What Should Escorts Avoid?

[Mydavid]

I just saw a post "What Should Clients Avoid?". I wonder what escorts should avoid.

In other words, what do clients dislike?

[+ oldNbusted]

I had a massage recently and it was the first time meeting, so there was some getting to know you type conversation, which of course is fine, but I think in an effort to gauge how much physical contact I have with other people, he asked if I was partnered. I didn't think anything of it at the time, and just said no, since that is the case, but what if I had been and didn't want to discuss it?

[Mydavid]

I can list some I don't like, which I have experienced.

 

1. Be late, and don't tell me or tell me at the last minute.

2. Push me away when I still had some time to kill.

3. Told me something about other clients, I doubt he might tell other people about me too.

4. Ask for deposit, ask payment before service.

[Bearofdistinction]

I just saw a post "What Should Clients Avoid?". I wonder what escorts should avoid.

In other words, what do clients dislike?

 

Escorts should not assume what your politics or religion or ethnicity or thoughts on racial issues etc.

I hired a CMT for a Combination Swedish and Sports massage at my home -- he brought a table - then asked me for a sheet --

I had lit the fireplace - adjusted the lights put the music on low -- and he started talking politics/assumed my ethnicity was something else and

continued to make derogatory comments -- even after I told him that I prefer a quiet relaxing time.

 

After the message he made several additional inappropriate comments -- I dressed quickly and escorted him out of my house as he asked if

I wanted to schedule a follow-up session --- "NO!" as I closed and locked the door -- and went to take a shower to wash the bigotry off of me!

[Mocha]

Repeat offenders (John 1 flaked once, then calls a few months later.)

Not providing the services rendered

Druggies (either make really good or really bad clients)

Indianapolis

Seedy motels (Except if you're in Palm Springs)

Beer

Jalapeños

Habaneros

Sketchy guys

 

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[Zman]

Fishing for information on how much money the client has, "So where do you live? In a house?" etc.

 

This doesn't just apply to escorts of course. In LA, everybody wants to size you up by your living arrangements.

[Despardo]

I had a massage recently and it was the first time meeting, so there was some getting to know you type conversation, which of course is fine, but I think in an effort to gauge how much physical contact I have with other people, he asked if I was partnered. I didn't think anything of it at the time, and just said no, since that is the case, but what if I had been and didn't want to discuss it?

Then you lie.

[Despardo]

Fishing for information on how much money the client has, "So where do you live? In a house?" etc.

 

This doesn't just apply to escorts of course. In LA, everybody wants to size you up by your living arrangements.

Or the car you drive.

[Despardo]

Running late without calling.

Spending part of the session on the phone.

Not remembering what we discussed and planned beforehand. (If you don't remember review your texts or emails.)

[Mocha]

Fishing for information on how much money the client has, "So where do you live? In a house?" etc.

 

This doesn't just apply to escorts of course. In America, everybody wants to size you up by your living arrangements.

 

Fixed. Ever seen my lottery dream home and MTV cribs? I mean...how can we not all be obsessed and feel suicidal for not having a McMansion lol.

[evensteven]

Spending part of the session on the phone.

 

I don’t think this can be emphasized enough. And I don’t mean just talking on the phone or reading/responding to texts. I was with a guy recently where the phone rang a couple of times, and he felt he was being sufficiently polite by not answering it. Maybe it’s just me, but I can’t ignore all the ringing and beeping and buzzing and vibrating and find it really distracting. So my advice would be to just turn it completely off. It is not essential to be “connected” every hour of every day. Of course, I recognize this is a generational thing and some younger people feel it’s just as rude to ask them to completely “disconnect” as I think it’s rude for them be constantly interacting with their phone. But if they want more regular customers, they should defer to their clients’ wishes on this one.

[Kevin Slater]

What Should Escorts Avoid?

 

My corner, bitches.

 

Kevin Slater

[Mocha]

What Should Escorts Avoid?

 

My corner, bitches.

 

Kevin Slater

 

Dayum...

 

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Add Nashville to the list. Don't make the mistake of moving here. My existence as an escort has suffered greatly because of it. The 5 years I was in Denver was much better in the first 2-4 years than my 1st year here. I'm not even doing half the things I was doing. In any given diverse region Hispanish clients make up nearly about 1/2 of my clients. Non here. Bad move on my part but it was a necessary option at the time.

[LivingnLA]

Or the car you drive.

 

So very true in SoCal! I'm the height of embarrassment for my kids because I don't drive a "dope" car. Yes, I can afford a stupidly expense car, but they go from point A to point B just like a vastly less expensive car and the money saved can be put to work making more money. It drives them up a wall that I drive a "cheap" car. Thank goddess my wife and I agree, I feel so badly for some of my friends with wives who want the latest and greatest every couple years. Such a stupid waste of money.

[Bearofdistinction]

Dayum...

 

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Add Nashville to the list. Don't make the mistake of moving here. My existence as an escort has suffered greatly because of it. The 5 years I was in Denver was much better in the first 2-4 years than my 1st year here. I'm not even doing half the things I was doing. In any given diverse region Hispanish clients make up nearly about 1/2 of my clients. Non here. Bad move on my part but it was a necessary option at the time.

 

It has been years since I was in Nashville -- but I spent 3-4 hot fun months there for a job assignment. I stayed at the Hotel

Right off of Vanderbilts' campus on a major street into the heart of town not far the the replica of the Parthaenon.

 

I found out quickly that there is a reason for the old saying that VANDI Boys are CANDY Boys!

The Bars were more layback than I was used to but being fresh meat in town - people were Oh So friendly!

 

I even choose to partake of some of the local pool of Professional Gentlemen and was equally as pleased with them as with the Candy Boys who just needed a lil sugar from a Daddy - drinks dinner a late naked dip in the hotel hot tub a big breakfast - something to help with a college education and Yeaaaaahhh Hah!!!!!! Those pants came undone just about everywhere we went!

(Just give the gay night auditor/desk clerk a $20 and a chance for sloppy seconds when he got off work at 7am - and the hotel was pretty much at my disposal.)

 

Now this was at least 10 years ago -- And I had a blast - Plus Nashville has great music -- Not just Country -- Jazz - Blues - Rock - and of course the Country Music Museum complete with Patsy Klines' Confederate Flag Zippo Lighter - the only thing that survived the crash! CHARRRRLIIIEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Mocha]

So very true in SoCal! I'm the height of embarrassment for my kids because I don't drive a "dope" car. Yes, I can afford a stupidly expense car, but they go from point A to point B just like a vastly less expensive car and the money saved can be put to work making more money. It drives them up a wall that I drive a "cheap" car. Thank goddess my wife and I agree, I feel so badly for some of my friends with wives who want the latest and greatest every couple years. Such a stupid waste of money.

 

I always feel one can simply rent a car if they want the latest and greatest. I'll occasionally take the 3 hour round trip to the airport, rent a luxury car for a couple weeks and go out of town...and have neighbors looking at me like how can I was suddenly able to afford a $40,000 car. Just a rental bitches.

[Mocha]

It has been years since I was in Nashville -- but I spent 3-4 hot fun months there for a job assignment.

 

Now this was at least 10 years ago -- And I had a blast - Plus Nashville has great music -- Not just Country -- Jazz - Blues - Rock - and of course the Country Music Museum complete with Patsy Klines' Confederate Flag Zippo Lighter - the only thing that survived the crash! CHARRRRLIIIEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Thanks for reiterating that it was atleast 10 years ago. Idk how things were then, but could have very well been much different. Great that you had a great time, but here for work for 3-4 months doesn't qualify as residency lol. And downtown where the music is, is just a small portion of NashVegas sin city and once you see it, that's it...but beyond that it's pretty nonexistent.

 

I've done what I can to have a good time here and hooked up with some groups here and there. It hasn't been all bad and yeah there's some fun to be had. But it comes at a price. Drinks here are expensive and the gay scene is repetitive and cliquey as fuck. So sick of the same mother fuckers hitting me up when I come back, and the guys who are hot here are so stuck up on their ass that it's hard to make any friends here.

 

There's no escorts here, no "official ones". So no support there. And even when a good streak comes about, there's no overnights or extended hour clients. I have never even lived in a place where I've gone a whole year straight and not gotten any overnight or evenings. Wait all week for an appointment, just to get a 1 hour visit. Then nothing again for days and weeks. That's just unreal. I'm making immediate concessions to expedite a departure out of here next month.

[escortrod]

...the guys who are hot here are so stuck up on their ass that it's hard to make any friends here.

I suppose you could be friends with people you don't find hot...

[kewtex]

I suppose you could be friends with people you don't find hot...

 

Maybe you could…

[+ Oaktown]

I can list some I don't like, which I have experienced.

3. Told me something about other clients, I doubt he might tell other people about me too.

 

There is a disgraced escort who posts gossip about clients on his blog!

[Xavitv]

I suppose you could be friends with people you don't find hot...

 

that's like saying radio people can do tv/movies too

[Mydavid]

There is a disgraced escort who posts gossip about clients on his blog!

That's terrible! not professional at all!

[Larstrup]

Repeat offenders (John 1 flaked once, then calls a few months later.)

 

But when he called again, if he was John 15 ...is that OK?

[AlanDC]

I can list some I don't like, which I have experienced.

 

1. Be late, and don't tell me or tell me at the last minute.

2. Push me away when I still had some time to kill.

3. Told me something about other clients, I doubt he might tell other people about me too.

4. Ask for deposit, ask payment before service.

 

I have been asked by Clients about my experience with other clients. I never say anything bad about a client but I do talk about some things. I never give out a Clients personal information and I never go to deep in detail of my sessions. But I respect all my clients and only talk about past experiences if I know I'm for sure going to meet someone. And only time I would say asking for a deposit is if the escort has to come out of pocket beforehand such as traveling. For example I live in Atlanta Georgia and I was contacted by a client in Nashville Tennessee, wanted to book a 4hr sessions in cases like this I would ask for a deposit just for traveling expenses and my time in case they back out at the last minute.

[Mydavid]

I have been asked by Clients about my experience with other clients. I never say anything bad about a client but I do talk about some things. I never give out a Clients personal information and I never go to deep in detail of my sessions. But I respect all my clients and only talk about past experiences if I know I'm for sure going to meet someone. And only time I would say asking for a deposit is if the escort has to come out of pocket beforehand such as traveling. For example I live in Atlanta Georgia and I was contacted by a client in Nashville Tennessee, wanted to book a 4hr sessions in cases like this I would ask for a deposit just for traveling expenses and my time in case they back out at the last minute.

What you said is acceptable, but one of escorts I met ask for deposit before giving me his address because he was afraid that I mightn't show up.