"Am I your type?" "What kinda guy you usually like?"

[+ glennnn]

I exchange my time for money.

Inner beauty is the thing I look for along the way.

 

:D:D!

[+ nycman]

So how to answer questions like that without hurt client's feelings?

 

"I love men....what more can I say?"

 

[Spencer L]

"I love men....what more can I say?"

 

 

Lol great answer

[adannyboy]

[+ pitman]

I hired a guy once who was not really my “type” from a purely physical perspective. While I did not find him unattractive (and he did have great eyes and great abs), I would not have hired him based on his pictures. Instead, what I was really attracted to was actually his intelligence and witty personality, based on his posts on this forum. It ended up being a perfectly enjoyable experience. I guess my point is that attraction can be more complex than a simple matter of superficial appearance. “Inside beauty” can count for a lot.

+1

My ideal "type" is a swarthy, hairy Mediterranean man. Those are the guys I always notice immediately. But more and more, whether its viewing porn, checking out escort profiles, or just admiring men I see on the street, I am finding lots of guys who don't fit the above criteria, yet who are extremely attractive to me. Openness, kindness, intelligence - thats what works for this dirty old man!

[TruHart1]

Over five years ago when I hired my very first escort, @AresEscortNYC, I kept apologizing to him during that appointment: for my being overweight, for not being a handsome, sexy man, for being quite a bit older than he, for gagging on his thick endowment, for being afraid to bottom for him, etc., etc. He simply went about his business of making me feel not only special, but desirable, something that I never expected from a man as beautiful as he is!

 

Then, after our session was completed and before we started cleaning up, he sat on the edge of his bed, patting the space next to him for me to sit down beside him, put his arms around me and gave me a lecture on how to be a good client. (I think I had admitted that this was my first time hiring an escort!) He told me to never apologize for anything to do with my sexual abilities or my poor body image. He proceeded to point out specifically a number of my physical attributes he found to be a real turn-on for him sexually. I never doubted his sincerity in these statements because I could just tell he was being completely open and honest with me.

 

He went on to tell me that many, many men would find aspects of me attractive and for me to put myself down with apologies and/or excuses was a waste of my breath. We then cleaned up, he accompanied me out of his apartment, kissed me both tenderly and sensuously, told me his name and said he'd love to see me again, next time I visited NYC. I left him, walking on a cloud, feeling so happy, and yes, confident! @AresEscortNYC opened my eyes to the positive viewpoint and confidence I gained not only from that first time with him, but every great future encounter I experienced with each of the fine, excellent escorts I hired after my first!

 

TruHart1

[Mount N Do]

Dude, I'm not sure if you have a serious self-esteem issue or have a rich sense of humor. Either way, you hawt kid!

Let me rephrase this. Not sure if you have self-esteem issues, but I know for sure you have a rich sense of humor. Take a bow, dude. That's special.

[Mo Mason]

Thank you. I try to use self-deprecating humor to make myself feel better. My previous comments are about myself only... I really didn't mean to say that escorts feel disgusted by anyone on this forum. Just me.

[+ purplekow]

Thank you. I try to use self-demeaning humor to make myself feel better. My previous comments are about myself only... I really didn't mean to say that escorts feel disgusted by anyone on this forum. Just me.

Well you may or may not be disgusting, but self loathing individuals suck the life out of all situations no matter their appearance.

Give yourself a break and give the people with whom you interact a break, present yourself as interested in the people to whom you are interacting. Smile. Pay attention. Think about them when you are speaking with them. Look at them and show interest. You can make yourself attractive without changing your appearance.

Let's face it, if people only had sex with people they found attractive, no one would stay until closing time.