Buying gifts for escorts on first meeting?

[Meo]

I have never bought a gift for anyone although I often give books off my bookshelves to one guy. Turns out we are both total book nerds. He reads them and always starts an email chain when he's done to discuss it. It's like our own escort book club. Ha. Smart guys are a total turn-on for me!

I do this too, and I intentionally by extra copies (often for a buck or less at Goodwill or similar) of books that I really like or find really important in understanding something. When guests are browsing my shelves and see a title they like, the extra copy makes it really easy for them to ask to borrow it, and if they really like it I just tell them to keep it. I find the hot book of 2-5 years ago is often still worth reading and thanks to Goodwill and the like it's really easy to.

[jjperry]

What do you guys think about buying gifts for an escort on a first meeting? Does it seem creepy and make you feel uncomfortable? Would you see it as a nice gesture? The reason why I would do it is to give the escort a token of appreciation, make him rejoice if he's been having a bad day, and hopefully motivate him to have a good time with me. I think it also shows you a side of the client and helps foster bonding for the session.

 

I usually buy a gift for an escort after the first meeting because I want to get to know them first (or know their clothing size if I were to buy them a shirt or underwear). I prefer tailored gifts, but if I didn't get a chance to know the escort, I would go with non-tailored gift like souvenirs, a hat with a funny phrase, a humorous book, a funny tool (mugs with jokes, cartoonish stuff...etc). I never buy gift cards or the like.

 

Also, I'm just curious, how do you feel about getting gifts AFTER the first meeting (but not on the first meeting). Does the client come off as being too attached? Or do you see it as nice gesture?

 

If I was escorting right now, which I’m not, then a gift on the first meet would make me feel a little uncomfortable. Even if the client’s intentions are good, it would feel that they’re looking for something which runs deeper than what is strictly business. However, if a client were to offer me a gift after the first three meets (an item of clothing: a boxfresh Lacoste polo would be my personal preference), then I would feel more comfortable in knowing that a rapport between myself and the client had been established.

[beachboy]

I have only given a gift once. It was Easter & had hired the escort twice before & I gave him a chocolate Easter Bunny with a bell around his neck. It just seemed appropriate & a small token of appreciation. He seemed to like it!

[jjperry]

I have only given a gift once. It was Easter & had hired the escort twice before & I gave him a chocolate Easter Bunny with a bell around his neck. It just seemed appropriate & a small token of appreciation. He seemed to like it!

 

That sounds like a nice (and timely) gift to offer, actually.

[beachboy]

That sounds like a nice (and timely) gift to offer, actually.

Thanks & welcome to the forum jjperry. Look forward to hearing more from you. Btw that's a hot avatar!

[jjperry]

Thanks & welcome to the forum jjperry. Look forward to hearing more from you.

 

Thanks!

[Todd99]

I've bought gifts for escorts that I see regularly. Never the first meeting and only after I've gotten to know the person and figured out what he might like. I've bought cologne, jewelry, clothes. I've taken the escort shopping and then surprised him on the next appointment with something that he may have had his eye on during the shopping trip. I like to shop and give gifts. It makes me happy. I don't know whether the escort truly liked my gifts (I think he did) or was just acting as part of the experience. So, if it makes you happy, buy him a gift. A good escort will take it, thank you, and make you think he loves it. If you are expecting more, find a boyfriend to buy gifts for--not an escort.

[TaylorREIGNXXX]

I love the idea of a gift though I would probably agree with waiting till you have hung out a couple times. Then it shows you took time to think of the perfect thing and it's not just an item you got in bulk for all your boys haha!

 

But it def does not have to be something just for him. Maybe it's a new toy you can both play with to make the experience even more fun. Or popcorn... I never turn down popcorn!

[beachboy]

Never though of taking popcorn! Taylor you really should include a link to your profile, cos otherwise how would we know where to bring the toys & popcorn?!

[TaylorREIGNXXX]

Never though of taking popcorn! Taylor you really should include a link to your profile, cos otherwise how would we know where to bring the toys & popcorn?!

Where do I include a link? Also the best kind is Jolly Time Blast O Butter. But don't expect me to share. ^_^

[beachboy]

Where do I include a link? Also the best kind is Jolly Time Blast O Butter. But don't expect me to share. ^_^

You could include it on each post as some guys do, or on your avatar profile. Either way guys could find out where you are & what's on offer. If I bring popcorn I'll wrestle you to share!

[Hungmixedboi88]

I was once given a bottle of some really great tequila from a guy I saw a few times it was really nice and we had a celebratory shot even before we parted. A gift on the first date would be nice but may make me a little nervous too. But again whose gonna turn down a really good bottle of tequila?

[Jbdesc]

On the subject of gifts. Someone tell me if this is out of place or not. Met this escort twice so far, both visits over 2 hours. We clicked pretty well on both occasions. I feel we're both very comfortable around each other.

 

His laptop screen is smashed and he has to plug it into a TV to be able to use it. So I found a decent laptop and grabbed it, figure it would be a nice gesture to replace the broken one.

 

Is this out of place, should I not do this? I would say I don't have feelings, but it would be a lie. However, those feelings are those of a good friend - not anything romantic.

 

Should I bring it when we meet next, or gift wrap it for someone else this upcoming holiday?

[liubit]

A laptop? Well, you are really generous, @Jbdesc, and the guy is lucky to have you!

[TopTierTop]

Personally, I think it is a sweet thought, but I prefer if a client invites me for dinner or drinks or even just a coffee. It's nice to get to know them and most of my clients are very nice, interesting people.