Are bad escorts the reason for the season?

[Mocha]

Only one word to describe this - DESPICABLE

 

Do you sometimes think about your reputation? How many people, do you think, would contact you now that you posted something like that on a public forum? As others have said - you have no business being in this business. Get out.

 

Oh shut the fuck up. You get the fuck out. Nobody has posted anything public on here. You don't know the city, the state, the employer, the phone number, the country, the name, the date...It's something any sensible escort would do. It's called screening. And upon screening that's information that was public record and public available. An escort agency would do the same thing. If anything, he's a dummy for contacting and setting false appointments after asking for dick pictures and blowing up my goddamn phone with some strange escort on his personal number. He's lucky, there's escorts out there who would do far worse.

 

And stop making self-serving generalizations and presumptions. You don't know what these people's intentions are or the reasoning behind it. I done told y'all before about that.

[AdamSmith]

@Mocha, a lot of us here are self-employed, just like you. All of us have potential clients, and fake-pretend clients, who get their jollies from trying to abuse us, waste our time, and make us as miserable as they are. It's a universal occupational hazard.

 

If, after this many years in business, you still haven't figured out how to detect those clowns when they first engage you, and cut them off immediately, you're in the wrong business. You don't have the skills or the mindset to be an entrepreneur. You need to go get a nine-to-five, with a boss who tells you what to do and how to do it.

 

Or else you love being miserable and complaining more than you do working toward a normal, fulfilled, rewarding life.

[JamahlBrandon]

@Mocha, a lot of us here are self-employed, just like you. All of us have potential clients, and fake-pretend clients, who get their jollies from trying to abuse us, waste our time, and make us as miserable as they are. It's a universal occupational hazard.

 

If, after this many years of experience, you still haven't figured out how to set up and run your business in ways that let you detect those clowns when they first engage you, and cut them off immediately, you're in the wrong business. You don't have the skills or the mindset to be an entrepreneur. You need to go get a nine-to-five, with a boss who tells you what to do and exactly how to do it.

 

You love being miserable and complaining more than you do working toward a normal, fulfilled, rewarding life.

 

You could apply that to your own life rather than trying to dictate and tell someone how to go about their life. Is cutting someone down the best way to spend your golden years?

 

Let me ask you this: what job are you going to offer that person? Are you going to pay their bills while they make that transition? If not...before you so quick to tell someone how to live their life, make sure you can offer a viable alternative. Not a mean spirited cut down. I know it probably makes someone like you feel powerful cutting down a strong, independent sex worker who loves what they do. You can compare all the jobs you want, but unless you've walked in the boots of a sex worker, you can't make any comparison. You, in your small mind are trying to generalize it. We don't sell phones. Or mortgages. Or timeshares. You'll never know what it's like to sell and advertise this kind of business. And you wouldn't go into a normal job and tell an employee to go independent and sell sex because they have issues with their boss, would you?

 

That said, idk about anyone else's work history but i personally have held many jobs in the past. A boss is the last thing I'd want breathing down my neck.

 

Personally, my way of dealing with gamers and flakes is to put it quite clear in my ad what is to be expected and agreed to. I've noticed since I've done that, it's cut down on a lot over time. I also counter with @ Toptier, as screening is an integral part of safety and verifying. In the screening process, things may be publicly available. Doesn't mean someone goes knocking on doors and such but in the event an escort is in a compromising situation, all that info will be crucial. If you don't do it, I'd suggest it.

[AdamSmith]

You could apply that to your own life rather than trying to dictate and tell someone how to go about their life. Is cutting someone down the best way to spend your golden years?

Fair enough. Let me apply it to my own life:

 

If I found myself complaining about my work as much as you complain here about yours, I would put all my effort into finding some way to fix the things that were making me complain.

 

I would find either a different way to do my work, or else different work to do.

 

In fact I have done that, three different times in my business career. Each time, I realized I was in a situation that I had come to dislike very much, so I tore up that script and created an entirely new situation that I liked a lot better.

 

P.S. Four times, come to think.

[jjkrkwood]

True story: One of my clients thought Donald Trump was just running for attention. And look what happened...

 

Comparing yourself to D TRUMP: another of your "not so great" ideas....

 

[Scorpio]

....The cancels and flakes have become persistent and relentless....

 

Personally, my way of dealing with gamers and flakes is to put it quite clear in my ad what is to be expected and agreed to. I've noticed since I've done that, it's cut down on a lot over time....

 

So which is it: "persistent and relentless" or "cut down on a lot"? It can't be both, since Mocha & JamahlBrandon are the same person.

 

People don't take you seriously because you're prone to hyperbole/histrionics and hypocrisy.

[BaronArtz]

Oh shut the fuck up.

 

Is this how you talk to people? Didn't your mother teach you anything?

[hekilio]

Are Mocha and Jamahl the same person? Seems weird to post using two different user names... and in the same thread?

[MikeBiDude]

Reading the posts from @Mocha are like slowing down to see an accident...

 

I thought he left "for good"??

[pubic_assistance]

People with anger issues shouldn't work in any customer service oriented business.

[Moondance]

Are Mocha and Jamahl the same person?

He is a man of many names (see also Joey Bryant, Jabari Blaine). But who am I to judge? ... My mama didn't really name me Moondance.

[Moondance]

People with anger issues shouldn't work in any customer service oriented business.

It's true. But also true that working in a customer service-oriented business can be the cause of anger issues ... perhaps the case here?

[AdamSmith]

It's true. But also true that working in a customer service-oriented business can be the cause of anger issues ... perhaps the case here?

Then hie he hence into a biz that does not give him ulcers. There are thousands to choose from.

[jjkrkwood]

Reading the posts from @Mocha are like slowing down to see an accident...

 

I thought he left "for good"??

 

Yeah but then as any Diva does, he had a "Comeback"....

[jjkrkwood]

Are Mocha and Jamahl the same person? Seems weird to post using two different user names... and in the same thread?

 

 

YUP, they are.

[Nvr2Thick]

Talking to a regular client of mine, he told me his last 3 escort encounters he was ripped off and saying that he would stop using escorts all together. He put out the idea that perhaps these such experiences are what's causing business for some of us to be affected.

 

I don't believe that bad escorts inspire bad clients any more than I believe bad clients inspire bad escorts. Some guys are just assholes and game players.

[allyouknow]

My personal experience is that texts are useless conversation and a little TOO convenient on both ends. The Escort is a business, the client is client and sometimes is lonely, frustrated, scared etc. I prefer to communicate via email and or an actual phone call. Other wise it becomes one long stream of conciousness episode on a text. And texting is a very impatient way of communication. Just because we can read a text doesn't mean we can answer it. Put everything in an email. answer via email, send address time and verification through text only. It is much easier to refer to one email then several texts.