Potential client asking me to train him at the gym. Anyone with experience?

[Nathan_L]

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[Juan Vancouver]

You are an escort, not a trainer. You charge for your time and whatever you two do is up to you two. If he wants a trainer and pay a trainer's rate, then he should find a trainer.

 

This is a fantasy, it's not a trainer session, since you are not a trainer and he didn't find you on hireatrainer.com Therefore you should charge your normal rates for time.

 

I have had sessions like this. My rate for my time applied every time. Some of those times, after a workout we went back to his hotel and played, some of those times, we just went to the changing room and he watched me take a shower. One of those guys, after the session just asked if he could have my jockstrap, then packed up his stuff and left.

 

Last thing I would recommend, if you are not a trainer, be very careful about the things you ask your client to do. If he gets hurt, he could become a dick and say he was hiring you as a trainer and you got him hurt. Since you don't have qualifications, which depending on your location might be necessary, you would be at fault. Stick to stuff that will not demand a lot of anatomical knowledge, nothing that puts a lot of stress on joints or needs incredibly good form and try to stay away from elevated heart rates in case his heart is not too strong.

 

You are a beautiful man who has put a lot of effort into his body, you have taken a risk and advertised in an escorting site, these things, as part of your product, come with a price. There is absolutely no reason you would charge what a trainer charges, being that his naked pictures are not posted on the internet on escort sites.

 

This is a fantasy. Not exercise.

 

Worse thing could happen, he will not hire you. But if he does, he will get an unrestricted view of a beautiful, fit, friendly trainer that is also turned on on having his client cop a feel, take a peek and maybe have the possibility to go further later.

 

Have fun and be safe!

[mattr]

You are an escort, not a trainer. You charge for your time and whatever you two do is up to you two. If he wants a trainer and pay a trainer's rate, then he should find a trainer.

 

This is a fantasy, it's not a trainer session, since you are not a trainer and he didn't find you on hireatrainer.com Therefore you should charge your normal rates for time.

 

I have had sessions like this. My rate for my time applied every time. Some of those times, after a workout we went back to his hotel and played, some of those times, we just went to the changing room and he watched me take a shower. One of those guys, after the session just asked if he could have my jockstrap, then packed up his stuff and left.

 

Last thing I would recommend, if you are not a trainer, be very careful about the things you ask your client to do. If he gets hurt, he could become a dick and say he was hiring you as a trainer and you got him hurt. Since you don't have qualifications, which depending on your location might be necessary, you would be at fault. Stick to stuff that will not demand a lot of anatomical knowledge, nothing that puts a lot of stress on joints or needs incredibly good form and try to stay away from elevated heart rates in case his heart is not too strong.

 

You are a beautiful man who has put a lot of effort into his body, you have taken a risk and advertised in an escorting site, these things, as part of your product, come with a price. There is absolutely no reason you would charge what a trainer charges, being that his naked pictures are not posted on the internet on escort sites.

 

This is a fantasy. Not exercise.

 

Worse thing could happen, he will not hire you. But if he does, he will get an unrestricted view of a beautiful, fit, friendly trainer that is also turned on on having his client cop a feel, take a peek and maybe have the possibility to go further later.

 

Have fun and be safe!

MMMMMMMM Juan's jockstrap!!!!

[gallahadesquire]

Juan's point is, as usual, well made. As a retired physician, I'm always very, very careful at giving any advice (If I give any at all) to people. It was bad enough when I had a license, if it were advice out of my field of expertise. Now, I just keep my moth shut.

 

You can hire the dude for time and go workout together, although hiriting a real trainer does maker more sense. And my roommate and I have been trying ti figure out the trianers at the gym for a couple of years.

[Rudynate]

From a client standpoint, it doesn't make much sense either. Unless the escort has been a personal trainer, the client is going get a much better workout from a trainer than he would from the escort, for way less than he will pay the escort. The only way it makes sense is if the client is trying to gratify some gym fantasies - and who doesn't have those?

 

I work out with my trainer at a private fitness studio. There's another trainer there who is impossibly hot. He's a fitness model and has been on the covers of several national magazines, and his specialty is transforming his clients into fitness models. My trainer is fabulous, unbelievably skilled. Yet I keep itching to hire the fitness model. I keep reminding myself that I have a great trainer already and that I'm just chasing the fitness model.

[tennisjock]

Nathan_L. ?..I see this as a fantasy the guy has. So be careful and talk with him about what he really wants and expects. Have fun. Ps please visit Southern California

[jimboivyo]

someone said it already, but I'll second it. you're an escort not a trainer. don't confuse the two and for the sake of ease, don't allow both.

[LD19847]

Also be aware that personal trainers do pay a rent or a percentage of their hourly training fees (some times up to 50%) to the gyms they work in and offering an actual personal training session without paying the gym could get you into trouble.

[Nathan_L]

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[RyanDean]

I arranged for a one-time "trainer with benefits" session with an experienced, well-reviewed gent who also had extensive experience as a fitness professional.

 

It made sense at the time, because I was on a multi-day trip in a part of the country without much access to workout options. At the time, I definitely needed to have supervision in my workouts and, because he would need to travel for a multi-hour session, folding a workout into the evening was more to my preferences than going to dinner. Because the gym at my hotel was basically terrible, we began with the workout in my room, then hit the shower, and then moved to some more "relaxed" time...

 

It was a good session. I did like getting to know the gent in a different way. It was a bit weird to shift gears. I don't know that I'd arrange something similar again. But I'm glad to have tried it.