overnight expectations

[+ Truereview]

I haven't had an overnight companion in 20 years. An overnight might satisfy this void.

Yes, it takes two to satisfy the void, sweet man. It took me 10 years to realize I needed to contribute towards it in ways that were not even apparent to me. Sometimes simplicity is best. So what would make an ideal overnight companion? For me, someone who doesn't take all the covers, smells good, doesn't snore, gets hard when I touch him, and wakes up first to make kawfee. May you find someone who can satisfy your void wonderfully! Smooch

[+ Lance_Navarro]

I haven't had an overnight companion in 20 years. An overnight might satisfy this void.

I'm gonna be in LA in Dec or Jan, just saying

[adriano46]

Wow! Thank you, Becket! One to grow on for sure!

 

As far as overnights, I've outgrown them. Kudos to those who enjoy them. Im far too greedy. I do dailies with escorts. I rather spend 8-12 hours of daytime with an escort than splurge on hearing him snore or me holding in gas . A daily also gives him plenty of opportunity for an night date with someone else and time to recover after he cums 2-3x with me. I feel sorry for his night date, but that's not my problem. I also like dailies bc I sleep like angel that night...a warm glow and a smile on my face. Try them gents & ladies. It is worth taking the day off from work, plus blackout shades can make any bright day a very sexy dark night.

 

PS @wanderer, plenty of hotels offer daily rates at deep discounts.

 

I was nodding my head YES, YES as I read this.

I used to really enjoy overnights, but for the last two or three years, they are more problematic than they are worth.

 

I think the idea of an multiple-hour daytime date is much more civil and doable. I too like to sleep at night, and find it nearly impossible to completely fall asleep when I know a very handsome, hung guy is lying next to me---- naked. Then there is the snore factor (I know I occasionally do it -- or have been told -- and aside from that, I am an extremely light sleeper, so the slightest snoring from him would keep me awake.) I also have a serious day job and after an overnight my day is shot -- really it takes me now two or three days to really recover.

 

As much as I am a morning cuddler and I enjoy morning sex immensely, I also want to be completely showered and have had my teeth brushed, mouth washed, and HIS (and my) butt cleaned! Most escorts I have hired for an overnight (except for a rare few) are not so great in the morning, take forever to wake up, and are definitely NOT on to their A--game first thing. So, I am learning to hire them for afternoons with dinner -- or dinner, then a good hour or two, and then taxi fare for them to get home and me to get sleep.

 

On the overnight... Truereview mentioned something that also rings true. Not sure if this is the residue of chemicals or what, but in the last 3 or 4 overnights I experienced, the guys were very jittery in their sleep (e.g. jerky muscle contractions, wiggly feet, frequent runs to the bathroom where they are ingesting something.... and then more fit-full sleep for them). My compassionate side wants to reach out and hold them until they calm from whatever nightmares they are experiencing but I also assume these are involuntary, and they may not even be aware. And yes... I am at an age(and have slept alone so much) when I need to fart at night, I want to let it rip... not a little squeaky "pfuft" into the mattress, which always makes me wonder... "Did all the gas go?" OK... so on that visual... best to be BY MYSELF and not embarrass myself or the escort... so - like truereview - I am OVER overnights.

[+ Truereview]

I was nodding my head YES, YES as I read this.

I used to really enjoy overnights, but for the last two or three years, they are more problematic than they are worth.

 

I think the idea of an multiple-hour daytime date is much more civil and doable. I too like to sleep at night, and find it nearly impossible to completely fall asleep when I know a very handsome, hung guy is lying next to me---- naked. Then there is the snore factor (I know I occasionally do it -- or have been told -- and aside from that, I am an extremely light sleeper, so the slightest snoring from him would keep me awake.) I also have a serious day job and after an overnight my day is shot -- really it takes me now two or three days to really recover.

 

As much as I am a morning cuddler and I enjoy morning sex immensely, I also want to be completely showered and have had my teeth brushed, mouth washed, and HIS (and my) butt cleaned! Most escorts I have hired for an overnight (except for a rare few) are not so great in the morning, take forever to wake up, and are definitely NOT on to their A--game first thing. So, I am learning to hire them for afternoons with dinner -- or dinner, then a good hour or two, and then taxi fare for them to get home and me to get sleep.

 

On the overnight... Truereview mentioned something that also rings true. Not sure if this is the residue of chemicals or what, but in the last 3 or 4 overnights I experienced, the guys were very jittery in their sleep (e.g. jerky muscle contractions, wiggly feet, frequent runs to the bathroom where they are ingesting something.... and then more fit-full sleep for them). My compassionate side wants to reach out and hold them until they calm from whatever nightmares they are experiencing but I also assume these are involuntary, and they may not even be aware. And yes... I am at an age(and have slept alone so much) when I need to fart at night, I want to let it rip... not a little squeaky "pfuft" into the mattress, which always makes me wonder... "Did all the gas go?" OK... so on that visual... best to be BY MYSELF and not embarrass myself or the escort... so - like truereview - I am OVER overnights.

Thank you for adding so many nuances I had neglected to express to the advantages of a daily. You've given me additional insight about myself that I would not have realized until you articulated your own experience. Gotta luv the forum when it serves as a Johari window.

[Rudynate]

I was nodding my head YES, YES as I read this.

I used to really enjoy overnights, but for the last two or three years, they are more problematic than they are worth.

 

I think the idea of an multiple-hour daytime date is much more civil and doable. I too like to sleep at night, and find it nearly impossible to completely fall asleep when I know a very handsome, hung guy is lying next to me---- naked. Then there is the snore factor (I know I occasionally do it -- or have been told -- and aside from that, I am an extremely light sleeper, so the slightest snoring from him would keep me awake.) I also have a serious day job and after an overnight my day is shot -- really it takes me now two or three days to really recover.

 

As much as I am a morning cuddler and I enjoy morning sex immensely, I also want to be completely showered and have had my teeth brushed, mouth washed, and HIS (and my) butt cleaned! Most escorts I have hired for an overnight (except for a rare few) are not so great in the morning, take forever to wake up, and are definitely NOT on to their A--game first thing. So, I am learning to hire them for afternoons with dinner -- or dinner, then a good hour or two, and then taxi fare for them to get home and me to get sleep.

 

On the overnight... Truereview mentioned something that also rings true. Not sure if this is the residue of chemicals or what, but in the last 3 or 4 overnights I experienced, the guys were very jittery in their sleep (e.g. jerky muscle contractions, wiggly feet, frequent runs to the bathroom where they are ingesting something.... and then more fit-full sleep for them). My compassionate side wants to reach out and hold them until they calm from whatever nightmares they are experiencing but I also assume these are involuntary, and they may not even be aware. And yes... I am at an age(and have slept alone so much) when I need to fart at night, I want to let it rip... not a little squeaky "pfuft" into the mattress, which always makes me wonder... "Did all the gas go?" OK... so on that visual... best to be BY MYSELF and not embarrass myself or the escort... so - like truereview - I am OVER overnights.

 

I just wouldn't even think of an overnight - I like sleeping alone too much. My favorite is a long afternoon with lunch. For me, the afternoon has always been the most congenial time for sex.

[AdamSmith]

Thanks for the input. I felt like if I e-mailed too much information it would be off putting.

In addition to emailing, did you have any phone contact beforehand? Not long wasting-his-time stuff, only that five minutes talking live together can give you -- both you and him -- an infinitely better sense of who each of you is, and whether it is going to click.

[MikeyGMin]

I honestly assumed (and it was wrong of me) that when people pay for an overnight, there was going to be fun more than once.

 

Dude you are being too hard on yourself. I think anyone hiring for an overnight expects more than one round. It's usually a question of whether it is two rounds or three.

[LADoug1]

I'm gonna be in LA in Dec or Jan, just saying

Wish it was possible. Thanks for responding!