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hey guys I'm a bit new to all this and am looking for some advice and tips. I know there is some great info here but figured I'd also ask just so I don't have to comb through everything.

 

I am a 27 yo escort that just got into doing this. I am wondering if anyone has tips on how to screen clients without getting to personal? Is there and good places to place an ad other then grindr or Craigslist? How do I go about talking about certain activities without crossing that grey line that could land me in jail for prostitution?

 

I've had a few experiences so far, but I am looking to get my name out there more and be safer while I'm doing it. Thanks in advanced for any tips for a newbie.

 

Alex

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Welcome, Alex! When I hire, I am usually checking out rentmen.com and masseurfinder.com. I also check out Adam4Adamn. Your profile isnt bad on rentmen, https://rentmen.com/Tecfall. Others might be able to make some suggestions on the wording. I would also add that you consider adding your profile links in your signature here I dont go with Craiglist or Grindr when looking. I will sometimes check out massagem4m.com. I have been presently surprised by a few guys there that are much more into sensual, naked massage than their ads read.

 

For what it is worth, when I message a potential hire, I try to avoid specific requests or requirements. I focus on seeing if there is connection first. I usually start with something like I am looking for a good body massage/rub and see how it goes. Also I say something how if we could both be nude that would be great to enhance the connection if possible (depending on the site). I try to be clear to be clear that I am looking for a massage/body rub and not a BFE. I dont even mention happy endings. I also am willing to take a leap of faith if there are a few subtle hints. (The only time that didnt work, I knew better but really hoped once we met the dude would at least get naked.) This seems to work well for me meeting the type of guy who will connect with me.

 

All the best here,

TheBigO

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Kevin Slater Grand Master

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Any other advice is great as an escort, and much appreciated, like I said I'm still new but I've done a few jobs so far. Always looking to make myself safer though and I've had a few creeps contact me haha

 

From an earlier thread:

  • Don't bother with blocked phone calls. Seriously. He's a time waster.
  • Same for texts that come through from an email address.
     
  • Hear a voice on the phone before heading over or giving your address. Subsequent booking can be made via text.
     
  • It's not a bad idea to call the hotel and get patched through to the room before heading over, especially if something strikes you as 'off'.
  • The likelihood of a future booking actually happening is inversely proportional to the number of texts, calls and emails beforehand.
     
  • Keep note of the numbers that flake on you, for they'll do it again in six months. And that same guy has done it to me, and every other escort.
  • Be leery of drunk. They often pass out before you get there, or after.
     
  • He may be having a great time and want to extend the session. Mazel tov. But he may be thinking with his little head and not have the funds. Settle up occasionally.
     
  • Every client starts as a first timer. But first timers also often lose their nerve, and you lose your time and effort.
  • Don't front the money for a first time session (hotel, travel, etc.) and rarely for repeat sessions.
     
  • Don't drive two hours without a deposit (e.g. Venmo or Amazon e-gift card).
  • Key words that this is going nowhere: Engineer, Nigeria, Walmart, "your city".
     
  • Don't discount your first session because he's going to see you weekly. Future sessions may be negotiable, initial bookings are always full fare.
  • Make some friends in the biz. They've seen it all before and can offer guidance.
     
  • Trust your gut. A few bucks isn't worth your health, safety, or freedom.

Most guys you'll meet will be wonderful and pleasant. Some will be odd ducks, and even that can be fun or at least entertaining. A few are bad eggs, but those guys are extremely prolific in wasting your time.

 

Kevin Slater

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Juan Vancouver Veteran

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Hey Alex,

 

Welcome to the forum. I wish you find fulfillment and abundance in your life.

 

You have been given great advice here. Carefully study what Kevin wrote. However, in this forum you have so much information about escorting, intimacy, sex, and health that I sincerely recommend putting in the work and searching for the subjects that matter to you.

 

I think I have been posting more than a decade here, and it was always very exciting to answer the newbies' questions. Now, after hundreds of newbies, I am not so moved to post. I am sure the same applies to others. BUT you still have thousands of pots to comb through. It will be worth your while.

 

My one piece of advice is what I think most important.

 

Learn to listen to your instincts; not your fear, not your prejudice, not your habitual train of thought, but your instincts. They are more often than not spot on and if you listen and obey, they will save you a lot of wasted time and will definitely keep you out of harms way.

 

Breathe. Relax. Calm your mind. Listen to your gut.

 

Act accordingly.

 

Big hug!

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Sorry. Didn't realize such a comment was inappropriate. My bad.

 

I can't answer your original question. Just keep in mind that Upstate New York, where this escort conducts his business, is not a high-income part of the state. I imagine that his pricing reflects the income levels of his market ...

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hey guys I'm a bit new to all this and am looking for some advice and tips. I know there is some great info here but figured I'd also ask just so I don't have to comb through everything.

 

I am a 27 yo escort that just got into doing this. I am wondering if anyone has tips on how to screen clients without getting to personal? Is there and good places to place an ad other then grindr or Craigslist? How do I go about talking about certain activities without crossing that grey line that could land me in jail for prostitution?

 

I've had a few experiences so far, but I am looking to get my name out there more and be safer while I'm doing it. Thanks in advanced for any tips for a newbie.

 

Alex

The amount of advice one could give is endless. I'll stick to one tip. Create a brand for yourself and once you decide a price, stick with it. Whether it's time or service based, is your decision. But be wary of giving into someone that just wants a bargain. I think there's a correct time/place for discounts, but it rarely includes a first visit. The best reply I've found for people looking for me to charge less is this:

"I have travel expenses I need to cover while im here in (City name), it makes no business sense for me to discount my rates while I'm here."

I hope this helps, but keep in mind it's just my opinion and how you conduct all facets of your business is your decision. Good luck out there!

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Wow I never would have guessed there are escorts in Saratoga Springs! Awesome! I occasionally go to Lake Placid to visit family and drive from Albany. I sometimes play the wonderful golf course in SS - maybe I can do a post round session before heading north? ;)

 

Since you asked I think much fewer pix are best. Maybe 6-10. Just my opinion.

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