"Am I your type?" "What kinda guy you usually like?"

[Spencer L]

So how to answer questions like that without hurt client's feelings?

[escortrod]

"I don't have an exact type. For me it's more about connection than physical attributes." Sounds like BS, but in my case it's true.

[big-n-tall]

Smile, then either kiss them deeply or put your dick in their mouth.

 

Just say you like a variety or various aspects of men turn you on.

[Mo Mason]

Hurt the feelings. "You're disgusting and you know it. I just threw up in my mouth and swallowed it, but I suppose I can pretend because I really need money to pay the rent this month."

 

That's what I imagine my escorts are thinking, anyway. And in my case ... I'm sure it's true.

[Bearofdistinction]

Hurt the feelings. "You're disgusting and you know it. I just threw up in my mouth and swallowed it, but I suppose I can pretend because I really need money to pay the rent this month."

 

That's what I imagine my escorts are thinking, anyway. And in my case ... I'm sure it's true.

 

Hi Mo -- Please do not put yourself down like you just did. There are so many people in the world who get joy from doing so to any one who is different or does not live up to there expectations.

 

I assure you that I am not an Adonis - but I have met some lovely men some professional gentleman and other s not, who just liked me for my humor, and who knows what else --- then they loved the way I swallowed their cocks - rimmed their asses and worked their nipples among many other things. The professional gentlemen also liked the way I treated them - with respect,

and as welcome guests in my home - and they treated me similarly outside the scope of play!

 

Open yourself up to love and lust - and never put yourself down! It takes much more emotional energy to focus on the negative rather than the positive! Wishing you

 

Peace-Love-Happiness and a Really Good Corned Beef Sandwich!

[Mo Mason]

Thanks.

 

But just because you're funny and can suck and rim in a pleasing manner doesn't mean that your escorts like you.

 

They most likely think we're GROSS while we're doing this, man.

[escortrod]

Thanks.

 

But just because you're funny and can suck and rim in a pleasing manner doesn't mean that your escorts like you.

 

They most likely think we're GROSS while we're doing this, man.

I can't speak for other escorts, but unless you have poor personal hygiene that's not a thought I'm likely to have.

[Mo Mason]

You're probably not like other escorts then.

 

You're too kind.

[Mo Mason]

Honesty is the best policy.

 

"Am I your type?" ... Not at all.

 

"What kind of guy do you usually like?" ... Your polar opposite usually works for me.

[Bearofdistinction]

Thanks.

 

But just because you're funny and can suck and rim in a pleasing manner doesn't mean that your escorts like you.

 

They most likely think we're GROSS while we're doing this, man.

 

Then Cudos for great performances worthy of a TONY award.

 

In an earlier thread about Can Clients and Professional Gentlemen be friends -- I happily replied in the affirmative.

 

I am fortunate to be friends outside of the bedroom with two lovely professional gentlemen with whom I chat

 

regularly, have mentored in business and who have shopped, cooked and visited me when I was ill. One has been

 

a guest at dinner parties and happy hour meetings that I have organized as a friend - knows and likes many of my friends

 

with no meter running . . .

 

They are nice people who share themselves with and care for others -- there are people who get satisfaction from bringing

 

happiness to other people. And I would suspect that if you put out the negative vibes at a session then that is what you will

 

perceive in return.

 

To Paraphrase Bill Clinton -- When one person is talking about all of the bad and the other person is talking about

 

the Hope for Greatness in the near future -- THEN ALWAYS CHOOSE HOPE!

[Mo Mason]

I'm happy for you. Honestly. I'm envious. I lack your self confidence, esteem, and image. I'm a horribly negative person and I always have been, I can't help it. I'm quite sure you'll never interact with another human being with less self-confidence than I have. For me, it's zero. You seem to like yourself quite a bit and that positivity is admirable. But me...

 

I've always hated myself. I try to be funny to make up for it, but I'm rarely successful.

 

I'm a dead, empty soul amongst all of you happy folks... take nothing I say in this forum seriously.

[jawjateck]

"You baby, I'm hot for you!"

[+ poolboy48220]

I think someone posted this question before, and someone else posted "I like guys who pay me". Still laughing about that one.

[Spencer L]

Don't argue over this guys, Thanks for all the experienced answers

[Rudynate]

"You baby, I'm hot for you!"

 

The only appropriate answer.

[+ Eric Hassan]

So how to answer questions like that without hurt client's feelings?

 

These kinds of questions seem, to me, to be a version of "Is my body acceptable to you?" and just reduces attraction to how well someone might fit into BS beauty standards. It leaves no room for personality and soul. It's like a doctor expecting to be evaluated on how well she pulls off a white lab coat.

 

I respond to these questions by redirecting the thinking behind the question. I tell people that I feel attracted to a combination of body, personality, energy, passions, communication style, etc. If I were to constantly evaluate people based on what I thought of their body, I would miss out on the richness of each person that extends beyond the body. I also wouldn't be a very fun companion.

[Mydavid]

These kinds of questions seem, to me, to be a version of "Is my body acceptable to you?" and just reduces attraction to how well someone might fit into BS beauty standards. It leaves no room for personality and soul. It's like a doctor expecting to be evaluated on how well she pulls off a white lab coat.

 

I respond to these questions by redirecting the thinking behind the question. I tell people that I feel attracted to a combination of body, personality, energy, passions, communication style, etc. If I were to constantly evaluate people based on what I thought of their body, I would miss out on the richness of each person that extends beyond the body. I also wouldn't be a very fun companion.

 

Great answer!

 

And I will definitely go to you when having a chance.

[mike carey]

I respond to these questions by redirecting the thinking behind the question. I tell people that I feel attracted to a combination of body, personality, energy, passions, communication style, etc. If I were to constantly evaluate people based on what I thought of their body, I would miss out on the richness of each person that extends beyond the body. I also wouldn't be a very fun companion.

I also think about people on more than their appearance (I was going to say 'judge them' but that carries a different connotation), although from the client's side of the fence. What personality do they project, do they interact nicely, if I have contacted them what is that like. I have interacted with a number of people on here, almost all positively, and that is important to me. I realise there is a danger that I will read more into the interactions than is actually there, and hope that I can spot when I am about to do that. I'd like to think that if I overstep I'll be able to back away gracefully.

[Mydavid]

I always admire the escorts who can deal with all kinds of clients. I know I cannot. I cannot have sex with some guys no matter how excellent they are on other aspects. I can become friends with them, I can do other things with them, I can like them very much, but no sex, I will definitely ED.

[Mydavid]

I always admire the escorts who can deal with all kinds of clients. I know I cannot. I cannot have sex with some guys no matter how excellent they are on other aspects. I can become friends with them, I can do other things with them, I can like them very much, but no sex, I will definitely ED.

 

That's why I always tell the escorts some information about myself before I go to them. I wouldn't like to bring trouble to anyone. You know, there is a saying, nobody wants to fuck your inside beauty.

[Mount N Do]

Honesty is the best policy.

 

"Am I your type?" ... Not at all.

 

"What kind of guy do you usually like?" ... Your polar opposite usually works for me.

Dude, I'm not sure if you have a serious self-esteem issue or have a rich sense of humor. Either way, you hawt kid!

[evensteven]

You know, there is a saying, nobody wants to fuck your inside beauty

 

I hired a guy once who was not really my “type” from a purely physical perspective. While I did not find him unattractive (and he did have great eyes and great abs), I would not have hired him based on his pictures. Instead, what I was really attracted to was actually his intelligence and witty personality, based on his posts on this forum. It ended up being a perfectly enjoyable experience. I guess my point is that attraction can be more complex than a simple matter of superficial appearance. “Inside beauty” can count for a lot.

[Spencer L]

These kinds of questions seem, to me, to be a version of "Is my body acceptable to you?" and just reduces attraction to how well someone might fit into BS beauty standards. It leaves no room for personality and soul. It's like a doctor expecting to be evaluated on how well she pulls off a white lab coat.

 

I respond to these questions by redirecting the thinking behind the question. I tell people that I feel attracted to a combination of body, personality, energy, passions, communication style, etc. If I were to constantly evaluate people based on what I thought of their body, I would miss out on the richness of each person that extends beyond the body. I also wouldn't be a very fun companion.

 

I do appreciate your answer it's really helpful

 

But your clients hire you or you are exchanging your time for inner beauty?

[+ Eric Hassan]

I do appreciate your answer it's really helpful

 

But your clients hire you or you are exchanging your time for inner beauty?

 

I exchange my time for money.

Inner beauty is the thing I look for along the way.

[+ glennnn]

I also think about people on more than their appearance (I was going to say 'judge them' but that carries a different connotation), although from the client's side of the fence. What personality do they project, do they interact nicely, if I have contacted them what is that like. I have interacted with a number of people on here, almost all positively, and that is important to me. I realise there is a danger that I will read more into the interactions than is actually there, and hope that I can spot when I am about to do that. I'd like to think that if I overstep I'll be able to back away gracefully.

 

 

Should the opportunity to meet and talk with you, my fav Aussie, ever arise, you won't have to back away awkwardly or gracefully from me. Just be you, like you always are- smart, honest and kind. You are a real mensch and a gentleman. I trust our occasional interactions are among the positive ones for you; they are for me.!