Seeking guidance for becoming an escort

[LADoug1]

Both physical attributes and perceived personality influence my decision to hire an escort for the first time. Personality and chemistry are the the factors that determine if I decide to re-hire.

[Zapped]

I want to echo comments above. Be yourself, be clean, be professional in responding to inquiries, show up, be on time, be sober/clean, and have a good time with your clients. Some of us are into muscular guys, some aren't. Some of us hire guys into BDSM, others want vanilla only. You can't and won't be the right escort for every potential client. The more you are yourself, the more you can be a fantastic escort for the clients looking for someone like you.

 

So much of it will have to do with your energy and your enjoyment of being with clients. I have friends my age (late middle age) who are so convinced that no one under 40 would be interested in them that they can't tell when someone is. I think I'm terrifically sexy and get hit on by guys in their 20s a lot.

 

Same thing with escorts. If you convince yourself that there's a preferred type and it's not you, business is not going to be good. If you get that there will be plenty of guys attracted to you however you are, you'll find each other and you will prosper.

[MasterMaxRR]

Hi Karn!

 

I believe your questions in the OP have been well answered so I won't address those. Instead I will answer with my thoughts on your most recent inquiries.

 

1. No, you don't need a ripped body to work as an escort, but having one does help to command higher prices. It's a matter of whether it's worth it to you to put the time and energy in to developing your physique to get the benefit of higher prices, but keep in mind there are plenty of clients that prefer a less intimidating physique that they can more easily relate to. I'm not musclebound by any means as I am now 35 and it's not worth it for me to put in so much time trying to fight age and gravity. I thought this would impact my business, but it certainly doesn't seem to be the case. Integrity and kindness matter more than muscles.

 

2. I believe the younger demographic prefers shaved, and older clientele seem to prefer hairy. This is a generalization and close to stereotyping, but it seems to be the case in my experience. It makes more sense to me to advertise what you've got rather than change what you are to fit the needs of others.

 

3. I'm almost dreading posting my opinion on whether cut or uncut is more popular, but I have a good "Brexit" strategy if I get too much backlash on this one. Since you are in Canada, it may well be the norm for clients to like uncut more than cut, but here in the US it is largely preferred that men are cut, but I think it's due to a lack of uncircumcised men here. In Australia, the norm was uncut, yet that didn't seem to affect my business in that I was cut. I think the important thing is to reassure your client if they object to uncut that you have a good sense of hygiene since dealing with dick cheese isn't really many's idea of pleasant and that can be a hard preconception to break through. Truthfully there will always be those who simply have a preference one way or the other and you can't change their minds. Then again, there are those who have only been with cut and want to try something different.

 

Love and Light

Master Max

[+ Abel Rey]

Great advice from all of you guys!

I do agree that the best advice is to BE YOURSELF.

If you have a good personality, people will respond to that and your client base will grow fast.

Every successful escort has a good demeanor, and is a happy person. Clients come back if they feel comfortable and welcomed.

 

In the other hand, if you are an asshole (I don't think you are) use that to your advantage. Sell that as part of the service, there are people who get turn on by cocky, abusive guys.

 

The trick is the correct advertisement.

The right copy in your ad makes a big difference.

Read other ads, get ideas, see what you can add to your ad to make it more attractive and keep selling.

If you know how to sell you assets, you are golden.

[Meo]

Great questions. I think the answers will vary, and it can't be overemphasized that your integrity and ability to be fully present in the moment are more important than anything else--this is what you will be truly known for.

1) I for one prefer a softer look but can tolerate "too many" muscles lol. I think I'm a small minority. The one important thing is post ACCURATE pics--the hard thing with

"best day" muscle pics is they may not hold up over time. It's like any other online dating, look your best but not so unnaturally good that you accidentally over-promise.

2) I agree with Master Max, there is a bit of a generation split with older guys liking hair and younger guys liking smooth. I prefer smooth myself.

3) As a top I have no real preference, but cut is still the majority in the USA.

[pubic_assistance]

"22 year old South Asian" to me is generally key language for more of a "twink" look than muscle boy...so although fitness is always attractive, to gay men, I don't think you NEED to be a muscle god to be an escort. Personally I have a very broad range of tastes in men...so I have hired men of many different looks over the years. Abel Rey ( as always) hits the nail on the head. Every successful escort is a happy person who makes others happy to be with them. Good luck !