what exactly does he want

[big-n-tall]

I have almost always been asked what I'm into. I convey without being too graphic. However there is a risk there as well. I told a famous bottom recently that I'm versatile and like cuddling - but he didn't understand that I wanted to top him wholeheartedly. So he didn't prepare and had no lube anyway. So we ended up kissing and cuddling which was fun - but I told him next time I'll be more explicit!

 

Something similar almost happened to me. Before we met for the first time, a particular escort wanted me to sext with him... to rev him up before we met. Although I made many remarks about what I wanted to do to him and his big butt, I never explicitly stated anything about penetration. I thought it was implied. This went on for like a month of us going back and forth. Then one day he asked me, "you want to do more than just finger and rim my ass? Right?" I told him I absolutely wanted to do more. Which of course he was excited to hear.

 

Moral of the story, tell 'em what you want... exactly what you want. That goes for working guys too. You don't have to be graphic about it, but communicate what floats your boat.