Does size matter?

[DMICS]

I don't bottom and love oral so it's very important to me. If I'm not attracted to the guy or he has a bad attitude I'll pass.

 

I've played with guys that weren't hung, but they were really good looking. Usually when I'm looking for someone the main 3 things I'm searching for is dick size, looks, clean status.

[robberbaron4u]

Only if the lad knows how to make the highest and best use of his "MasterPiece"; otherwise, the thing is merely a decorative accessory. . .

[steed8]

I find for most guys it matters to some extent. I'm about 7" and not too thick. Bigger than most guys I've met, but certainly not in the monster category. I have found it's quite a good size. It's enough for most guys, but not too intimidating for inexperienced bottoms. Goldilocks would love it.

 

 

Yes, very nice in all of your aspects!

Plus, I notice that you have that extra bit of skin down there; something that I appreciate to the Max!

[adventurous old guy]

It is sounds weird to me when someone says it does not matter. I would understand if you instead say it is not the more important feature, but I cannot see how it could not matter. Everything matters, and features compensate each other. I can go with a small dick, just because a lover is so much more than a dick. But it does matter.

Just weighing in to reinforce that there are some for whom equipment size really doesn't matter. I can honestly say its not a factor to me at all. I'm apparently hard-wired as a top, so perhaps that's why. More interested in having my own equipment appreciated than focusing on that attribute of guys I meet -- so maybe its narcissism LOL?

 

In any case top 5 priority things I look for are 1) overall attractiveness/fitness, 2) someone who is comfortable and enjoys the bottom bunk, 3) interactiveness in words or body language, 4) openness to kissing, 5) age -- I prefer over 30 to under.

[TruthBTold]

It's funny. Everyone assumed the "size" was just about cock size. For me, the first thing to consider is the size of the butt, it's curvature and how big. There are some that are just right for rimming and fucking. I suppose it is different for everyone who tops. As far as bottoming, I am definitely a moderate kind of guy. It (a cock) can't be too small, however, there are not that many that can be too small. But there are definitely some that can be too large. Pain is not orgasmic in my book.

[adventurous old guy]

It's funny. Everyone assumed the "size" was just about cock size. For me, the first thing to consider is the size of the butt, it's curvature and how big. There are some that are just right for rimming and fucking. I suppose it is different for everyone who tops. As far as bottoming, I am definitely a moderate kind of guy. It can't be too small, however, there are not that many that can be too small. But there are definitely some that can be too large. Pain is not orgasmic in my book.

Ding ding ding. Hadn't framed the size issue this way, but size in the rear definitely catches my eye in ads.

[sexymonk]

I think, it is not the size that matters! What matters is the performance, thrust during action! I had asked few bottoms and they mentioned that once their asset is loosened up, there is no feeling of size unless they get hitted in their intestine and abdomen wall from inside ( now this is medically bet unsound sensation and comes with haemmorhoids as a bonus eventually !!!). A handsome face with average package packed with action is far more pleasing than a donkey tool hanging on a ugly face ! The porn industry and drug industry have hijacked the mind of people in making them to think that size matters!!!

[LaffingBear]

It is sounds weird to me when someone says it does not matter. I would understand if you instead say it is not the more important feature, but I cannot see how it could not matter. Everything matters, and features compensate each other. I can go with a small dick, just because a lover is so much more than a dick. But it does matter.

Im reading through a post

https://m4m-forum.org/threads/whats-a-big-cock-to-you.125427/page-2#post-1302825

And it made wonder "what is small to you?" And does it matter?

So, a search found this thread.

 

Size matters to me, but its not a top priority.

 

The only time someone was too small was not the for-hire world. I was interested in a guy. My type, great ass. Im a big hairy guy, he was into bears. He would say he was a top, loved screwing bears, etc.

 

We got drunk in a bar once and started making out in a corner. My hands went down his pants and encountered a teeny hardon. I never saw it, but it was rock hard and not really enough for three fingers. I'd guestimate the same girth as the cheap grocery 10-pack weiners.

 

Im not inclined to judge, and wouldnt ridicule. Except.... boasting he loves topping bears? That thing wasnt getting past the sizeable butt cheeks of most of the bears I know.

[MassageDrew]

I think size does matter, although I think it has a lot more to do with the visual effects of it. It's amazing to me to be staring at that big cock I almost want to thank the Academy for the award. But, it's either you cannot wait to taste/ride it or you're intimidated by it. It's typically the latter for me.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I think size does matter, although I think it has a lot more to do with the visual effects of it. It's amazing to me to be staring at that big cock I almost want to thank the Academy for the award. But, it's either you cannot wait to taste/ride it or you're intimidated by it. It's typically the latter for me.

 

Not in my case. The visual effect has some relevancy, but it is mostly how I feel it in my mouth and my hand:

 

1. If it does not trigger the gag reflex, it is not big enough

2. If it feels like a lolly pop, if I do not feel my mouth is full, it is not big enough

3. If when I am grabbing it I do not feel my hand is full, it is not big enough.

[LaffingBear]

Not in my case. The visual effect has some relevancy, but it is mostly how I feel it in my mouth and my hand:

 

1. If it does not trigger the gag reflex, it is not big enough

2. If it feels like a lolly pop, if I do not feel my mouth is full, it is not big enough

3. If when I am grabbing it I do not feel my hand is full, it is not big enough.

Thats sort of how I feel about job offers....

[jeezifonly]

Some pro's out there choose their stage name as an advert for their organ, along the lines of "monster-cock-Joe-Schmo" or twelve-inch-twink"

 

So some escorts are aware of penis measurements as a way to distinguish themselves from other men.

 

When hiring, everything size-wise is relative to something - usually a hunger for the "different". My hubby is tall, so short guys will catch my eyes in ads. If you're pretty sure about the type of activities ahead, it's balancing where that size is an asset against where it's in the way... I have a short gag reflex, but my ass can take large (huge?) toys - if I'm in the mood to get fucked, size will be a factor. Though I'm no top, I can enjoy a session of worshiping a gorgeous behind, for which the cock is a nice garnish (balls, though always are a fascination regardless of size.) I prefer things in proportion overall - into taller, often beefier men- You can't drive a spike with a tack-hammer,now - but I let my hunger speak to me as I peruse ads. If I need "slam me thru the headboard" fucking, I know I need a big cock as part of that. Other times I just want to adore him. When I strike gold, he's into rimming (versatile) has an above average endowment that is managed in a way to feel huge - just warming me up until he moves on to toys which he handles brilliantly. One strikes gold rarely. A final word on proportion. If he's in a suit and it's still his bulge you see, something is not in proportion. A nice honest slightly pendulous 7-incher on a man of 35, 6' 190 seems like a match. You put that same dick on a skinny 19-yr old and it can be cartoonish - a great deal of emotional maturity which includes a sense of humor... needs to be present to keep it real.

"Life's a banquet, and most poor sons-of-bitches are starving to death " You're buying the meal, you have a say as to what's in it and how it's presented- just be nice. If a dish on the buffet doesn't look appetizing, you needn't dip your fingers in to swirl -n- sniff while making a face. Choose another from the offered menu and hopefully it will fill you up.

[Mydavid]

I don't care about the size as long as it can keep hard.

[Kunal]

Anything above my size(8.5), that's it. Love and adore guys 9 and above but can't do anything more than oral seriously!

[TrenoLvr]

Slightly tangentially, size has been a deal breaker for me in past relationships. Two guys inparticular were way too big for me. Both had trouble achieving orgasm, and therefore if they fucked they liked to do so hard, and for very extended periods. I like getting fucked, but it quickly became apparent that I wouldn't be able to let them fuck me often, which was disappointing for both of them. Ultimately it killed a couple of promising relationships.

 

It has also been a deal breaker with two very hung top clients. Both of the guys in question liked to fuck very hard, and didn't really care about my comfort level. I met the first guy half a dozen times, and told him that I couldn't take it the way he wanted, but despite acknowledging this he didn't alter his behaviour, so I stopped meeting him.

 

 

I just got around to reading this post. Too bad you did not hear the news from emergency rooms that they have seen an increase in fractured penis visits. The leading causes of fractured penis were riding the dick on top and hard pounding. The porn industry seems to have brainwashed people into thinking that rough sex is exciting. Prior to that sex, especially for straights, was supposed to be soft and gentle, you handled a woman with delicate care. But since that is boring to film the porn industry pushed the limits and now have many people thinking that the only way to have sex or reach orgasm is roughly. Not true IF you know what you are doing, a big IF for many guys

[Decatur Guy]

Size: Not my No. 1 consideration. That said, I prefer the 7 to 8 inch range all things being equal. I'll hardly turn away from 6 and below or 9 and above, but 7 to 8 and average thickness is the sweet spot.

[Mydavid]

I don't care. I haven't found any cocks which can get hard but cannot please me.

[TruthBTold]

Size: Not my No. 1 consideration. That said, I prefer the 7 to 8 inch range all things being equal. I'll hardly turn away from 6 and below or 9 and above, but 7 to 8 and average thickness is the sweet spot.

 

I am not a bottom, generally. I guess because of that I just am not sure what "[-] is the sweet spot." Once things get going (meaning once you get used to whatever the guy brings to the table) can you tell the difference between say a 6 medium thick and a 8.5 medium thick? I ask because when I consider bottoming I am often put off because I am afraid I won't be able to take someone, say he is thick and just above average (7").

[Man Crush Morris]

Not a size guy buy when it's particularly large and impressive I do get excited and look at it as a bonus.

[guy69er]

For me, there's something about a nice looking long and thick cock that sort of hypnotizes me. It's a huge turn on for me to have to work to accommodate it, stretch a bit more than would be "easy," and feeling it slide past my tonsils and sensing the pulsing veins on the top of the shaft throbbing against my lips.

 

There's also something hot and gratifying about watching the facial expressions of a really hung guy as he watches and/or feels his huge cock slide balls deep in me for the first few times, like it's an amazing relief, and a gift to be enjoyed over and over.

 

Call me hooked on the big meat.

[+ oldNbusted]

I confess, it's a bit of a thrill to watch a big one bounce around while I'm pounding a guy in the ass, but generally not important.

[MikeyGMin]

For me, there's something about a nice looking long and thick cock that sort of hypnotizes me.

I like the way they feel in your hand. Anywhere else...not so much.

[LaffingBear]

Heres a response that occurs to me.

 

Shape matters. A major, peyronie's curve, can impede some forms of entertainment.

[Rudynate]

Not long ago, this guy contacted me on RM and asked if I was into BBC. I replied in the affirmative. He hastn't been to SF yet. He seemed really nice in our email interaction.

 

https://rentmen.com/Perfect_Ten

[Phil_musc]

That's quite an ad, Rudy. He does know how to stroke the imagination.

I had to look up BBC - thank goodness for the urban dictionary.