Escort dud

[Jacque]

I had hired a newer escort to RM in early August. We had a great time together. Had hired him a second time a few days ago and was a big disappointment. He didn't want to cum and couldn't really get hard. His excuse was that he was seeing like 5 guys that day. Am I wrong for being a bit put off? At his going rate of $300 an hour I expected a better experience. Do I post a bad review on RM and leave it at that? He did say we'd have a better experience next time but don't think there will be a next time. Newer to forum but find alot of helpful info.

[DonaldTramp]

I never expect a guy to cum. If I do...all is good!

[nynakedtop]

That happened to me one time... although we did not discuss the problem, the guy offered me a comp session... I just declined and moved on.

 

Why? Well - I meant the guy no harm. I felt as though a bad review might inflict more damage than was deserved. I did not feel ripped off or cheated, just.... unsatisfied. So I took no further action.

 

I could have been a "regular" for him so, I feel, ultimately, it's his loss!

[mike carey]

Discuss with him in advance what you want. Not all escorts come in every session. Couldn't get hard is less excusable. If you had said all of that was what you expected and he didn't deliver, move on.

[Jacque]

I had made our expectations known on our first visit which included cumming. It seems he was just trying to cram to many folks in on this particular day. I too could have become a regular but think I'll just left this go.

[pubic_assistance]

I had hired a newer escort to RM in early August. We had a great time together. Had hired him a second time a few days ago and was a big disappointment. He didn't want to cum and couldn't really get hard. His excuse was that he was seeing like 5 guys that day. Am I wrong for being a bit put off? At his going rate of $300 an hour I expected a better experience. Do I post a bad review on RM and leave it at that? He did say we'd have a better experience next time but don't think there will be a next time. Newer to forum but find alot of helpful info.

You need to be very specific about what you expect in that area. Yes....he might have just spent his load an hour before you. Whether he's making $300 and hour or $ 500 an hour, mother nature doesn't care. He would have needed to pre-plan. As always COMMUNICATION IS KEY. No, I would not make a bad review. Seems to be a communication problem on YOUR part as the customer, not the fault of the service provider.

[+ Keith30309]

Based on your comments he clearly overbooked himself. He should not have scheduled an appointment at which he was not confident he would be able to offer the requested services at his level of standards. It's no different than having the flu.

 

If I were hiring him I would much rather hear "We should probably reschedule - I don't think I would be able to give you the quality of experience that both of us would like to have" than "I'm sorry I did not meet your expectations. The next time I will deliver what I've committed to." (The fact that the reason is he saw too many clients doesn't really matter. If I'm #5 and it doesn't affect our experience then I've no problem with it.)

If the client still wishes to meet given the heads-up then so be it, but he is at least owed the option of rescheduling.

[UpDownUnder]

Telling you that he was seeing five clients that day definitely falls into the category of TMI. Did he really think sharing that info with you would make the situation better?

[MikeyGMin]

Telling you that he was seeing five clients that day definitely falls into the category of TMI. Did he really think sharing that info with you would make the situation better?

 

That was my first thought too? Extraordinary honest but a pretty dumb thing to say. Also a very busy boy. Must be pretty hot.

[happyguy2]

I am totally with you on this one. Cumming is a deal-breaker for me. Until a few years ago, I never discussed it in the preliminaries, now I do. however, even when some guys told me they couldn't cum, I insisted, and they almost always did. I got the impression they were just "trying to get out of it". just sayin......

[MiamiLooker]

I had hired a newer escort to RM in early August. We had a great time together. Had hired him a second time a few days ago and was a big disappointment. He didn't want to cum and couldn't really get hard. His excuse was that he was seeing like 5 guys that day. Am I wrong for being a bit put off? At his going rate of $300 an hour I expected a better experience. Do I post a bad review on RM and leave it at that? He did say we'd have a better experience next time but don't think there will be a next time. Newer to forum but find alot of helpful info.

Why not just submit an objective review here or on RM or both? It sounds like you don't think you got your money's worth. Probably a lot of other potential clients would feel the same way.

[sincitymix]

I am totally with you on this one. Cumming is a deal-breaker for me. Until a few years ago, I never discussed it in the preliminaries, now I do. however, even when some guys told me they couldn't cum, I insisted, and they almost always did. I got the impression they were just "trying to get out of it". just sayin......

i agree. an escort must cum with me. i could care less if i do, but the escort has to If the escort doesnt, then it just doesnt.. feel right.

[+ glennnn]

Me, too! I am very clear that what gets me off is getting him off. I would rather see him early in the day or on a different day than do without his cum. However, I also realize the guy is not a cum machine and if it doesn't happen once in a while, we can still have a good time. Unfortunately, not getting hard would obviously be unacceptable. Five in one day? They must have been one hour appointments? This escort needs to get real. No erection? No cum? The client might as well have watched porn.

[+ glennnn]

i agree. an escort must cum with me. i could care less if i do, but the escort has to If the escort doesnt, then it just doesnt.. feel right.

 

Or taste right.

[Jacque]

Just going to let this go and chalk up to a bad day. He did say 5 appointments in a day though which I said isn't that pushing it and he responded by saying he's seen up to 6 people a time or two. Yes, as mentioned earlier a bit TMI and not real professional even if he's 25. I think I will just text him that I won't see him again unless we are clear like our first visit. I'll see what he responds.

[caliguy]

Just going to let this go and chalk up to a bad day. He did say 5 appointments in a day though which I said isn't that pushing it and he responded by saying he's seen up to 6 people a time or two. Yes, as mentioned earlier a bit TMI and not real professional even if he's 25. I think I will just text him that I won't see him again unless we are clear like our first visit. I'll see what he responds.

If I said i had 5 clients to do that day it would the same as giving someone the finger. You're only a number I have to do that day. What an insult. Not to mention just gross. Do you want to suck a cock that's been in two or three asses before you that day?

 

@ 300 what a greedy little fuck.

[happyguy2]

If I said i had 5 clients to do that day it would the same as giving someone the finger. You're only a number I have to do that day. What an insult. Not to mention just gross. Do you want to suck a cock that's been in two or three asses before you that day?

 

@ 300 what a greedy little fuck.

very well said indeed.

[pubic_assistance]

If I said i had 5 clients to do that day it would the same as giving someone the finger. You're only a number I have to do that day. What an insult. Not to mention just gross. Do you want to suck a cock that's been in two or three asses before you that day?

 

@ 300 what a greedy little fuck.

Maybe you find that "gross"...but it's certainly not impossible. I'm sure you've sucked plenty of cock that's seen recent action. It's just that this fellow was giving up too much information. It's like peeking into the kitchen at your favorite Chinese restaurant.....you might not want to eat there anymore....ha !

[caliguy]

Maybe you find that "gross"...but it's certainly not impossible. I'm sure you've sucked plenty of cock that's seen recent action. It's just that this fellow was giving up too much information. It's like peeking into the kitchen at your favorite Chinese restaurant.....you might not want to eat there anymore....ha !

Maybe back in my betty the bathouse days. Lol I'm pretty good at detecting recent action. One time a guy's dick smelled like ass. Maybe he just wan't a big fan of showers. Either way it was a one way ticket back out the door. I guess if you can trick me you're welcome to stay. Rarely to never happens though and certainly wouldn't if they told me.

[jimboivyo]

If I said i had 5 clients to do that day it would the same as giving someone the finger. You're only a number I have to do that day. What an insult. Not to mention just gross. Do you want to suck a cock that's been in two or three asses before you that day?

 

@ 300 what a greedy little fuck.

 

when they're on the road, a lot of escorts see multiple guys a day. don't fool yourself. the fantasy wears thin when you start asking questions

[Jacque]

Well I'm at least glad that a few folks feel the way I felt. I thought maybe I was being to sensitive over the matter. Look I understand we are hiring for a reason but when expectations are cut short and given a flip response I thought it was a bit impersonal.

[MiamiLooker]

Just going to let this go and chalk up to a bad day. He did say 5 appointments in a day though which I said isn't that pushing it and he responded by saying he's seen up to 6 people a time or two. Yes, as mentioned earlier a bit TMI and not real professional even if he's 25. I think I will just text him that I won't see him again unless we are clear like our first visit. I'll see what he responds.

That's unfortunate that you've decided not to submit a review. It just gives other clients the opportunity to experience a disappointing session for $300.

[caliguy]

That's unfortunate that you've decided not to submit a review. It just gives other clients the opportunity to experience a disappointing session for $300.

A review would of coarse slow the traffic and force him to practice better customer service and not this assembly line BS. The final control is in Jacques hands but of coarse the saying about being blinded by the dick.

[Becket]

I once took the hottest dancer I've ever seen then or since to the VIP back room at SR in Atlanta. To my great surprise he stripped down to his shoes (dancers are not allowed to be 100% naked, they must have something covered) and proceeded to jack himself off. I was stunned. Couldn't believe it. I rarely expect sex at or with SR dancers, so what a great surprise it was.

[gezellig4u]

Yikes! This thread is making me glad that I have a cadre of regular, non-advertising dates in my home city (as well as other major cities) and have not had to audition any new guys in several years.