So what's in a massage?

[Mount N Do]

Serious question. I've never hired but recently searched. Noticed many guys who advertise as escorts as well and seen some who no longer advertise as escorts but once did. Are these performed in the nude? Do most of them upsell to escort services? Is it cool to ask them before one books an appointment? This guy here is of particular interest. https://www.masseurfinder.com/mobile/listings/view/hawaiianmassage/

He doesn't strike me as one that engages in anything other than an actual massage. Any info?

[Dmitri]

This question has been asked many times on this forum.....I can't find the threads right now but can someone else help and post some threads to answer this question?.....I have been to the guy you mentioned in your post......he is very hot in person and we had chemistry......we played around a bit and he provided a HE......now he might not do that with everyone....I just lucked out!

[+ beethoven]

YES, IT IS COOL TO ASK IN ADVANCE!! You're spending about $140-$180, and you're entitled to know what you're getting for your money. You can ask politely, as I do, are we both naked, is there lots of body contact, is mutual touching and caressing encouraged, do you pay attention to sensitive areas? (And I'm specific about these areas.)

I usually e-mail something like, "If we're on the same page, let me know, and I look forward to seeing you."

 

I see nothing wrong at all with this approach, and if that offends the masseur, then my inquiry paid off for me.

If we're on the same page, BINGO!

[MikeBiDude]

Serious question. I've never hired but recently searched. Noticed many guys who advertise as escorts as well and seen some who no longer advertise as escorts but once did. Are these performed in the nude? Do most of them upsell to escort services? Is it cool to ask them before one books an appointment? This guy here is of particular interest. https://www.masseurfinder.com/mobile/listings/view/hawaiianmassage/

He doesn't strike me as one that engages in anything other than an actual massage. Any info?

I tend to ask specifically "are we both nude for the massage". I pass on "no" or "yes for extra $". Regarding the level or sensual/erotic, frankly I just wait and see what happens. Of course follow reviews here, bit I'm patient.

 

Also, for chemistry/moment whatever the feeling, the adage "your mileage may vary" is never truer than pursuing sensual/erotic massage. And that cuts both ways - I've received none of the extras some clients crow about, and I've had other discreet masseurs go FAR above the call of duty.