with who you didn't speak live with on the phone beforehand at all?

[+ Funguy]

I have never had a prospective hire "refuse" to speak to me on the phone, saying to text or email instead, because the purpose of the call really is to hear their voice and get my own impression/and to make up my own mind. If someone is "so busy" he cannot take 2 minutes for a quickie call then he is not the right person for me because, although I love to "roll in the hay" I also like to just have that slow, sexy, erotic visit where all is explored, nothing rushed. If an escort is that busy to start with, I won't be able to relax enough to have that great time, thinking "will he want to rush me out?" - true or not. Responding to my voicemail with a text is different because it is just showing me which manner with which he prefers to communicate. Responding to my request for a phone call with a text or email saying he does not WANT to speak is something I do not like but if he takes time to have a text or email conversation, if we can convey the info that is needed I will go ahead; but, I cannot remember even one in the recent past who I have not spoken to prior to meeting, even if it was a 30 second, "Hi."

 

What maps with repeat hires is not what goes before the meet but what happens during the meet. If he is "my type" (I hate that phrase but sometimes I need to use it and it simply means "mature - in age and intellect", good looking, sexy, nice body - smoking' hot does not necessarily enter into this at all, and I like guys 30's and up, no upper limit if they are fit and can perform. If they are 50 and up, hands down they still hit my TURN ON button). If he has listened to what I say I like it shows me that he is paying attention and wants OUR meeting to be as much as it can be. Repeat hires are most often with guys in my locale but just about always with travelers if they give me heads up (get your mind out of the gutter - LOL) well ahead of time because i am a workaholic.

 

As far as satisfaction with guys I have not spoken to previously, as I said above, I speak to just about everybody. It is part of my selection process. If we don't speak I begin to back away unless there is a good reason. I mean, how difficult is it to say, "Hi." when multiple hours (I don't just do 1 hour visits) and multiple $ are in play?

 

Hope this answers your question.

[LADoug1]

Just wish more escorts would include in their Profiles..."I like to Suck" Having to ask is inconvenient for me.

 

Many escorts are very concerned about divulging too much graphic information in their profiles for fear of LE stings.

[+ glennnn]

I prefer to cum down a guy's throat, but it takes a while for me to climax (I have "staying power" whether I want it or not), and I'm sympathetic if a guy's jaw just gets too tired. Some guys jaws naturally just can't last long enough, so if I feel like my dick is caught in a bear trap then it's not happening.

 

I prefer a good open-mouthed face fucking where I'm in charge, and if they are into that and let me do my thing I can have an amazing explosive orgasm down their throat. It is the rare person who can take that though.

 

The upshot: I would never pull out as long as I wasn't being scraped by teeth.

 

 

 

Based on this, I think I need to meet you. LOL!

[jjperry]

I personally prefer a guy to cum in my mouth and to swallow, but am always open to facials.

[+ pitman]

I love to have a guy cum in my mouth, but not in my throat. I can give great deep throat to all but the hugest of cocks, but if he's too far down there when he cums, it could result in a choking/coughing fit similar to when you swallow a mouthful of water too quickly. For this reason I much prefer that he come in my mouth. Plus I want my taste buds to be saturated with his load, so I can savor the flavor!

[jjperry]

I love to have a guy cum in my mouth, but not in my throat. I can give great deep throat to all but the hugest of cocks, but if he's too far down there when he cums, it could result in a choking/coughing fit similar to when you swallow a mouthful of water too quickly. For this reason I much prefer that he come in my mouth. Plus I want my taste buds to be saturated with his load, so I can savor the flavor!

 

I agree with you there, dude. I like to really feel a guy’s dick throbbing as well when he shoots. Mmmm!

[+ pitman]

I agree with you there, dude. I like to really feel a guy’s dick throbbing as well when he shoots. Mmmm!

Yes! There's nothing sexier than, once your man has reached the point of no return, feeling the intense throbbing of his dick, knowing that it will be followed momentarily by an explosion in your mouth.

[liubit]

Yes! There's nothing sexier than, once your man has reached the point of no return, feeling the intense throbbing of his dick, knowing that it will be followed momentarily by an explosion in your mouth.

Yes, and watching his eyes roll as you swallow his cum and tease the oversensitive glans with your tongue, feeling his body writhe and contort in almost unbearable pleasure. Priceless.

[+ tylerthebadwolf]

I am of the same mind as Funcompany. I feel really satisfied when an escort unloads in my mouth. A recent escort who I sucked to completion, on the economy visit pulled out before he came and asked me to watch as he masturbate. I suspected he wanted to change up the routine but if his real concern was that he had suspicion he was passing on an infection he should have said so. My experience is that it is really difficult to find an escort willing to cum in my mouth even when I encourage the behavior

Perhaps it is partially my fault as well since I never made cum eating an absolute requirement. I have only had one escort tell me it was OK to unload in his mouth.

 

I can't speak for anyone else, but to my mind there's a difference between 'encouraging' and 'asking for it.'

 

In any sexual situation, my habit is always to find a reason *not* to bust in somebody's mouth, unless they have said explicitly that they want it. I'm a visual guy, too so this suits me just fine. But I'm always happy to accommodate with clear instruction or stated preference.

 

 

-t