Swallow it up!

[+ BigRic]

I'm sorry, @BigRic, but it't (sic) not necessarily "bad customer service," . . .

 

To clarify, the OP said that " A few escorts forced their way out of my mouth when it was ready to blow" (bold mine). Unless the client requests it as part of some BD/SM scene, I feel there shouldn't be any "forcing" of anything during a session.

 

In my experience, most self-identified cocksuckers (and I use the term affectionately) are specifically interested in having a guy release in their mouth. If, contrary to prima facie evidence that the client wants otherwise an escort is nevertheless forcibly doing something else, that to me is a textbook example of poor customer service.

 

IMO these escorts should mention why they don't want to release in a client's mouth in advance if that's the case, or at least ask the wonderful question some of @poolboy48220's hires are posing: "Where do you want it?" I agree @MikeyGMin: that's a sexy AF question. Perhaps the only thing sexier in that scenario is if the escort can tell from the client's behavior . . . grabbing the escort's ass and pulling him closer and tighter . . . sucking harder and faster . . . and the client can sense from the escort's grunting and faster breathing that he's gonna release . . . the escort doesn't have to even ask the question and rips in the client's mouth knowing that's what he really wants.

 

That's (good customer) service.

[+ Eric Hassan]

To clarify, the OP said that " A few escorts forced their way out of my mouth when it was ready to blow" (bold mine). Unless the client requests it as part of some BD/SM scene, I feel there shouldn't be any "forcing" of anything during a session.

 

In my experience, most self-identified cocksuckers (and I use the term affectionately) are specifically interested in having a guy release in their mouth. If, contrary to prima facie evidence that the client wants otherwise an escort is nevertheless forcibly doing something else, that to me is a textbook example of poor customer service.

 

IMO these escorts should mention why they don't want to release in a client's mouth in advance if that's the case, or at least ask the wonderful question some of @poolboy48220's hires are posing: "Where do you want it?" I agree @MikeyGMin: that's a sexy AF question. Perhaps the only thing sexier in that scenario is if the escort can tell from the client's behavior . . . grabbing the escort's ass and pulling him closer and tighter . . . sucking harder and faster . . . and the client can sense from the escort's grunting and faster breathing that he's gonna release . . . the escort doesn't have to even ask the question and rips in the client's mouth knowing that's what he really wants.

 

That's (good customer) service.

 

I think you're saying that to notice that a client wants something and to not provide it is poor customer service. I agree with that.

 

I was thinking from my perspective. I was thinking of the times when it's been obvious to me that someone wants me to cum in their mouth and they have this stranglehold on my cock, thinking I'm getting close, and I've had to really work to get my cock out of their mouth - but it's always been because something isn't working for it to add up that I'll cum in their mouth. But, then I always communicate what's up - and it sounds like that was what was missing.

 

I think it's likely that the escort was not intending to provide a poor experience, but I can see how his lack of explanation can make it so anyway.

[mike carey]

@Eric Hassan I think it was clear what you meant, that if a particular cock-in-mouth experience wasn't working you'd want to change it. No shame in that. I've never mastered the situation so I'm not one to comment in more depth here, but if I were on the receiving end I would understand if it wasn't working for the other guy.

[Mydavid]

Once I was with an escort, after I had been sucking his cock for a while, I asked him to cum in my mouth. To my surprise, he told me he had already come. I didn't feel any sperm in my mouth, nor did I feel his cock ever throbbed. Is it possible? He had no need to lie to me, I just feel strange.

[mike carey]

@Mydavid in my senior years there have been times when I haven't been sure that I have come. Granted, an escort should know, but my uncertainty leads me to conclude that explosive orgasms are not always what happens so one or both sides may not be certain that the orgasm has taken place. It's not ideal, but it's not inconceivable.

[Mydavid]

@Mydavid in my senior years there have been times when I haven't been sure that I have come. Granted, an escort should know, but my uncertainty leads me to conclude that explosive orgasms are not always what happens so one or both sides may not be certain that the orgasm has taken place. It's not ideal, but it's not inconceivable.

You felt orgasm but didn't ejaculate, or you felt nothing but had the feeling of release already?

[mike carey]

You felt orgasm but didn't ejaculate, or you felt nothing but had the feeling of release already?

Mainly I didn't have the 'feeling'.

[Mydavid]

Mainly I didn't have the 'feeling'.

 

So why did you suspect that you might already have cummed?

[mike carey]

So why did you suspect that you might already have cummed?

The presence of ejaculate is pretty conclusive, whether I'd noticed it or not.

[MartyB]

Bad customer service.

 

 

 

Wow. You're hiring the wrong guys.

I'm with you. Hiring the wrong men for sure...

[Nvr2Thick]

I love it when a man cums in my mouth. I love servicing a man, giving him pleasure, and giving him exactly what he needs. It is wonderful when our desires coincide; I love it when a man's pleasure is to be serviced to completion, in perfect harmony with my desire to swallow his load. Sometimes, however, a man's needs don't coincide with mine. Providing pleasure ultimately wins the conflict for me. I'd rather that he do what he wants than give me what I need.

 

I had a regular buddy who loved to show off how much he cums. He would laugh excitedly as he blasted up to his chin and left long wet stripes up his belly and chest. Normally I'm not all that thrilled about taking a facial, but one of my recent hookups was a notable exception. This guy was quietly responsive as I worked on him, but when he was ready to shoot he suddenly pulled out and palmed his dick on my face while grabbing the back of my neck, excitedly and verbal as he hissed how I was going to get it and how good it looked and felt to him.

 

It's a good idea to set expectations for an escort scene. If you like to swallow maybe he'll be prepared to accommodate, or set expectations based on why he doesn't do that. I try to make a point of telling an escort that I derive pleasure as a pleaser, and that trying to please me doesn't always work. I also get into a bit of detail about scenes that work well for me.

[+ nycman]

I'm not an escort, but generally I don't like cummming in a guy's mouth.

While I love the IDEA of it, the REALITY is often physically uncomfortable

for me.

 

Just like fucking with a condom...I'd rather pull out and beat off than cum

that way. The prelude? No problem. The finale? Big problem.

 

The only exception is if I'm balls deep into your throat and fucking like a

machine. If it feels like I'm unloading directly into your eager stomach, THEN

I love it. It's just rare to find the right dude who can handle that much intensity.

 

Some dudes get offended when I pull out at the last second and finish

off manually. I think it's funny that someone else gives a shit about

what feels good for me. It's sex....there really is no "wrong" way!

[MikeyGMin]

I love it. It's just rare to find the right dude who can handle that much intensity.

I hear that! Being aggressively face slammed is something that looks great in porn but I sure can't handle in reality. I'm going to gag and there will be accidental biting.

[Mydavid]

The presence of ejaculate is pretty conclusive, whether I'd noticed it or not.

 

I don't really understand what you said. I once had this kind of experience: I ejaculated but I didn't feel orgasm at all, I couldn't come in a short time any more, but I didn't feel really satisfied with release of my desire.

[+ glennnn]

I love it when a man cums in my mouth. I love servicing a man, giving him pleasure, and giving him exactly what he needs. It is wonderful when our desires coincide; I love it when a man's pleasure is to be serviced to completion, in perfect harmony with my desire to swallow his load. Sometimes, however, a man's needs don't coincide with mine. Providing pleasure ultimately wins the conflict for me. I'd rather that he do what he wants than give me what I need.

 

I had a regular buddy who loved to show off how much he cums. He would laugh excitedly as he blasted up to his chin and left long wet stripes up his belly and chest. Normally I'm not all that thrilled about taking a facial, but one of my recent hookups was a notable exception. This guy was quietly responsive as I worked on him, but when he was ready to shoot he suddenly pulled out and palmed his dick on my face while grabbing the back of my neck, excitedly and verbal as he hissed how I was going to get it and how good it looked and felt to him.

 

It's a good idea to set expectations for an escort scene. If you like to swallow maybe he'll be prepared to accommodate, or set expectations based on why he doesn't do that. I try to make a point of telling an escort that I derive pleasure as a pleaser, and that trying to please me doesn't always work. I also get into a bit of detail about scenes that work well for me.

 

 

++++++++++++++++++ 1000!

[Dave]

In my experience, almost all escorts like to cum in my mouth. It is more difficult to find those who like me to cum in their mouth. One of my favorites is to suck to completion and then kiss passionately sharing his cum. And I go wild if they return the favor, allowing me to cum in their mouth and then kissing. Hot hot hot.

Yeah, hot hot hot! Prague suddenly seems so far away

[+ PapaTony]

I sometimes pull out before I cum because my cock gets very sensitive and it hurts almost if they keep sucking me.

.

Not if they know what they're doing!!!

[+ Funguy]

i've had a few escorts who have told me while they were sucking me that they wanted me to come in their mouths. All it took then was their hand on my balls, then a bit lower and WHAMMO! That extra 5% disappeared awfully quickly!

 

Part of what will get me to completion is the stimulation of my balls or of my ass at the same time as the sucking is going on. I become extremely responsive when that starts and there is no holding back.

 

There are also a lot of guys, while being sucked (or for that matter, fucked) who say, close to the moment, "I'm gonna cum". Sometimes it's involuntary but sometimes it is a warning to the guy doing the sucking that the end is imminent and if you don't want it in your mouth you better let go, or conversely, if you DO want it in your mouth then keep going!

[Mydavid]

who say, close to the moment, "I'm gonna cum".

I always do so

[+ glennnn]

i've had a few escorts who have told me while they were sucking me that they wanted me to come in their mouths. All it took then was their hand on my balls, then a bit lower and WHAMMO! That extra 5% disappeared awfully quickly!

 

Part of what will get me to completion is the stimulation of my balls or of my ass at the same time as the sucking is going on. I become extremely responsive when that starts and there is no holding back.

 

There are also a lot of guys, while being sucked (or for that matter, fucked) who say, close to the moment, "I'm gonna cum". Sometimes it's involuntary but sometimes it is a warning to the guy doing the sucking that the end is imminent and if you don't want it in your mouth you better let go, or conversely, if you DO want it in your mouth then keep going!

 

 

Info duly noted!

[+ glennnn]

It all comes down to being clear with each other about what is wanted or needed by each guy. I'm always clear that a mouth or throat full of cum is very high on my list of results. It's not a deal breaker; I have one regular escort who cannot always provide this happy ending, and usually resorts to his hand, but cum eating remains the number one turn on for me. I live to serve.

[Mark Alexander]

I prefer to cum down a guy's throat, but it takes a while for me to climax (I have "staying power" whether I want it or not), and I'm sympathetic if a guy's jaw just gets too tired. Some guys jaws naturally just can't last long enough, so if I feel like my dick is caught in a bear trap then it's not happening.

 

I prefer a good open-mouthed face fucking where I'm in charge, and if they are into that and let me do my thing I can have an amazing explosive orgasm down their throat. It is the rare person who can take that though.

 

The upshot: I would never pull out as long as I wasn't being scraped by teeth.

[LADoug1]

It has been my experience that most people, if they do not have to finish, have to have a great deal to of participation toward the end. Perhaps because a blow job contains a lot of masturbatory elements a person tends to know exactly what will get him to the finish line. Unless it is someone you are really familiar with it is hard to know what they like with masturbation (light, hard, fast, slow, etc.) so I think it may be difficult on many occasions not to have the person contribute to the experience. But I could be very wrong.

 

I stay VERY aware of how my partner likes to push himself over the edge and often try to replicate it. I can sometimes do this. Often we do it together. Quite satisfying.

[LADoug1]

It all comes down to being clear with each other about what is wanted or needed by each guy. I'm always clear that a mouth or throat full of cum is very high on my list of results. It's not a deal breaker; I have one regular escort who cannot always provide this happy ending, and usually resorts to his hand, but cum eating remains the number one turn on for me. I live to serve.

 

Communication and sensitivity are king.

[ServeUncutUncle]

Just wish more escorts would include in their Profiles..."I like to Suck" Having to ask is inconvenient for me.