What are the percentage of the sessions that you are really interested in having sex with clients?

[Mydavid]

When you work, you inevitably meet some clients you wouldn't like to have sex with.

Even with a client you like, sometimes you might not want to because you are tired, you are in no mood, or whatever.

 

So what are the percentage of the sessions that you are really interested in having sex with clients?

 

Finding the escort is into having sex with me is really a turn-on for me, but I'm not sure if they just pretend to be.

 

I once read a review about a masseur, he kind of "raped" his client by fucking him when he said "no". I guess he was really interested in sex with that client.

 

Even some escorts state they love their job. I still think the percentage is not high.

[LADoug1]

No escort in his right mind would answer this question.

[Mydavid]

No escort in his right mind would answer this question.

Okay. That's fine.

[Mydavid]

I'm not talking if the clients are attractive to the escorts.

I'm just curious if the escorts have desire to have sex or just force themselves to make it.

[+ Lance_Navarro]

I love making people happy and seeing that look in their eyes when when we are connected in the most intimate way possible, being inside one another. For this reason I almost always want to have sex with my clients. The only rare exception is when I'm concerned that they may not be properly prepared (for bottoming), but I still give it a go and hope for the best.

 

If one doesn't have the energy, they shouldn't be taking the appointment, and if one allows a clients physical characteristics to dictate what they are open to in a session, they should possibly rethink doing sex work.

[+ Keith30309]

I love making people happy and seeing that look in their eyes when when we are connected in the most intimate way possible, being inside one another. For this reason I almost always want to have sex with my clients. The only rare exception is when I'm concerned that they may not be properly prepared (for bottoming), but I still give it a go and hope for the best.

 

If one doesn't have the energy, they shouldn't be taking the appointment, and if one allows a clients physical characteristics to dictate what they are open to in a session, they should possibly rethink doing sex work.

The perfect answer from one of the sweetest and most professional guys out there.

[+ poolboy48220]

No escort in his right mind would answer this question.

Agreed. This is akin to the stereotypical situation where your boss asks "Do you LIKE working here, Smithers?"

[escortrod]

I can only echo Lance. I can enjoy sex with pretty much anybody so long as there is a 'connection'. Thankfully that is what most of my clients are looking for too, so in the vast majority of cases I am genuinely interested.

 

The exceptions for me are those guys who see me as a piece of meat, and consequently overstep boundaries. That's only happened once in the last year, with a very physically attractive client.

[Mocha]

So what are the percentage of the sessions that you are really interested in having sex with clients?

 

No escort in his right mind would answer this question.

 

I can answer that question. But I don't think some things can be measured in percentages and odds. I will say this: I've followed up having sex with 100% of the guys I've planned with this year. Which explains why I have 100% rating on men4rent

[+ Lance_Navarro]

No escort in his right mind would answer this question.

 

I must be out of my mind then

[LookingAround]

I must be out of my mind then

 

They may answer but no post will contain the truth lol. You're gonna get some rosy story about how they love to make people happy all the time haha. Disneyland!

[Mydavid]

The perfect answer from one of the sweetest and most professional guys out there.

Yes, it is a perfect answer.

But it says that he likes to have sex with the clients because he wants to make the clients happy.

What I would like to know is how often they want to make themselves happy. You are happy, so I am happy, it's not the answer what I want.

[escortrod]

Yes, it is a perfect answer.

But it says that he likes to have sex with the clients because he wants to make the clients happy.

What I would like to know is how often they want to make themselves happy. You are happy, so I am happy, it's not the answer what I want.

That's how some of our brains work, though. I don't find sex fulfilling unless the other person has experienced pleasure. Therefore in order to make myself happy, I have to make another happy.

[+ Lance_Navarro]

Yes, it is a perfect answer.

But it says that he likes to have sex with the clients because he wants to make the clients happy.

What I would like to know is how often they want to make themselves happy. You are happy, so I am happy, it's not the answer what I want.

 

I'm confused then as to what answer you want. I love what I do and I love having sex. I enjoy the physical act and how it makes me feel as well as how it makes my client feel. If all I was concerned about was my own pleasure, that would make me a selfish lover, so yes, a big part of my enjoyment is the enjoyment of my partner. I think most of us are like that.

[beachboy]

Lets face it, as clients we usually know when an escort is enjoying the sex. Also many of us have the same mind set i.e. we don't enjoy it so much if he isn't. Don't we want to feel that we gave the hot escort of our choice a good time too? The best guys really invest in the experience & everyone cums out a winner

[+ Eric Hassan]

When you work, you inevitably meet some clients you wouldn't like to have sex with.

Even with a client you like, sometimes you might not want to because you are tired, you are in no mood, or whatever.

 

So what are the percentage of the sessions that you are really interested in having sex with clients?

 

Finding the escort is into having sex with me is really a turn-on for me, but I'm not sure if they just pretend to be.

 

I once read a review about a masseur, he kind of "raped" his client by fucking him when he said "no". I guess he was really interested in sex with that client.

 

Even some escorts state they love their job. I still think the percentage is not high.

 

What are you hoping to learn by asking this question?

[Courage]

t's not the answer what I want.

A lawyer's own witness often won't give the answer he *wants*. I've been there.

 

Where people doing a *job* that involves pleasing people have answered that they want to do their *job* well, you can fairly infer that they view it as a job and don't wish to insult their clientele by answering the question as you want them to.

[Mydavid]

That's how some of our brains work, though. I don't find sex fulfilling unless the other person has experienced pleasure. Therefore in order to make myself happy, I have to make another happy.

 

I'm confused then as to what answer you want. I love what I do and I love having sex. I enjoy the physical act and how it makes me feel as well as how it makes my client feel. If all I was concerned about was my own pleasure, that would make me a selfish lover, so yes, a big part of my enjoyment is the enjoyment of my partner. I think most of us are like that.

 

Yes, I totally understand what you said.

 

I just want to know what's your starting point.

1. Having sex will make my clients happy, and I will be happy too.

2. Having sex will make me happy, and making my clients happy makes me happier.

 

I cannot express myself clearly since English is not my first language, Please forgive me.

[Mydavid]

What are you hoping to learn by asking this question?

 

I have met an escort for a few times. Even if he said he enjoyed it every time, but I feel sometimes he didn't. It's understandable, everyone has the experiences that we fulfilled a task even if we were not interested in it. I would like to know if escorts have more this kind of experiences and in this way it means their job is harder to achieve than other jobs.

 

The escort job is not easy. I do hope they can enjoy it as much as I do.

[Courage]

I would like to know if escorts have more this kind of experiences and in this way it means their job is harder to achieve than other jobs.

 

Respectfully, I think your question has been answered as professionals would answer it before a public audience.

[YoungAD]

I can answer that question. But I don't think some things can be measured in percentages and odds. I will say this: I've followed up having sex with 100% of the guys I've planned with this year. Which explains why I have 100% rating on men4rent

 

What does this even mean?

[escortrod]

What does this even mean?

I think it means that he hasn't backed out of appointments he has accepted this year.

[YoungAD]

Thank you for the clarification.

[Mocha]

I think it means that he hasn't backed out of appointments he has accepted this year.

 

Thankyou. Thanks for having my back this time. I'm sure you're a really nice guy. Not to ingratiate the matter..

[+ Lance_Navarro]

Yes, I totally understand what you said.

 

I just want to know what's your starting point.

1. Having sex will make my clients happy, and I will be happy too.

2. Having sex will make me happy, and making my clients happy makes me happier.

 

I cannot express myself clearly since English is not my first language, Please forgive me.

 

I really can't answer your question again without this turning into a therapy session. I feel that my responsibility when I'm with a client is to anticipate and fulfill there needs and wants, by definition, to me that means putting them and their happiness first. It's a mistake for a client to think that the escort should feel the same way about them that they feel about the escort, which is not to say their shouldn't be mutual enjoyment, but just not "the same".

 

If your experience with this escort was that he wasn't enjoying himself at all, than you should consider not seeing him. If it was just that he wasn't enjoying himself as much as you were, than, respectfully, I feel that's your own insecurity. What I would ask you is what goes through your head during these times that you're with him that make you think he's not enjoying himself?

 

I feel this discussion parallels what I think of as the "69 conundrum". Many like the idea of the 69 position because it's giving and receiving at the same time. While it can be fun for a bit, I much more prefer taking turns at giving and receiving, giving each person permission to say to themselves "I am worthy of receiving in this moment, I can reciprocate later". Perhaps you just need to be tied down sometime!