what exactly does he want

[down_to_business]

escort sent me the following email:

 

"send me a text with what you are looking for / into"

 

Do you think he asking me to send him an explicit text? I would ask him, but I feel that an email back to ask and I will be placed into the "time waster" category.

[slightly]

It doesn't have to be horny stalker explicit, the text could be something like, "hey *escort name*, it's *your name*. Following on from your email, I'm quite into *the things that float your boat*, and I quite like it when the other guy *does whatever nasty things to you*". However, this is my newbie in the UK perspective, I'm sure the forum members in the US with more experience can better advise.

[+ Keith30309]

Express what you want him to do in terms of things you have enjoyed in the past rather than a list of demands of him. I'd view this as a good sign: it's better to know now that the "must have" is off the table than after you're together. Nobody likes to he handed a laundry list of items that have to be checked off but at least he would know if there are any deal breakers for him.

I wouldn't be explicit but would be clear, especially around the things you really would like to happen. "I've always really enjoyed deep kissing."

[RyanDean]

Ditto to Keith on this one.

I've usually answered honestly but not explicitly, with something like "nothing too elaborate, body contact, me eating you out (front/back)" or whatever.

(I think this question is often a way to suss out whether someone is getting penetrated.)

[marylander1940]

escort sent me the following email:

 

"send me a text with what you are looking for / into"

 

Do you think he asking me to send him an explicit text? I would ask him, but I feel that an email back to ask and I will be placed into the "time waster" category.

 

I'd rather making plans with a 2 mins phone call... but if I was to reply to that text I would just answer.

Top, bottom or versatile

 

Safe or raw

 

When: today, tomorrow, now.

 

Where: hotel, your place, his place.

[mike carey]

escort sent me the following email:

 

"send me a text with what you are looking for / into"

My question is, was this an email out of the blue or was it in response to something you sent to him? If the former, you don't even have to respond, if the latter, it depends on what you asked of him. In general, I agree with what others have said about how you should respond if it was you who started the conversation.

[N13]

I am a bottom who enjoys kissing, cuddling, tasting and laughing usually suffices.

[+ nycman]

"I'm a top who likes to fuck".....usually that's more than enough.

[+ purplekow]

I want to smear you with spaghetti bolognese and then make sure it is covered with sauce and then pour wine in your navel, then eat a hot Italian sausage.

[+ nycman]

I want to smear you with spaghetti bolognese and then make sure it is covered with sauce and then pour wine in your navel, then eat a hot Italian sausage.

 

I wanna party with THIS guy!

[+ Keith30309]

I want to smear you with spaghetti bolognese and then make sure it is covered with sauce and then pour wine in your navel, then eat a hot Italian sausage.

 

Don't forget the ice cream sundae in his ass-crack

[+ Eric Hassan]

Don't forget the ice cream sundae in his ass-crack

 

Oh my ... I had an encounter when I was in grad school involving ice cream. I went out and met this dude and took him home. He ended up making a banana split (no euphemism here - he literally cut a banana and added ice cream and chocolate sauce) in my butt and eating it. What a fucking mess! And so sticky! It was also the least unusual thing that happened that evening.

[liubit]

It was also the least unusual thing that happened that evening.

Really? Care to elaborate? Pray tell, @Eric Hassan, pray tell! Please, please, please, pretty please! :rolleyes:

[+ glennnn]

A banana split sure has lots of sugar.....how about a jumbo Kosher, all-beef, hot dog with mayo or some natural, man-protein as a condiment, @Eric Hassan? Much more healthy.

[+ Eric Hassan]

Really? Care to elaborate? Pray tell, @Eric Hassan, pray tell! Please, please, please, pretty please! :rolleyes:

 

A banana split sure has lots of sugar.....how about a jumbo Kosher, all-beef, hot dog with mayo or some natural, man-protein as a condiment, @Eric Hassan? Much more healthy.

 

I'm going to for full-on pig and order both I eat a LOT of food, no joke. Ask

@Lance_Navarro lol

 

As for the evening, this guy was VERY into pain and humiliation. He most definitely had a black eye afterwards. I have yet to meet anyone else who can match him in terms of the abuse he begged for and took.

[AdamSmith]

What everybody said. I usually say:

I'm a top and bottom, I like the bfe, I enjoy pretty much everything short of scat.

 

(That last is not strictly true but you don't want to frighten the cats right at first. )

[+ glennnn]

I'm going to for full-on pig and order both I eat a LOT of food, no joke. Ask

@Lance_Navarro lol

 

Having you AND @Lance_Navarro occupying my thoughts at the same time is almost too exciting. My mind boggles as I search for a men's room with stalls.

[+ glennnn]

Found one! Thank you, Eric

[+ BigRic]

escort sent me the following email:

 

"send me a text with what you are looking for / into"

 

Do you think he asking me to send him an explicit text? I would ask him, but I feel that an email back to ask and I will be placed into the "time waster" category.

 

FWIW I like the responses from @mike carey, @marylander1940 and especially @Keith30309 so far.

 

Are you a muscle worship guy? Looking for something more explicit? Fetishes? If so, what? I'd give a fairly specific indication and then maybe get more "granular" about anything that you absolutely want to be part of the session.

 

For me personally, the way a prospective client facilitates a (faster) reply and avoids the "time waster" bin is showing that they've read my profile and telling me what they're looking for instead of asking for a laundry list of what I do and don't do.

[down_to_business]

FWIW I like the responses from ...especially @Keith30309 so far...

Don't forget the ice cream sundae in his ass-crack

 

Replied text to escort per your advice... told him " I want to eat an ice cream sundae from inside his ass crack". J/K

[+ BigRic]

"Sexual chocolate!" --Eddie Murphy

[RandyC]

Oh my ... I had an encounter when I was in grad school involving ice cream. I went out and met this dude and took him home. He ended up making a banana split (no euphemism here - he literally cut a banana and added ice cream and chocolate sauce) in my butt and eating it. What a fucking mess! And so sticky! It was also the least unusual thing that happened that evening.

 

I do love salty nuts covered in chocolate!

[LADoug1]

When asked for specific sexual acts aren't you guys worried it might be a sting operation?

[Rudynate]

When asked for specific sexual acts aren't you guys worried it might be a sting operation?

 

 

If you're already communicating with the escort, is that really a risk? I wouldn't respond to an email from out of the blue asking for detailed information about what I was looking for sexually.

[+ DickyF]

I have almost always been asked what I'm into. I convey without being too graphic. However there is a risk there as well. I told a famous bottom recently that I'm versatile and like cuddling - but he didn't understand that I wanted to top him wholeheartedly. So he didn't prepare and had no lube anyway. So we ended up kissing and cuddling which was fun - but I told him next time I'll be more explicit!