Escort needed to break me in.....

[dcman]

Posted this on the Deli and thought it made sense to also have it here. Welcome input from escorts. thanks.

 

There is one guy I have been seeing for a long time. Big Muscle hunk with a beautiful Big endowment. I love the worship, oral and connection but really want to bottom for him, problem is I am very tight and need to find an escort with patience and the right attitude to work with me and get me loosened up over a period of time. Looking for very safe only. Any suggestions in the DC/Baltimore/southern PA/DE area?

Thanks Guys.

 

Please feel free to PM me if you prefer.

 

Thanks to everyone who contributed and those many who PM as well. Three escorts offered their services to work on this project with me and they could have been good choices, but in the long run, one of our fellow posters who is an avid top wanted to take on the job and save his escort money up for Christmas !! So, last night I met him and we had a great session enjoyed by both and can't wait for lesson #2 next week. He has lots of toys and he is very well hung, so graduation night should be a great experience !!!

[marylander1940]

Posted this on the Deli and thought it made sense to also have it here. Welcome input from escorts. thanks.

 

There is one guy I have been seeing for a long time. Big Muscle hunk with a beautiful Big endowment. I love the worship, oral and connection but really want to bottom for him, problem is I am very tight and need to find an escort with patience and the right attitude to work with me and get me loosened up over a period of time. Looking for very safe only. Any suggestions in the DC/Baltimore/southern PA/DE area?

Thanks Guys.

 

Please feel free to PM me if you prefer.

 

First of all if you really ever wanted to do it after posting on here for such a long time you would have done it already....

 

My advice: get a dildo, sit on it and in the future call someone and get it done.

[dcman]

Thanks Marylander but I prefer the PM responses I have received from numerous escorts..... which personalizes the process.

[BeHappy]

I am looking for the same!

[Edward]

dcman. you are way to much touchie feeley

[marylander1940]

Thanks Marylander but I prefer the PM responses I have received from numerous escorts..... which personalizes the process.

 

Please quote me so I know you've mentioned me...

 

Bottoming isn't rocket science!

 

Get a dildo, seat on it to open up and know how it feels, hire an escort sit on him and if you don't like it is not for you.

 

[+ WmClarke]

Bottoming isn't rocket science!

 

Get a dildo, seat on it to open up and know how it feels, hire an escort sit on him and if you don't like it is not for you.

 

It's not that simple.

[marylander1940]

It's not that simple.

 

it is as simple as complicated as you want it to be... believe me!

 

If you're tight, get a dildo and open up, if you don't like is not for you... a top is the one who tried and didn't like it.

[LADoug1]

For me an emotional connection with my partner plays a significant role in pleasurable bottoming. I want to look into the eyes of the guy who's fucking me and feel not just a physical connection but also feel a sense of intimacy. And "Talk it into me" greatly helps!

[RockyHardon]

For me an emotional connection with my partner plays a significant role in pleasurable bottoming. I want to look into the eyes of the guy who's fucking me and feel not just a physical connection but also feel a sense of intimacy. And "Talk it into me" greatly helps!

 

I think this post gets at the essence of what a good escort is supposed to do...provide the connection verbal and physical that allows a newer bottom to be comfortable opening up and giving himself to the top.

[Rudynate]

What I keep wondering is why you wouldn't want the Big Muscle hunk with the beautiful Big endowment to be the one who opens you up.

[Phil_musc]

What I keep wondering is why you wouldn't want the Big Muscle hunk with the beautiful Big endowment to be the one who opens you up.

 

+1

[LADoug1]

What I keep wondering is why you wouldn't want the Big Muscle hunk with the beautiful Big endowment to be the one who opens you up.

Because without training it might hurt like hell.

[Rudynate]

Because without training it might hurt like hell.

 

I still think that the primary object of the OP's affections is the most suitable one to provide that training.

[+ Funguy]

Posted this on the Deli and thought it made sense to also have it here. Welcome input from escorts. thanks.

 

There is one guy I have been seeing for a long time. Big Muscle hunk with a beautiful Big endowment. I love the worship, oral and connection but really want to bottom for him, problem is I am very tight and need to find an escort with patience and the right attitude to work with me and get me loosened up over a period of time. Looking for very safe only. Any suggestions in the DC/Baltimore/southern PA/DE area?

Thanks Guys.

 

Please feel free to PM me if you prefer.

 

Sent you a PM

[marylander1940]

Because without training it might hurt like hell.

 

maybe the OP is a top and doesn't know that he's not meant for bottoming.

 

@Robster You tried and you didn't like it, right? Would you like to keep trying? When did you realize it wasn't for you?

 

@Gar1eth How do you know you're a top only? Did you ever try bottoming?

 

Thanks Marylander but I prefer the PM responses I have received from numerous escorts..... which personalizes the process.

 

Please tell us who are the nominees for the honor and write a review about it.

[+ Funguy]

I used to be a versatile top (80/20) in my youth (ahem) and after many injuries, several back surgeries, and just age-related stuff I have become a versatile bottom (~80/20).

 

I think if introduced correctly, bottoming can be very pleasurable but not for everybody. Perhaps one of the keys is that, and i don't know if this applies to all bottoms, I am exquisitely pleasurably sensitive in that area (totally apart from my prostate). Fingering and rimming will send me into a state of ecstasy!

[bimbosavant]

If he's a professional, he should be able to help you with this - especially considering he's the one you want to do it with.

 

My ONLY* advice is the age old adage of lots of lube and make sure you're in a comfortable position where none of your muscles are contracted to start (spooning is best).

 

Also, delete all thoughts in your head of what it might be like. I've been butt fucked for years on end and every time is different. Some days (even with the same sexual partner) it will feel a different way than it did before.

 

*I digress

[+ Robster]

maybe the OP is a top and doesn't know that he's not meant for bottoming.

 

@Robster You tried and you didn't like it, right? Would you like to keep trying? When did you realize it wasn't for you?

Correct, and I've pretty much given up on trying at this point. I've tried it enough times to know it's not something I'll ever enjoy.

 

Rob

[marylander1940]

Correct, and I've pretty much given up on trying at this point. I've tried it enough times to know it's not something I'll ever enjoy.

 

Rob

 

Exactly!

 

Sir, you're a top!

[dcman]

Posted this on the Deli and thought it made sense to also have it here. Welcome input from escorts. thanks.

 

There is one guy I have been seeing for a long time. Big Muscle hunk with a beautiful Big endowment. I love the worship, oral and connection but really want to bottom for him, problem is I am very tight and need to find an escort with patience and the right attitude to work with me and get me loosened up over a period of time. Looking for very safe only. Any suggestions in the DC/Baltimore/southern PA/DE area?

Thanks Guys.

 

Please feel free to PM me if you prefer.

 

Thanks to everyone who contributed and those many who PM as well. Three escorts offered their services to work on this project with me and they could have been good choices, but in the long run, one of our fellow posters who is an avid top wanted to take on the job and save his escort money up for Christmas !! So, last night I met him and we had a great session enjoyed by both and can't wait for lesson #2 next week. He has lots of toys and he is very well hung, so graduation night should be a great experience !!!

HMM... I posted the reply as an edit by accident.... Thanks Guys.