Checking first time clients

[+ José Soplanucas]

Hey sexy men. I have a question for you. I have been checking escorts I would hire for a first time by contacting Rentmen reviewers and asking for details about their experience.

Do you use Rentmen to contact the escorts a prospect client has reviewed, and ask them about the client? I don't think you need to lie about this, it would be a perfectly reasonable and legitimate practice.

[+ OliverSaks]

I don't contact people.

 

I think that we all have different methods of vetting, and the requirements we have for our clients are different, so it isn't super helpful a lot of the times.

[MiamiLooker]

http://www.companyofmen.org/threads/price-point-and-alternative-advetising-lowering-rates.120359/page-2#post-1206041

"...while there may not be a code of ethics, I would posit that the first rule of escorting is absolute (or virtually absolute) discretion for the client."

[+ saminseattle]

[+ José Soplanucas]

Lol. I understand, but I would not feel uncomfortable about serious professionals having a discrete and business conversation about a client (myself). I'm not talking about mean girls gossip.

[pubic_assistance]

Seems a reasonable tactic.

[+ g56whiz]

I have my own series of checks as well that doesn't involve contacting other advertisers.

 

It would be interesting to know what criteria you use and why. I wonder if I'd qualify.

 

I may contact other advertisers about a client if the client states they've seen XXX, YYY, and ZZZ advertiser as that is typically an open invitation to ask those advertisers about said client as a reference.

 

If a client tells you he's seen XXX, YYY and ZZZ he's probably told you more about himself than you'll glean from those three practitioners.

 

Escorting isn't a credentialed craft (alas) which makes the quality of the data so gathered of varying value.

 

Now if the client admits he posts here or elsewhere it's perfectly reasonable to assume that a diligent escort might check those posts. I'm rather certain that the fellow I'm seeing next Tuesday will have done so and that research will make our experience more fulfilling. You can be sure I checked his reviews, posts and vidios before engaging him.

[+ PapaTony]

I'd be interested in knowing just a little about the vetting process if you don't mind

[pubic_assistance]

Kurtis Wolfe is just so damn hot, he beats them off with a stick.

[+ g56whiz]

Kurtis Wolfe is just so damn hot, he beats them off with a stick.

 

That too. But if the brain truly is the body's largest sex organ, Kurtis's evident erudition makes him one of the sexiest guys in the business. And then there'a that bod . . . [swoon]

[Kevin Slater]

Kurtis Wolfe is just so damn hot, he beats them off with a stick.

 

Wouldn't his hands be more effective?

 

Kevin Slater

[gentlewick]

The way I'd do it (same way I'd check potential dates or hookups or anyone, really):

 

Google search their phone number, email address, name

Do all of the same searches in Bing and DuckDuckGo

Check any resulting info or names you find from those results

If you have an address, search for that, see who owns the house or property, search their name and follow the trail for anything those searches turn up

If you have photos, do reverse image searches on those and see what turns up

If they describe specific preferences to you, search for those, tweak phrasing a bit, try exact searches

If the client has described themselves, use that when looking for photos or names or other matches

If you have access to super secret escort blacklists or mailing lists or forums or chatrooms as some have suggested exist, ask there with some of the info, or search through their history and see if any of it matches

If they contacted you through a website, use whatever tools the website has for cross referencing the person with reviews etc. as suggested by the OP

 

If you want to pay for it, there's reverse number and email search sites that have more info than the standard search engine (usually). They are used by realtors and other people for marketing purposes, typically.

 

All of the above must be done with a grain of salt. Numbers can change, search engine results aren't perfect, some results will be spam sites trying to game the search engine, etc.

[+ g56whiz]

The way I'd do it (same way I'd check potential dates or hookups or anyone, really):

 

Google search their phone number, email address, name

Do all of the same searches in Bing and DuckDuckGo

Check any resulting info or names you find from those results

If you have an address, search for that, see who owns the house or property, search their name and follow the trail for anything those searches turn up

If you have photos, do reverse image searches on those and see what turns up

If they describe specific preferences to you, search for those, tweak phrasing a bit, try exact searches

If the client has described themselves, use that when looking for photos or names or other matches

If you have access to super secret escort blacklists or mailing lists or forums or chatrooms as some have suggested exist, ask there with some of the info, or search through their history and see if any of it matches

If they contacted you through a website, use whatever tools the website has for cross referencing the person with reviews etc. as suggested by the OP

 

If you want to pay for it, there's reverse number and email search sites that have more info than the standard search engine (usually). They are used by realtors and other people for marketing purposes, typically.

 

All of the above must be done with a grain of salt. Numbers can change, search engine results aren't perfect, some results will be spam sites trying to game the search engine, etc.

 

Phew! I always wondered what an escort did with all his "free" time.

[MiamiLooker]

Lol. I understand, but I would not feel uncomfortable about serious professionals having a discrete and business conversation about a client (myself). I'm not talking about mean girls gossip.

There's that pesky word "professional". How would you define it?

[gentlewick]

The above will take around ten to fifteen minutes based on how much detail you uncover!