Post Appointment Escort Communication

[NYCgymfit]

Thanks guys for the advice... This forum is terrific... I went back over the texts - particularly the last one about how hurt he is - and I think I'm going to text back and say "Hey ________, I appreciate your feelings but I don't think we are looking for the same things as client/escort. Wish you the best."

 

He is a nice guy. But at the end of the day, his "marketing strategy" - doesn't feel genuine - and sort of reeks of manipulation. That being said - I get it... and maybe for some clients it makes them feel special.

 

It makes me feel stalked LOL.

 

Anyway, thanks for chiming in. I'm trying to navigate the escort/client space with as much humanity (and horny awesome sex) as possible.

[+ pitman]

I would LOVE those kinds of requests!

And Eric, I would LOVE to be "on call" for you if we were in the same city!

[jonnychgo]

If it's an out of town escort and we've had a good time, I appreciate getting a text when he is coming to town and asking if I would like to meet up. I once hired a local guy and told him (he lives in the burbs and me in the city) that when he is in the hood to let me know. Many months later, I hired him again and mentioned not hearing from him. He said he never initiates as he feels it is bothering the client. But he is local, so I guess I understand. So out of towns escorts, if we've communicated after meeting and had a good time, please hit me up with text or email when back in town. May not be able to meet, but I would like to opportunity.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

It's one thing to quickly, genuinely thank someone for their time. It's quite another to spam someone and then try to turn it around on them.

 

If a client wants to see you again, an escort won't have to dial for dollars.

[Mount N Do]

A similar thing happend to me with an escort I actually liked and would have maintained a regular relationship with. He was about 25 yrs my junior, sexy, hot and just the complete package. On our second meeting, he shared much of his personal information, real name, other business adventures and even gave me his "non-business" phone number. We had some real chemistry and the sex was on another level. After about our fourth meeting, about six weeks time at this point, he began to text me with similar questions as the OP experienced, without the drama. "When am I going to see you" etc... these were unsolicited and I needed to remind him that I couldn't be surprised with unexpected texts, and he knew that discretion was paramount for me. I saw him again, cause it was mutually enjoyable, but after our last meeting he texted me hours later with a loan request cause he was short on his rent funds. It was clear to me at that point, that he was laying the ground work to be my boy toy. Cut him off immediately, but damn I miss that cock! Oh and, he no longer advertises. I suppose he found his sugar daddy.

[+ BigRic]

A wise, more experienced escort once told me, "Don't chase clients."

[RandyC]

Someone I recently saw asked if it was all right if he texted me from time to time and I said yes. He is in another city so there is no pressure. It is very nice getting a dirty/flirty text at random intervals and makes me want to see him even more the next time he comes into town...